Did I do something wrong to the girl?
Expect less. And you will be happy forever!If you expect so much from a stranger, you will always get disappointed. You have no idea what she is going through now. She might have a lot on her plate already.If you understand mathematics a little, you will know that the best way to keep Your Happiness high in the above equation is to Expect less, since the Outcome is almost a constant.
Why do I want to be a girl? Is there something wrong with me?
I posted this one other time and someone suggested that maybe I should post it again cause it didn't show up. Please don't be mean to me about this. I'm 14 and I dress up like a girl when no one else is around. Part of me is really really embarrassed about it and part of me likes it. I guess that when I'm alone as Taylor I just feel so much better. When I think about what I'm doing after, I don't really feel together; I feel really bad. My mom has a couple of boxes in the attic of hand me downs for my sister from our cousin. These are a couple of the clothes that my sister either hasn't grown into yet or doesn't like. And this is really bad I know, but I use my sister's clothes in her dresser and make sure I put them back exactly like I found them. I'm not too tall or too big so I don't stretch anything out. She'd probably kick my butt and call me a creep if she knew and I wouldn't blame her. I'm just too embarrassed to take the money I have and buy my own stuff. And even if I did buy it somewhere, I'm not sure how I'd hide it or what I'd get. I get left alone in the house for a few hours on weekends completely alone. I dress up then and I do the dishes and stuff like I'm supposed to and all the other chores I can do inside. I'm really scared that my mom might come home early one day so I watch out for her car. Even though I'm scared someone will find out I'm still happier dressed up like a girl than I am any other time. I've thought about this a lot and I don't know what to do. What's wrong with me? You're not supposed to put on your sister's clothes when she's not there; even I think that's kinda creepy. But I get picked on enough in school for being small already without going to a store to buy girl's clothes. I can't buy stuff online either cause you need a credit card for that and I don't want to ask my parents for theirs. I know it's wrong and it would probably make my sister really really mad at me, but I don't know what else I'm supposed to do or why I feel better as a girl. What am I supposed to do to make this better?
Am I doing something wrong?
well age and time is something that we cant stop it hold it in our control.It is time for you to decide you life apart from goal. No matter you can achieve your goal with your hard work,dedication and commitment . but at the same time you must need some one who can support you , understand you motivate you. guide you share your feelings, happiness, sorrows and also look after your needs, dreams and health .SO you must need to get married. getting girlfriend, enjoying a date is something which is like instant way to fulfill lust and desire for a least time. but in the true way you must find a perfect partner who can trust,love and understand you.So my friend its time to pull your socks and find a partner for you. have a word with family and search for a girl.Am 30 years old and I my self in a dilemma whether I will get married or not .at the same time i am in a relationship with a girl who is 6 years younger than me. we both want to marry each other. but there is a lot of consequence, But still am hoping that I will get married with my beloved
Should I ask her if I did something wrong or let it be?
If you feel to ask, ask.You don’t have to start with “what did I do wrong” and put yourself in the pit that you have to dig yourself out of.E.g.: “Hey, something feels different to me. Like you’re upset. What’s up?”However, if you did something against your principles or promises, fess that up first.Then see what else is left once you’ve cleared up the mess you know you made. There may be more mess … but if you didn’t make it, not your job to clean up. Your option to help. But not your job.
What am I doing wrong with girls?
In your question, you are pointing the reason of your problem, of your insatisfaction : the lack of confidence.But before, I would just say that having one girlfriend and having sex once at the age of 19, is not that bad.TrainingYou lack confidence, so we are going to work it to make it better. But you have to know that you aren't going to get confidence immediately. You have to build it little bit by little bit. The first step is to realize that you can talk to other person. Try to engage a conversation and make it last at least two minutes everyday.Second, you have to understand that your fear, your reluctance to talk with girls is irrational. Go and speak with one girl that you are not interested in. Just ask him some random information about how to find a restaurant, a bar, how to go one place. You will understand that they are just normal people and you don't have to stress about it.Last step, try to speak to someone you are interested in. Yes, I know it's difficult. If you feel uncomfortable with it, you can try to insert yourself during a conversation, this way you will have a little time to prepare what you are going to say. Other advicesIt seems you have opportunities but you don't know how to use them in your favor. You are probably overthinking, overthinking is going to freeze you and you won't be able to do anything. In order to avoid "overthinking", try to make your move as fast as possible, when you feel the opportunity, count to 3 and go.If a girl sleep with you, it is a very good sign, you need to be more patient and work it in the long run. A lot of girl don't want to have sex the first night. Just be cool with it, get the girl's phone number and engage conversation. By text message, you should be able to answer easierly.
Should I say 'Did I do something wrong' or 'Have I done something wrong?'?
