Confused. Need advice.?
I can’t tell if I hate myself or love myself. I go from crying because I’m overweight to admiring my face and embracing the fact that I’m a bit chubby. I don’t know if I like someone. When someone admits they like me, I can’t help but like them back, and that makes me seem whore-ish because I go from guy to guy. Also, I’m always told that I won’t end up with my boyfriends, and I know that’s true. So am I just supposed to not date the people I’m interested in? But here’s the BIG problem; I’m a teenager and everyone has their troubles during their troubles during these times. I’ve grown up without a dad, and wouldn’t say without a father figure because I have an older sister, who’s 10 years older than me. All my mom does is sleep (literally for weeks at a time) My sister works 3 jobs and goes to college, so she’s rarely home, and when she is, she’s spending time with her boyfriend. I eat frozen or canned food every night. I lay in my bed all day on my phone. It’s not like I can go outside (because of my mom) I’m overweight and right now I hate myself for it. When the doctors tell my mom something about it, she just gets all mad and says their bad doctors for telling her how to raise her child. I get embaressed at PE, so I just walk while everyone’s doing the actual excersises (I’m failing that class) I do a bunch of different excersies in my room, but that’s not enough. I can’t talk about it, because in my mom and sisters eyes, I’m healthy. But I’m not. I just need advice.
Any advice for the future (I’m only 13)?
Currently I’m in 7th grade and I’m always thinking about future plans like my job, home, finance, kids etc. just wanted to come on here to see if any of you have advice since I know some of you guys might be older with more experience. I mostly need advice on how I will decide to make my future financial plans since these are things my parents don’t normally discuss with me. I also just need advice anyone reading this wanted when they were younger that would’ve changed things or made outcomes better
I'm very confused about my future. I need help making decisions. Where can I get help?
Dig deep into your childhood memories and try to remember times when you enjoyed most what you were doing. Make a list of such things.Then apply your current constraints like cost of education not affordable, got to get a job asap or have to work in my hometown (illustrations and not necessarily your constraints) or anything else. Filter out those which fail to be feasible in those constraints.If you still have a long enough list, score them on the parameters you used to knock off the earlier ones from the list. Go with whatever scores most.Even if you realize later it was not the best choice, you can always change with some effort. Academics are neither a complete waste nor will hold you back in a particular domain.
My boyfriend is confused about our future, advice please?
My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half. We met in high school but then I moved so we had a LDR. Now we are both in college and actually closer in distance, but still in different states. Normally he is the sweetest guy ever. He sends me nice letters, even sent a gift and communicates with my grandparents who he met once, writes me all the time even when he has a busy day, and is concerned with what I want and how I feel. I would tell him I love him except for the fact that he has a hard time expressing his feelings and I don't want him to feel like I'm moving too fast. There have been a few times in our relationship where he gets confused about things (being long distance, our future, etc). But other than that he tells me I am one of the most important people in the world to him, has admitted to imagining us being married, and he even said once that my name would sound better with his last name. We have also been talking about having sex (we are both almost 20 and have already waited quite a long time for it) and his opinion (which I share) is that we are ready and he has asked about how I want it to happen and how he can make it romantic for me. Yesterday we were talking online and he brought up the topic of him having a hard time expressing himself. He said that I should feel free to be honest with my feelings and tell him how I feel about him. He then apologized for being confused about our relationship, even though he hadn't indicated this before. He said that we are far away and he doesn't know where the future is going. He apologized a lot and said he had probably just ruined both of our days by saying that, and then left for class. I emailed him a picture of a blanket I am making for him and his response was that he can't reciprocate my love so I shouldn't keep putting it into a project like that, and that he appreciates the gesture but now isn't the time for it while he is trying to straighten out his confusion. So, I am left confused when I am normally not. I really care for him and I would consider myself to be a girl who just wants to make each other happy and enjoy our time together. I don't pressure him or anything like that. I hope my future and his will intersect, but because anything can happen I don't think about it. What is going on here and what should I do?
Advice please, for my future's sake??
Hey guys... So I have just obtained a degree in Education for foundation phase learners, thing is, i am not happy with my career choice. In the beginning of my four year course everything seemed all happy and dandy but approaching the end of my second year i started to rethink my career choice. I wanted to drop out of college but i listened to my peers and parents and completed the four year course. I am now more confused than ever about my career choice, i DO NOT want to become a teacher, but at the same time i'm not sure about what i do want to do with my life. Some useful advice please???
All I do if stress about my future, any advice?
I m a high school junior and I have anxiety/ depression problems. I m on meds which helps. But all I do is worry about my future 24/7. I m so lost in terms of what to do in college. I ve been thinking nursing, but I ve heard nursing school is hell on earth and that u have no time to do anything but study. I want to do well, but the last thing I need is to put myself into a situation that is too overwhelming. I m a good student, 3.5 gpa, but I have no motivation to do anything anymore. I have no dreams other than to get married and have kids of my own. I just don t know where to go to school, what to major in or where I ll work. I m so afraid. Does anyone have any advice on overcoming this or feel the same way?
Advice for future jockey?
Note: I already posted this in the "horse racing" category form, but I wanted to post it here too, just to find some different answers. I am a 15 year old girl. My dream since I was in the fourth grade was to become a horse racing jockey. I have been doing eventing and hunter jumper for about four years now. What I am looking for is some advice for any jockeys/trainers/ or anyone accociated with Thoroughbred racing. I really want to do flat racing, no steeplechace. I would like to know just your day to day bacis. How much riding do you do? how much time off do you get? how often do you get to see your family? Also, I would love to know how you got started. Did you ever go to college? Did you start by being a groom at your local stable? riding another disipline? I know this is kind of weird, but I would also kinda like to know how you told your parents that is what you wanted to do. My parents are kind of uneasy about me riding, and I am worried about what they would say if I told them I want to be a jockey. Any advice would be helpful! You don't have to answer the exact questions I asked on here, but something along the lines would be nice, just to help me get started! Thank you so much! Also, I would appriciate it if no one commented telling me about how terriable and dangerous horse racing is. I have done my reasurch, so no need to tell me about that. I do eventing currently, which is pretty dangerous too. All equestrian sports have risks, I am aware. So I don't need to be told again. Thanks for understanding