My brother is having his wedding on my birthday, am I being selfish by getting upset?
My older brother is getting married and he chose my birthday to have his wedding on. I was not planning on having a party but it's still MY birthday. I can't help but feel upset over it because being the third born its bad enough that my birthday gets forgotten now I will definitely be over looked, but am I being selfish? I will be 29 this June so no I am not a little girl.
What do you do if today is your ex’s first birthday after your breakup?
Me & she were in a relationship since 2011, we never wanted to leave each other.Never ever thought of doing the same,But our destiny were decided by her family.But now when she is not mine/i am not her’s & this would be the first birthday of her coming 7 November after breakup, i’m going to do the same as i did for 4 years. we lived in Delhi but her birthday comes at a time when its durga puja & Diwali she always went to her place as per the family requirements, i followed her on to her birthday to see her.She was in Katihar all this 4 to 5 years on her birthday not sure will be in benglorethis time, but i will go her place Katihar itself no matter she is there or not,she knows that, i will go there though we haven't communicated since 24 feb 2016 as all communication are been blocked,not even sure if she is married now.All these years i went 1400 Km just t see her, we would have a have a fight as per our routine can’t miss on those & say bye. our meeting would last for minimum of 5 minutes & max of 2 hours, not sure whats going to happen this time.Not sure where you are Bong, sorry about it couldn't change myself, though still working on it would definitely do one day.stay blessed in your future endeavors..stay happie
What will you do if nobody wishes you on your birthday?
Here is the list of things I can do :Cry myself to sleep.Rung each and every one up and confront them how dare they didn't remember my birthday.Look for answers as to why don't people wish me on my birthday. “ Am I such a horrible person” “ What do I need to change in myself so that people remember my birthday” “ or they remember my birthday just don't feel like making time to wish me”Here is the list of things that I will do :Idgaf , if nobody wishes me on my birthday. Nobody is under any obligation to remember my “ big day”I will go around my usual business. Go to school, teach kids, come back home and sleep peacefully.Eat special dinner at night prepared by my mother consisting of all my favourite things .Tbh, it's been 3–4 years since people stopped wishing me ( except my parents and few friends). Last year even my parents and my boyfriend forgot my birthday. Earlier it used to hurt me a lot that people forget my birthday even though I wish them on their. I used to feel bad , cry like a kid and what not. You won't believe two of my blog posts are about this only :P But eventually I realised,I am the one responsible for it, I had shut myself from the outer world how will they remember it. I am not in contact, rarely online , never text or call them up.I don't have real friends, just online friends. And that kinda friendship requires efforts from both the sides to work.Nobody actually remembers anyone's birthday except the special someone's. They just get notified through social media or something.Nobody is unemployed enough to remember petty things like birthdays. They all have got important things to do.Birthdays are not “big days” so stop worrying and whining about people not remembering it ( note to myself)Those who will care enough will remember and find ways to make it special for you, no matter what :)P.S. If nobody wishes you on your birthday, you can tell me yours and be assured that I Will wish you every year !!Thanks for A2A
How to Politely Cancel a Birthday Party?
Send out simple notes to all the guests and, in your case, be honest with the guests but brief. You don't have to go into details, nor personal life or lack of interest, I mean, don't tell them that you just want a party if it's Asian themed! Just let them know, superficially, why you're canceling the party, something like: "...I'm sorry to inform that the party is canceled because the spending was over the budget planned in advance and at the moment we are unable to make a new plan within the remaining time. I apologize for the inconvenience." After sending the notes, call the guests to be sure they have received the information to avoid people showing up for an event that doesn't exist. I think you can pick another theme or try another way to celebrate, although.
Son's Birthday, ex-wife, new girlfriend?
Just to clear a few things up... Mike : I am acting like an adult, she has got my head in a vice right now but I don't care. It's HIS birthday, not mine, hers or anyone else's and he needs to be with his parents, both of them, as much as possible today. Irene: We have been dating for over 2 years, my kids didn't even meet her for the first year and we recently moved in together in February. They spend 6 out of every 14 days at my house with both of us.