What do you do when someone disrespects you?
Quite frankly, I return the favor. However, sometimes that is not the best way to settle things. So, I'm wondering what are some better ways to deal with disrespect.
My ex girl friend broke up with me a few months ago and she recently asked me to do a small favor for her? I told her no. Was this the right response?
Yes. fine people say: “No I can’t “ all the time. It means you have boundaries…just because you may love or have loved her doesn’t mean you are a constant resource when she needs something small or big. You get to decide who you do favors for and why…Good JOB. That said: She was brave to ask. If there is ever a time she asks again and you feel you can do the favor for her..go ahead and say: “Yep as your friend I can help this time.” This time…means “Now” it doesn’t mean always. The favor you do for her also doesn’t invite you back into a love relationship with her and you saying “As a friend I can�� tells her you know that. Some people stoke their own egos by inviting their exes to peek in to their lives…and that is unfair. The break up was her idea. The way you form a friendship or decide to have none at all..given these circumstances is totally up to you. Only do for her what you would do for any friend…no special favors like buying her a new outfit or a date with someone else…but maybe…”Hey I had a date tell me I am self centered..do you think that?” an honest answer would be a gift then..right? up to you what you give when…to everyone.
What do you do when someone touches you by accident on the bus or steps on you, or if you are in his way on the elevator and he or she don’t say they are sorry and are totally without feeling to the incident?
One day while driving, I came up to some construction where two lanes had to merge into one in order to continue down the street. I had just worked all day, was exhausted, and had my daughter in the back seat talking a mile a minute. After merging into the lane to continue, I noticed the car behind me honking and waving. I couldn’t figure out what he was trying to tell me. When the traffic stopped the guy GOT OUT of his car and approached mine. I opened my window a crack. “You didn’t wave,” he said. Huh?? I just stared at him blankly. “You’re supposed to say thank you!!” I continued to stare at him with a confused look on my face and he just stalked away back to his car. After a few moments I realized that he was mad because I hadn’t waved a thank you when he let me in front of him in order to merge!!I live in Ontario, Canada and it is indeed very important here to say please, thank you, and of course sorry but I was pretty pissed off that this guy came up to my car. First of all, in a situation like that a zipper merge is completely appropriate so it wasn’t like he was doing me a huge favour. Secondly, I think him storming up to my car was substantially more rude than me not waving a thank you. I was completely focused on driving in construction while trying to listen and answer an 8 year old child.I know your question was about saying sorry but I think this is the same kind of thing. The point is that you don’t know what is going on in a person’s mind and they may not have even noticed that they have bumped you or got in your way. You probably have done the same countless times. If you are concerned about manners then worry about your own. You can only control your own behaviour so stick to that. Even if the other person is simply an asshole, making a big deal out of it will only ruin your own mood.
How life can change in few seconds?
Suppose you have completed your graduation from a reputed university 2 years ago but even then you don't have a satisfactory job. You work really hard but it is not very well paying job. Furthermore, you have a 3 year long relationship with your college time crush. You both are very happy with each other. Moreover, you have just bought a new apartment with your girlfriend who is also happy with her job. In short, you have a well settled life going on, your only wish is that you had a more well paying job.Suddenly, on one fine day at office, your boss calls you in his office, very impressed by your recent work, and offers you a promotion to higher position. But the job is in a different country. It is a high paid job, and also it is in your dream country. You are very happy and excited after hearing about the offer. You go home and talk to your girlfriend about it expecting that she will leave her job here and accompany you. But to your surprise she says that she loves her job here and also don't want to leave her old parents alone who lives in the same state, and you can go alone if you wish.And there you are, you have a huge life decision in front of you whether you will take the huge offer and go for a great job in your dream country or you leave the offer a live with your girlfriend.
I'm 14 years old. I made a huge mistake. Me and my boyfriend had sex last night. Could I be pregnant?
I'm scared out of my mind. We didn't have a condom and it was in the heat of the moment. I know y'all are going to say "Don't do something if you don't want the consequences." I know I know. I'm never doing it again. I can't take how scared I am that I'm pregnant. All he did was stick it in and pulled it right out. It was all of maybe a min. Maybe 2. I can't stop crying. I am freaking out. I can't be pregnant. He didn't even *** Till about 15 mins after. Is there big chance I'm pregnant? I'm so scared. It was my first time ever having sex and I just wann take it back. I don't start my period for another 22 days.
Can 16 years old boy make 18 years old girl to fall pregnant in 20 minutes?
If his dick went inside her pussy he can even if it was 20 econds. When I was 16 had a girl kept resisting letting me fuck her but would play with me and touch my crotch and rub my dick thru my jeans. Finally got her to let me rub my dick against her naked pussy to let me get off. We got naked and I rubbed my dick against her and rubbed my dick head against her opening. When I felt myself about to cum I pushed inside her and exploded so ya 2 seconds could do it. She wasnt too happy but I pushed all the way in before I pulled out so I could say for sure fucker her. But she wasn't too mad we had sex several more times over next few months.