How do I handle family members that wants to see me fail?
One thing you need to do is not confuse family (whom you have no choice about) with friends (whom you can CHOOSE based on similar character traits, personalities, etc), Yes, it would be awesome if your family was loving and supportive instead of petty and jealous, but they aren't and there's nothing you can do to change that. So accept it and move forward. The only way to "handle" them is to continue to do amazing things with your life, live your life the way YOU want to and take anything they say with a grain of salt. Say "yeah, okay" and then think to yourself "pssh, whatever" and do what you feel is right. This is exactly why you'll see famous celebrities who don't speak to their dad or their brother or cousin or whomever - because they didn't do anything to help them get where they are but now that they're rich and famous there they are with their hands out. So if they put on a fake smile and congratulate you, honey, put on an even BIGGER fake smile and say "thank you". Don't worry about them talking badly about you behind your back because it just means they have nothing better to do with their lives. Just surround yourself with friends that YOU chose to be around you and who will support you. They can become your family. Good luck in the future!
What is more important: money or family?
For me, money and family both are important but not equally.Family life is amazing. To live with other human beings but never feel like they aren't a part of your heart.Family goes through ups and downs together, laughs and cries together, eats and sleeps together and live together. It is the utmost blessing a person can have to have a loving and caring family.Now money. Money can buy a house, food ,clothes, car, jewellery, furniture and all even few are important. It can make you happy and satisfied. Agreed.But let me share with you an experience.There is a road a bit away from my home where people live in kaccha houses in a line. Those people dont have proper houses and maybe get a square meal. There are small babies who keep lying and playing on footpath. But at lunch time, when they all sit together and eat from one plate, I can see beaming faces of parents who are feeding their playful kids, catching them and making them sit quietly and eat and moreover, eating together. They never show any sight of unhappiness or weariness. So I feel like money is essential but not everything.But Family -everything :)
Will i be successful in life being shy and introvert ?
You might not like my answer, but like you, I had the same problem. Your brother who was the first born, had your parents undivided attention during those five years. The experts say that a child's personality is formed within the first five years. Then you came along and now there were two boys. The attention now was divided between the two of you. Usually the oldest child and the first seems to get more attention, sorry to say but it is true. I know you love and respect your brother and will so for the rest of your lives. What I had to do was to see a therapist, who helped me over a 4 year period to become confident, secure (it seemed that I was always insecure, one of the reasons for my shyness), and a sense of purpose. Without the help of a therapist, I still would be shy and insecure. I seriously wish you luck and a Good Life.
A couple who loved each other truly had to get married to someone else due to family pressure. How do they feel about it now?
The couple loved each other still got married to someone else…this happens in many cases..some of the couples end their life because they cannot see their partner living with someone else..they only want to live with each other.Some of the couples move on after geting married…they cannot completely forget their love..but when they get married..they have their own family..so they try to be happy as they are..It is very very difficult to leave your loved one and get married to someone else…only the ones who have experienced it can tell exactly how it feels…when tou are in love with someone..you imagine your every moment with them…you feel as if you want them every second…you cannot inagine living with someone else other than your partner….But because of the family pressure..some couple have to do this…i think this is the familys mistake…when you separate two loved ones…God never bless them..it is the worst sin i suppose..Being seperated from your partner is the worst feeling ever…i cannot even imagine a single secind without my girlfriend…she is my breath…wherever i will go..she will be with me…and i am gonna marry her..thats for sure…It is the responsibility of the family members to understand where their daughter or son is happy..if they are happy with a particular person…they should let them marry to him/her.People should try to understand the beauty of love…because it is the best experience abyone can have..:it is the best feeling anyone can ever feel. It is the best of all.Hope it helps!:)