Constantly Rejected By Females

At what point in constantly getting rejected by woman after woman should you just stop pursuing women altogether?

I’ll post this answer that I previously gave elsewhere.I’m terrible at flirting. I have no game. I get fidgety and nervous around attractive females and have a propensity for mumbling at their breasts. When I try lighthearted banter I say stupid things that embarrass everyone in the room. Low self esteem? Ha!When I hit 25 years old, I had suffered a crippling series of brutal rejections, and I had pretty much resigned myself to a life of loneliness.And then…For no reason, a cousin introduced me to her friend. Her name was Jo. I spoke to her on the phone and cracked a few jokes. She thought I was hilarious. I asked the cousin if Jo was attractive. She told me she was GORGEOUS. I had my doubts, but thought I’d better meet her and see for myself.We met a few weeks later. She WAS gorgeous. She was also funny and kind, and sweet. I didn’t feel awkward around her. I felt relaxed and competent and respected. I asked her out before I knew my mouth was open. It just happened. I usually had to psych myself up for days before I could ask a girl out. We talked without stopping for about six months. She didn’t think I was too skinny, she thought I was sexy. She said she’d never cared for big beefy guys. I had no money. She didn’t care. I had an uncool car. She loved it.That was 20 years ago. She is without reservation the greatest thing that’s ever happened to me. She’s still gorgeous and I’m still skinny. She still thinks I’m sexy. We still don’t have any money. She still doesn’t care. I still drive an uncool car. She loves it. We have 4 amazing kids that are the joy of our lives. I had no idea how fulfilling having teenagers could be. I’m serious.I would say you may be trying too hard. The air of desperation on a man is a total buzzkill for most women. Take the pressure off. Try to relax and focus on being the BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF that you can be. When you meet the right girl, you’ll know. At least….That’s what happened to me.

Why am I always rejected by the men I am interested in?

ALL women get rejected. I've been rejected by men more times than I can count. Every person you're interested in won't be interested in you.Rejection for men and women is not the same. Men tend to pursue, women tend to wait, select, reject guys they don't like. You'd think only men ever get rejected. But this rejection is mostly sexual. Women reject the men they don't want to have sex with. Men rarely sexually reject women. Women are far more sexually selective than men.Just because a guy is not sexually rejecting a woman, doesn't mean he is not rejecting her overall. If he is not willing to date her or give her an opportunity to be in a relationship, he IS rejecting her. Women sometimes don't understand when they are being rejected. The guy is rejecting you but won't mind having sex with you. Women rarely ever do this— want to be intimate while simultaneously rejecting the guy. But men do this every single day, every second. Sure there are some exceptions and not everyone is the same, but these sexual and behavioral differences between men and women are overwhelmingly consistent and common.Rejection is a part of life. Men get sexually rejected almost daily. On dating apps, constantly. Women get rejected less often but when we do, it is a deeper rejection. This is just part of life. We have to learn to gracefully deal with rejection.The most honorable, gentlemanly of men will reject you early in dating, before getting intimate. He would tell you that you're a lovely woman but not what he's looking for. Some men who are more avoidant may still be decent and will hope you just take the hint when they don't respond. That is somewhat cowardly behavior but women do the same constantly. People fear confrontation and the backlash they might receive. In either case, this is a very soft, kind way for a man to reject you.The worst ways men reject women that I've seen, is when they string them along for years in dead-end relationships. Those kind of men could have rejected the woman on a first date or the first month but they instead choose to reject her constantly, daily, for years.So don't be upset. Its better if a guy rejects you upfront instead of stringing you along or taking you for a spin. Rejection happens to everyone and learning to gracefully deal with rejection is a part of life.