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Convince My Mom To Let Me Hang Out With Guys

How do I convince my parents to let me hang out with a guy?

Im 15 years old. I don't really really get to hang out with my friends due to my parents being strict and overprotective, but my friend (whose a guy) asked if I wanted to hang with him this weekend. I really want to,he's helped me with so much in my life even my bad relationship with my dad. but im afraid my SUPER overprotective parents will say no.
But the guy I want to hang out with isn't a bad person
-he's smart, kind, sweet, nice, wants to go to college, has dreams, doesn't drink or smoke. Respectful towards his family and everyone else.
But im afraid they'll still say no. Its not like im he's my boyfriend, I don't have those feelings for him, he's just a really close friend I want to hang out with.
Im a straight A student, i've never gotten in trouble at school, home, or anywhere else and i've never done anyhing wrong to displease them.
So any advice? How do I convince them to let me hang out with my guy-friend?
Im afraid they'll think i'll get pregnant with him or something..but I won't I know I won't im better than that..and advice? help?

How to convince your parents to let you hang out with guys??

tell your parents u r a big girl u need to have a life not be told wat to do with guys tell them u just want them to be friends nothing tell them u r not ready for anything like wat they think the boys would do
tell them i can defend myself if anything happens i won't hang around that guy anymore but that does not mean that all the boys that u r friends with will do the same thing
some r sick os and some r sweet boys who r not thinking about any of that stuff they maybe they just want girls to be they're friend nothing is wrong with being friends
they can't judge every boy u r friends
bc some times u don't just want to be friends with girls sometimes u want to take a brake from talking about boys all the time sometimes u just want to be with boys try doing wat boys do
hope u like the advice

How to convince my mom to let me hang out with my boyfriend ?

Okay. I guess the real question is how do I get enough courage to ask her ? Well & also to actually convince her. I'm almost 14, he's almost 15.
Anyways, my boyfriend & I have been dating for a little more than a month. Which I know doesn't seem that long, but before we dated we were seriously bestfriends for like 9 months. I care about him dearly.
My parents are slightly overprotective.
My mom knows I have a boyfriend, only she doesn't know anything about him. She'll ask me questions every once & while about him & I just won't answer. So what should I say ?
"Hey mom, can I hang out with ___ ?"
I've never really asked her before to hang out with guys.
I did hang out with my boyfriend once, about a month ago, a friend went with me & she knew I was going to a boys house. (It was for a fire & there was going to be tons of other people) & I ended up telling her the next day that it was at ___ ______'s house. But she didn't know he was my boyfriend.
It really upsets him when I say I can't hang out, he doesn't get angry just sad. & his sister made the comment that our relationship is retarded if we don't hang out. & unfortunaly she's right. So please help. I miss him so much (school has ended).
How do I work up enough courage to ask her, what do I say, & how do I convince her ?

How can I convince my mom to let me hang out with my cousins (one is 18, one is 16, and I'm 17) without making us babysit my 12-year-old brother?

Tell her that you’re OK with babysitting (Actually, you’re being a bit mean in using that term: she probably just wants you to be there if needed rather than leave him all alone at 12 to fend for himself.), but yeah, tell her you’re fine with it but you and your cousins are planning to spend the night investigating and talking about sexual fetishes, polyamorous relationships, and the ups and downs of having transsexual surgery while smoking medicinal marijuana.You could mention that the three of you like to get nude when you hang out (helps you “hang out” better I guess?) and might have a few lady friends (or boy friends?) visiting during the evening. Maybe ask if she’d like you to dig up a “partner” to entertain your kid brother (Hey, that’s what big bros are for, right?)Give it a try… she might change her mind about asking.MJM, who actually thinks that if this is just a one-time deal you should simply stop complaining and do it, but if it’s an all-the-time thing, then yeah, you have some right to get creative in convincing her that your pursuits at age 17 are really, truly not likely to be best pursued with your 12 year old brother in tow all the time…

How can I get my mom to let me hang out with my guy friends?

Howdie there! I have to say, I feel you, sis.I have a similar situation. I’ts kinda different, but on the same chapter. I have a close friend, he’s a guy, he has other guy friends who are my friends, too, and we hang out and eat pizza and stuff.The difference is, she actually lets me hang out with them, because she knows their parents(most of them, at least), and she knows all of my friends. But we live in a small town where everybody knows everybody, so it’s different, somehow.Maybe if your mother met your friends, or knew something about their parents, or you just told them something nice about them, she’d feel safer and let you go.

How to convince my mom to let me date an older guy?

I'm 15 years old and I started dating a guy who was seventeen at the time around 6 months ago. My mom was alright with us going out then and had no problem, until she found out he would be 18 in Feb. Suddenly she flipped out and threatened to make me break up with him. Luckily she didn't. Recently though we got into a fight and broke up. Then got back together. I told my mom of both the fight and the break up but now she is saying that she isn't going to let me date him. She is banning me from going out with him. I will be 16 in 23 days. I don't know how to convince her to let me date him. Any ideas?! Please. I'm really upset right now.

Convince my parents to let me hang out with a guy alone?

My parents are like this too. Just bring another friend (girl) and tell them ur hanging out with a couple of friends. Even if they know you're with the guy, they'll know that ur with another friend. If you were really interested in the guy, then you probably wouldn't bring your friend with you on a date with him. They should realize this and let u go. Just make sure you always bring another friend when hanging out with him.

How do I convince my mom to let me go out with a boy I met online in a town nearby? I'm 17 and I'm sure he's not some predator.

Although you may be sure that this boy is not a predator, you may be surprised at how many 50 year old men have perfectly imitated what a teenager boy would say on line, and what a 17 year old girl wants to hear. He may be who he says he is, or he may not be. You really don’t know.The problem is that sometimes 17 year old girls get abducted and horrible things happen to them— if they survive, all because of an innocent meeting with someone she thought she knew well. Does this happen every time? No. Does it happen half the time? No. But does it happen some of the time? Yes, it does. Your parents are simply not willing to let this be one of those times it does happen, simply because you’re sure of this person’s intentions.Your parents love you, and it’s their job to keep you safe. It stinks to say that the world has gotten to be such a dangerous place, but it has. When you are no longer living at home and living independently on your own, then meet him, but only in a public place where there are a lot of people. I pray things go well for you.

My mom doesn't let me hang out with boys.?

Tell her that you make better friends with guys. If that doesn't work, there isn't much left you can do besides lie. Say, can I go to the theatre with my girl friends? She'll say yes and go with your guy friends. I wouldn't go there unless you absolutely have to though. Lieing leads to problems.

Why won't my parents let me hang out with guys ?

Firstly, what is the age of the boys your hanging with? That is a large factor. And secondly, no parent wants their child to grow up, so seeing you with a guy might scare them into thinking you are wanting relationships and to be an adult way too fast for them. Maybe you could ask your parents if you can go do something with your/his parents there like rollerskating, or a movie, have your parents talk to his beforehand if they are chaperoning. And remind them again, you want them to know you are just friends! (:

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