Do you have any family problems at home?
as most, i dont want to spill my life over a computer screen but ill say a few things that dont bother me so much to say. my parents got divorced before i could talk. now i live with my step mom and my dad because my step dad and mom were drug addicts, and alcoholics who didnt give a damn about me. i was 14 when i left their house and went to my dads because they were always out somewhere, always high, never paid attention to me, and had me sent away to ten brook (if you know what that is) its a boys home because they didnt want to deal with me. keep in mind, i didnt do a thing that was bad at that time, they just didnt want the responsibility of a kid. now that im at my dads and step moms house, its okay. my dads really cool, but my step mom hates me. shes always popping pills and trying to get me kicked out of my house because she wants it to be just her and my dad and she sees me as an intrusion. we dont get along at all, and makes it even harder for me and my dad to be cool because he tends to choose her over me. shes called the cops on me twice just to get me sent out of the house, when i had to go to court for a possession charge she lied and said i had beat her just to get me sent away. my dad knew nothing about it until i called him from jail. he got me out. because of all of that, i guess you could say ive acted out. i do a lot of drugs, i drink, i want to drop out of high school.. etc. ive really given up on life. ive attempted suicide more times than i can count. many by overdose because im too much of a panzy to want to feel pain. every time ive tried to overdose, i just end up getting myself really really high. my family has told me time and time again to kill myself, that no one wants me. and its worked. the only reason im alive today is because of my friends and juggalo family. they have done EVERYTHING for me. they comfort me when i need it, they always have my back, and they never leave my side. they are the only constant comforting thing i have in my life. i would die for them in a heartbeat. i get judged SO much by people who have no idea how i live, what i deal with, and what ive become. i wish more people could see what people have to deal with, but then again, i wouldnt want anyone to have to experince what i have.
What should I do about my family problems?
A2AWelcome to the Real Life!Who does not have family problems? Who does not have issues which take up their time and energy? Is there one family on this planet without a problem? Even Ambanis have had their share of problems and being rich does not solve them - you can take my word for it, I've been a part of an affluent and wealthy family since I gained consciousness but we have had our issues.Calling your father useless shows your mindset. He's sick - that's is misfortune. Tomorrow even you can be sick. Nobody can control that. Even richest of the rich people have had diseases like cancer and no, their family members do not disown them saying that they're useless! If you have an ill father its your responsibility to take care of him. If you don't want to do that then somewhere you're proving the point that he did an extremely wrong thing by caring for you when you were a child and making you capable of writing this question here on a social media website! He should've abandoned you in your childhood and let you beg in streets, you'd have grown up in an even poorer environment and then maybe you'd dream to be a part of this family!Its just that sometimes we do not value what we have until even that is lost and we are left with nothing. We don't understand the value of our family or parents until they're away from us or we lose them.Your family problems aren't something to worry about - but your mindset is! Till the moment you do not change your mindset you can never have a content or happy life. Tomorrow even if you become a millionaire you will again be desolate and depressed about something or the other. Mark my words! Money does not reduces your problems.Today if you die of a disease for which you cannot afford a treatment, tomorrow you might die of a disease which is not possible to cure in this world. The bottom line is - YOU WILL DIE. Death comes to all. Rich people aren't spared and its better to change your mindset before its too late!
How can I help my boyfriend with his family problem?
Getting involved in a loved one’s family problems is like going into a deep mineshaft without any light at all and never finding your way out. You can’t help your boyfriend with his family and even if you did, they wouldn’t appreciate your interference.It’s time for your boyfriend to grow up and face the music. Mom isn’t going to love him as much as the daughter and that’s why he has a girlfriend. He’s a man now and it’s time to accept the love of another adult and return the love as well and forget about mom. He doesn’t have to shut her completely out of his life but his concern needs to be with his life and responsibilities, which includes you.Thanks for the request.
How do you help a friend who's having family problems and they need help right at that moment? What can you say?
This is really good that you want to help your friend to cope up with the problem they're going through because you care for them.But the real problem they don't want to open up their family stories in front of you..So you can only just give them moral support,tell them or make them realize whatever may be the sitution or matter you are there beside them . For that you can do this by writing a note or msg that you really care for them and this stressful and sad face of them you can't see anymore .so,being a friend they can freely talk with you.And please make sure that they trust you.. :-)
Really bad family problems, please help?
Hey. Please take the time to read this if you can. Im 15 years old and i have some mega family issues and i would really really like some help. I used to live with my dad and he was amazing in every way imaginable, but he suddenly turned and he became a child abuser. It started off with him swearing at me and yelling at me for everything i did, but then he started threatening me, saying he was going to break every bone in my body and knock my teeth out ETC... then he started saying he didn't love me anymore. It got worse and he started hurting me (which i wont get into full detail about) but some of the things he did have left scars. Ive been taken away from him now, and i haven't seen him for about a year. But now i live with my mum, and i thought it would be better but it really isn't too good. Shes started having a go at me for everything i do, and she keeps threatening me too saying similar things to what my dad said, such as knocking my teeth out ETC... and then she slapped me across the face. Im not doing anything wrong she just gets so angry over nothing and i dont know what to do, she tells me that the family hates me and soon ill have no one and i dont understand it:/ now i cant concentrate at school and she never talks to me anymore , she also said she wishes i wasn't hher daughter. Ive been upset for ages and i cant focus on my school work cause im so worried about loosing my mum as well as my dad. I also have a massive operation that's coming up, and all i do is worry. (As i have scoliosis, curvature of the spine) All this worrying is starting to make me ill:/. Most of my life ive had social services involved but they dont help, child line arnt very helpful either. Please can someone give me a little bit of advice? Anything would help, thank you so much :)