How to disinvite coworker to my wedding?
I work with this girl. She is 25, blonde, blue eyes and boss’s fav ! We are teachers. Im tall, I have light brown hair, and people often compare me to Angelina. I am not in any way jealous of this girl’s looks. Its more so her behaviour that I cant stand. SO I am getting married in July. My fiancé is handsome and italian. When coworker met fiancé, she was all over him. I had already sent her a save the date, thinking she was a good person and friend as I met her bf many times and things seemed fine. I was really uncomfortable with her behaviour the night she met him. After meeting my fiancé she went on at work about how « hot » he was . she was literally hyperventelating. I have since avoided them meeting and have made every possible excuse about a double date. I try and avoid her at work but she does everything possible to be my friend since I am quite funny and outgoing and close friends with pretty much everyone. Whenever we had been out from june-october (I have stopped going out with her) If a man hit on me or complimented me in any way she would try and give them a sexual stare to « lure » them to her. If I look good at work, I notice her watching me then trying to one-up me the next day with a skin tight dress and sky high stilettos. May I remind you we are teachers- the way she dresses is absurd. My former students tell me she makes them compliment her and her writing examples are always involving her « diamond eyes »
My coworker wants to set me up with her son. Should I meet him?
She says he's breaking up with his boyfriend soon, which is weird to me. She's been asking me to meet him for a month now because she says I'm his type and she thinks we'd make a great couple. I just feel like the fact that he's already in a relationship, even though he is supposedly breaking up with him, would make it awkward to meet him. I'm not a very experienced guy when it comes to relationships and I really don't want to cause problems with him and his future ex, if that happens. But I do kind of want to meet him because I don't exactly have much luck when it comes to meeting guys. This type of thing is what I've waited for, actually because I'm too introverted to go anywhere to meet guys. Should I ask her if her son even wants to meet me? I don't know if this is one of those cases where someone just sees two gay guys and just assumes we're all compatible I will keep asking this until it stays posted and will contact Yahoo over the malicious reporting of my original question
How do I ask a fellow coworker out on a date or at least how do I flirt with her?
Flirting with a female coworker is actually easy when you have the right strategy. Follow these easy to steps to learn how to flirt with a female coworker. Find excuses to touch her. Flirting with a female co worker this way is actually a lot easier than it sounds. This does not mean touch her in a sexual way. If you have to hand her a stack of papers, make sure you brush your hands over hers. Another way you can touch her is by pretending to trip, when your around her, and then grabbing her arms to balance yourself. Even if it is obvious that you did it on purpose, the girl that you are trying to flirt with will probably think it is funny. Walk passed her as often as possible. Even if it is out of way to where you going, walk past her desk. Say hi and smile every time you walk past her. After you do this enough times your coworker will understand that you are flirting with her. If your lucky, she will start finding ways to walk passed you.Be funny. Girls love guys who are funny. To flirt with a female coworker tell her funny jokes. Always make sure your jokes are in good tastes, so you don't offend the female coworker that you want to flirt with. You can also send her funny text messages and emails. Tease her. Girls act like they don't like to be teased, but the truth is that a lot of female coworkers love to be flirted with this way. You need to be careful not to go overboard with this, because teasing a girl too much can make her think that you are just mean. Also, teasing should be light hearted in fun. This means that you should never say anything cruel or hurtful when your teasing a girl. Give her compliments. One of the best way to flirt with a female coworker is to give her compliments. Women often feel insecure, so giving a woman a compliment is a good way to boost her ego and get you noticed. You really can't give a woman too many compliments, so compliment her every chance you get. While flirting with a female coworker can be fun, it can also be dangerous. Many companies have strict policies against coworkers flirting with each other. Also, you need to make sure that the female coworker that you are flirting with is easy going, otherwise you flirting could be construed as sexual harassment.
Boss trying to hook me up with another co-worker(!)? Thoughts?
So today after I finish talking to my Boss about something work-related and was about to hang up the phone, she goes "hey, __ (another lady employee) is here, and we were talking about you!" And then she goes on to mention that they were wondering if I had a BF, and that there was this guy at work, who is the same nationality as me, single, around the same age as me, and then she thinks aloud that we shd hook up! I was so embarrassed! It just felt really awkward for me! :-) I think I had seen that guy, and he is cute n all. But that's besides the point. Why was my Boss discussing that with me? Was that innocent and something outta care, or something fishy u think? Btw, from what I remember from the employee handbook, workplace dating is fine as long as it does not affect work. But it was the most awkward moment listening to all that from my Boss!
Do you avoid or accept work place romance? Dating coworkers?
I always said I would never ever date a coworker. Funny thing is this same coworker would always say never date anyone from work. He use to tell me that all the time and I would tell him don't worry I wouldn't. Funny thing is we started hanging out at work parties and when we would all go out after work and came upon a situation were we got really close. We end up dating after awhile and we are now married. I found the love of my life at work. Somewhere we both swore we would never date from...funny how things in life happen. He is a very stable person with a stable personality. If you do plan to date someone I would prepare for the rumors and what might happen if you broke up.
Co worker relationships...why is it such an issue?
It really depends on the kind of person you are, some people can do workplace relationships and even flourish at them, and I have seen others that ended up with horrible endings. Do people say it's weird if you dated someone from church, or school, ect... It's nothing more that a place where people get together and share some kind of goal, best way to know someone before you actually meet them.
Did I catch her off guard, or is she just not interested?
Hi, There's this coworker of mine that I'm very attracted to. She had been sending off some very weird signals that made me think she was interested too (she was getting very hands-on, for example; asked me out casually on a 'friend date;' joked about marrying me one day...etc.). Talking to other coworkers, they said we were "getting very friendly" with each other. I can't help it, even as a shy guy, I can't turn off the flirting when I like a girl, ha. One or two convinced me that I had to take action before it became too late. So, I finally decided to make my move. However, true to my damned nature, I kind of got cold feet when I wanted to ask her out face to face. Hey, I'm quite a bit shy when it comes to that. So I asked a friend for her phone number (I could have found it myself, but that's just creepy), and called her later in the day to ask her out. Finally was able to get her on the line, and I kind of stammered my way through asking her out. Part of me thinks she was caught off guard (since she didn't know my number and I didn't initially know hers), part of me thinks she just didn't want to reject me over the phone, wanting rather to do it face to face (she's very extroverted for the most part). I say this because she got very hesitant and sort of stammered back an answer. I suggested just going out to a casual dinner (not trying to be too intense or make her uncomfortable), and she came back with the fact that she'd have to bring her son with. A large part of me thinks she's trying to use her son as a sort of screen, trying to make me back off or at least signal that she's not as interested as I initially thought. We're tentatively scheduled to go out on Monday evening, but I'll see her tomorrow. Should I save myself the unnecessary emotional hassle and cancel our plans (read: she's not interested), or try to hammer things out more with her (read: she's interested, I just caught her off guard)?