You should take a look at: What is the best way to describe the difference between the "Present Perfect" and the "Present Perfect Continuous" in English?You will understand what are the differences between these two terms, although these sentences are very similiar and don’t have many differences.Anyway, ‘Have I done something wrong?’ Implies to say something that is current, i.e, something that still affects in the present, for instance: You are in a party, and someone starts staring at you, you approach to him and ask whether you have done anything wrong, anything that has bothered him until now or something that is still bothering him. Other way to differ these two sentences is by mentioning when it happened: “You stared at me in that party, did I do anything wrong to you that day?” See that you mentioned when it happened, you are referring to an action in the past, which doesn’t have any ligation to the present, your friend no longer is mad at you, that action happened in the past, and doesn’t affect in the present. However, if you had said: Have I done anything wrong? It’d imply to say that what you did still affects the present, i.e, it is still bothering your friend, you did something wrong in the past, that has still bothered your friend so far, it might be something that you did and keep doing.Take a look at these examples:Have I done anything that bothered you since the party began? = Yes, you have, you haven’t yet talked to me since the party began.Did I do anythingthat bothered you in the last party? = Yes, don’t you remember? You spent most time seeking for girls.What did I do that made you feel mad at me that day in the party? = You didn’t talk to me, and spent most time drinking.You haven’t talked to me since last week’s party, what have I done? = You haven’t called me since the party ended.
How can I apologize to a girl for something wrong I have done?
Go and speak with IN PERSON.Tell her how you feel about it, its simple.I don't know why people complicates even simple things in life.She is a HUMAN not a SCIENCE THEORY, that some one on quora will give you the right answer and so will you get the right result.Here, result is all up to you and on the mindset of GIRL. No one on Quora know the girl better than you, know that.So just go, speak up with her, express yourself, tell her, it was not what you mean, or in whatever way you find fit expressing your thoughts.The best way to apologises is make it real and the best way to make it real is to be real, know that and so be that.And Hannn, carry a chocolate of her choice, it will be a great help.....Good Luck
Why does this girl hate me like I've done something wrong?
Other than those crimes you have already admitted to, I don't think you are the reason for her saying these things. She has decided that to make herself look good, she needs to put someone down. So she is trying it out as a vehicle to become more popular. If she gets a positive reaction, which in middle school she might for a while. she will continue it, but by next year this will be over no matter what you do.So other than giver her fodder to throw at you, you don't much to do with it.Watch who else is around when she is saying these things and you might learn who she is attempting to impress. Acceptable ways to defuse this include;1 No, you can not punch her running lights out, bad idea.2 Ignore her.3 Make an accepting remark just as you did (I do get roasted don't i?)4 but don't go on about it just remove yourself once you have made your remark..5 immediately pick up with other classmates and walk with them.6 Continue to be kind to all your classmates this can prevent a revolt.7 Soon (a few months) her experiment will prove to be a falure.8 Avoid direct confrontation with her, rather just appear to be kind.
What to do when a girl says nothing is wrong?
Now see, you are going to go far...you actually understand women!! Sometimes things will bother us....it is usually nothing you have done it is something totally unrelated to you.. Sometimes we just feel a little moody & aren't ourselves & there is actually nothing wrong we just feel like crap. Best thing you can do is just be you...don't push for a "you must tell me what is wrong"conversation.. sometimes we just don't want to talk. Rub my feet, rub my back, give me a non-sexual massage (otherwise I think great he is only wanting to make himself feel good & doesn't care how I feel) we are sometimes tricky to figure out. Be nice & considerate but not too overly done or we get suspicious. Do some little special things to surprise her...spoil her..be thoughtful & be different..if she has fingernails & toes that she paints or pedicures ask her if you can paint them & give her a foot massage, wash her hair & give her a scalp massage..I don't know how old you are but if you are not able to do the above do something nice .. my man will run me a bubblebath, wash my back, bring me something to drink... No matter what is bothering her you need to set yourself apart from other people (esp other guys) Alot of times I know my husband is not psychic but I think he should "know" what is wrong even though I know he can't & wouldn't have a way of knowing since he's not a mind reader.
Girls.....Help me with my stupid boyfriend, did I do something wrong?
My boyfriend is such the jealous type. A bunch of friends guys and girls were hanging out chillin and drinking. The conversation turned to a story about a bunch of guys mooning out of a van once. I told my mooning story and then one of the guys said girls don't have the guys to really moon. He said all girls do is expose half a cheek of leave their thong on, they don't full moon. The other girls and I were insulted by this and all stood up got in a line bent all the way over pulled out pants and panties down all the way to our ankles gave the guys a full moon! My boyfriend flipped out and said I was skanky for getting naked if front of a bunch of guys. I don't think bending over and showing your butt is considered nudity, its just mooing. No big deal at all. What do you think?