TRENDING NEWS

POPULAR NEWS

Child Is Hitting Dogs And Pushing Other Kids About

Toddler hitting/chasing dog?

Everyone and every dog has his limits and your dog will be on the losing end of this one. He could hit his tolerance limit and snap a warning to your son which could result in a bloody nip. If you look carefully (sometimes it helps to videotape) you may see some signs of annoyance in your dog. If there are and they are ignored, he can escalate his behavior.

Your dog needs time to be alone and away from loud noises and little hands. He should have his own quiet place to sleep and his own time out of the house to do things that are fun for him.

Your son needs to be with the dog only when he is calm. He should learn how to not stare at your dog, how to speak in low voices and how to stroke a dog gently. If he can learn how to push a toy and hit the dog, he can learn how to sit quietly and stroke him instead.

I hope everything works out well.

Why do white people put their kids in leashes like dogs?

They do it because they care about the safety of their child
The automatic assumption of most people when the topics of leashes come up is that a dog must be involved.
This is not necessarily true!
A growing number of parents are discovering the advantages to "leashing their children." They find the leashes to not only be an aid in controlling their children, but also a wonderful security feature. With the rise of child abductions and sexual assaults, a potential kidnapper will find the leash an obstacle not worth the effort or risk.
Mothers who have their child's well being in mind will often be berated for "treating their poor child as a dog." Dirty looks, finger pointing and lectures on the supposed trauma being inflicted on the child are common.
The fact is these "well meaning" individuals have no concept of the benefits a leash can give.
How many times have we all seen a poor toddler going through the zoo or spending the entire day with her arm yanked above her shoulder while a parent grasps her hand?
How many times has this same toddler been seen suddenly breaking free of the hold and running out through a crowd or across a parking lot?
Leashes can give the child a sense of freedom while providing security at the same time. The child's leash can be three to six feet in length and used in a variety of situations.
A short leash in a grocery store attached to the mother's wrist allows her to reach for products or read labels without worrying that someone will snatch her child out of the basket.
Small child abductions from grocery baskets or strollers are not at all uncommon.
An adult with a crying or screaming child is often ignored or looked at with disapproval for not having more control. They are rarely seen as possible child abductors carrying an unwilling victim.

How do I stop my primary schooler from hitting another kid?

Akin to cats & dogs naturally marking their territory, males intuitively show their masculinity/aggression to one another, it’s a natural competitive battle with them even in toddler stage. I saw a video yesterday where two, one-and-a-half-year-old boys are duking it out with one another. I’d never seen children that young pushing each other which had me thinking aggression is inborn.“How do I stop my primary schooler from hitting another kid?”“Children learn what they live” they learn to hit when they’ve been hit. Children learn from other children. They may be hit by a kid outside or learned it from home environment.Take your kid to the kid he hit and encourage him to say sorry. If that’s already been tried, and he fails to say sorry, this is not good. He’s getting bad attention. Secondly, only if step one doesn’t work, take him to face the kid he hit, and tell the kid to him back, but only do this at the time the hitting occurs. This seems like bad advice but it remedies the problem. It’s better than the child growing up to be a bully, if it’s not stopped, so trying anything is better than not doing anything about it.Donna Thompson

Why do people say hitting your dog is not effective?

It CAN be effective but it doesn't mean it's going to teach the dog anything. Beating is not training. All you're gonna do is just instill fear in it really... And I absolutely do not get this rubbing-nose-in-urine thing. How is that actually teaching the dog that it isn't supposed to do it in the house? Someone explain... please.

Why do little kids like to abuse animals?

If you know NO is not working doesn’t common sense suggest you try something else the child will take notice of?

Sound like you stand by wringing your stands when no does not stop the deliberately unkind behavior by the child that does know what he is doing and is enjoying it because he also had learned that the “punishments” are so mild, he does not care and carries on.

How about a bit of backbone and removing the child from the dog the instinct he acts up, otherwise there will come a time when the dog is pushed over its tipping point and stops waiting for anyone in the household to help and have his back and solves his own problem with a bite to stop what is happening.

Either protect the dog from the child, or find the dog a new home, he does not deserve to have this undisciplined child, with no respect for animals inflicted on him. Poor dog.

What type of dog is dangerous around children?

All dogs are potentially dangerous around children, particularly since children are rarely taught how to correctly interact with dogs. Young children and dogs should never be left alone together, as all it can take is the child being a bit rough for a bite to happen. No dog breed is inherently dangerous just as no dog breeds are inherently safer. Some individual dogs are more tolerant than others, particularly ones raised alongside human children, but children need to be taught how to interact safely with a dog.For example, any rough play with dogs should be banned. No hitting, no pulling, no hugging. Children should be warned away from stroking dogs’ faces and encouraged more to stroke the chest, neck and sides. If children are playing with dogs, they should use toys. I personally wrestle with my dog, but I also know how to stop him if he’s being too rough.Also, dogs aren’t toys, they need a break. If you see a dog panting, licking their lips or turning away from any human trying to stroke them, give them a time out. Make sure they have somewhere they can go to get away from the tiny, annoying humans and make sure the children know that they’re not allowed to follow the dog to that spot.All breeds of dog can be loving, gentle and great playmates for children, but there needs to be mutual respect there. I’ve seen far too many children slapping, hitting, hugging, trying to pick up or otherwise man-handling dogs in an inappropriate way and what do their parents do? Film it.

What do you do when you catch another kid bullying your kid?

We lived at an apartment complex where a boy was seen shooting at 2 of my daughters with an Airsoft gun.  He managed to hit one of my daughters.  I confronted the boy, who was about 12 years old.  I politely told him that he needs to stop shooting at my daughters.  I also politely told him that if he continued, I would not be so polite, next time.  Shortly, there was a knock at my door.  It was the boy’s mother.  She practically punched my door in, screaming through my closed door.  I called the police.  They escorted her back to her place and talked to the both of us, separately.  It sounded as if the police officers agreed with the way I handled things… no need to start fights with adults when a stern warning to a child should suffice.The following week, I received a notice that my family was being evicted, due to “not fitting in with the culture of the community, therefore we would likely be happier elsewhere”.  We were given 10 days to find alternate housing and move out.  Somehow, we managed under such short notice.  But, as it turned out, the boy that was seen shooting at my daughters was the son of an employee of the management company that owned the apartment complex that we called “home”.  Word of my stern warning surfaced and went to the property manager.  I told her my side of the story, but my side did not matter… we were evicted, end of story.  We moved out and they were right… we are MUCH happier not being at that sh*thole of an apartment complex…So, long story short… I dealt with a bully by confronting him and it got my family evicted.  Seems that bullying runs in that family…

TRENDING NEWS