I made an honest mistake and now the Internet hates me. I've been crucified in the Court of Public Opinion. It was nothing wrong or illegal, but now my personal and work life are ruined. I feel like I've been blacklisted. What do I do?
About a year and a half ago I responded to a request from a reporter at Yahoo! for expert opinion on an article she was writing. She interviewed me and 2 other coaches at the time and asked us to provide our insights on 5 dying careers and 5 better choices [all chosen by her or the editors], and then one other true story about a client.I chose to tell a true story about a client who was considering Librarian as a career path, but upon extensive research during our coaching engagement, she decided to pursue Nutritionist instead. When the story was published, my remarks were picked up on by the Librarian community on Yahoo, Twitter, and LinkedIn. For about 10 days or so Librarians all over the place were calling me uneducated, unintelligent, ignorant, and basically skewering me online. When I reached out to my own coach at the time, she said, "When you're pissing people off, you're saying something important." Her advice was to simply ignore their comments.Well, I didn't. Instead I chose to try to explain myself. You know what? That simply fueled the haters even more and they kept on going. There was, however, one person who took the time to email me directly and see that I had touched on a nerve in the Librarian industry and my remarks were actually spot on and she identified it as a problem.Long story short, that email spurred a paid speaking engagement. Guess where? I was invited and PAID to speak to the very haters who had skewered me online at The Annual Librarians Conference in Las Vegas, with over 8,000 attendees. I had the last laugh, and GOT PAID to do it!If that doesn't help you feel any better, remember that this too shall pass.
I made one mistake now everyone hates me?
Okay so I made a mistake, everyone does right? Before this mistake everyone liked me in my friend group. They loved me I guess we were all good friends. I regret this mistake sort of not really. Okay so my friend sorta had a thing with a guy. They never talked or anything she's awkward to be around he didn't like that. They kissed and then after that they stopped talking and stuff. Then a few days after they weren't talking me and this boy were hanging out and we kissed. He kissed me out of surprise. We were cuddling and such before this kiss. Alright so a few days go by and the secret is out that we kissed. Everyone turns on me and the boy except for a few of my friends. They said I hurt The girl and betrayed her. I asked her before we kissed if she still liked him and she said no. Now everyone hates me. I can't handle being hated on. I'm usually never hated on. I feel like I lost everyone. I'm depressed and don't know what to do. Please help me. I still have a thing with this boy because I like him. I know it's bad but I guess I do what makes me happy. Thanks for the advice.
I made a mistake and now everyone hates me. What do I do?
So the other day I decided to prank my friend. I didn't mean to take it so far but the dumb me did it. The prank was using a fake Instagram account and scaring her. Now the prank worked, until I decided to reveal myself as one of my other friends that she doesn't really know but has heard of her. I hate this other friend, and I have no clue why I did it. Then I made a group chat with all three of us (both of my accounts) and my friend's account. I started using my friend's account to swear and say the WORST things ever. The worst part is my friend and I were on FaceTime when it was happening. She wanted to go to bed early and this dumb thing scared her so much. She even was about to call the cops. I told my other friend about the prank and told her not to tell anyone bc I felt so bad the next day. But that didn't work bc she told my other friend that the whole time it was me. Everyone heard (because they told everyone) and now everyone thinks I'm a bully and I'm the meanest person ever. Please help. I have been sick since the day of the prank so I haven't gone to school yet. I don't know what will happen but my parents are forcing me to go to school tomorrow bc they know by now I'm just faking. What do I do please help me!
I committed a mistake and my mom hates me. She told she wished I was never born. I apologized a lot and she doesn't forgive me. Should I end my life?
First of all i also did very big mistakes in life because we are humans but if we did any mistake as human we should know how to apologiseMy mom also told that me but its ok. She had her personal problems .But if u died ur mom’s will be alone in this mercyless world. she will lost her loveliest one . She helps you in your childhood so you should help in thier older lifeNo matter how big your mistake was .your mom’s alway will with you . She’s always with you when you was in pain . She always feel pain when you feel pain. Your mom cried when you are in trouble .your mom happy when you was happy . She alwas help you in your sickness.AND YOU FOOLEST PERSON THINK THAT YOUR MOM DID ALL THIS AND MORE TO LET YOU DIE. HOW WOULD YOU THINK THAT !!!!and last one wise hindu told me this SON CAN BE BAD SON BUT MAA CAN’T BE BAD MAA(chhoru kachoru thay pan mavtar kamavter na thay ) in my language
I kissed my best friends ex and now she hates me?
I feel terrible. I got extremely drunk last night and ended up kissing my best friends ex. I felt awful keeping it from her so I told her about the huge mistake I had made. She said she doesn't wasn't to speak to me again. What am I supposed to do? :(
I made one mistake and now everyone hates me..?
Well in one of my classes we had a sub and a girl who I'm not exactly friends with and we've fought before cell phone rang and the sub said she wouldn't write her up or send her to the office (she could have gotten In School Restriction) The next day our teacher comes back and read the note from the sub and it says "...someones cell phone went off" now I'm kind of close to this teacher and she is the sponsor of a lot of clubs I'm in and I have her for two of my classes so she asked me who it was and I told her it was this girls because I'm a horrible liar and she wouldn't found out some way anyway... Well so the teacher gave our class a lecture and after class the girl asks if she knew it was her phone that went off... and I told her she asked me and I told but that she wasn't in trouble.. Now all my friends hate me for ratting her out even though I told her how sorry I was and she never got in trouble, the teacher never even said anything to her.
Does my dance teacher hate me?
At my high school we have a extremely good dance program. The teacher who runs it "Ms. X" is very strict but turns out incredible dancers. I am a freshman and I made it into the intermediate class and really want to be in advanced next year. I am one of the better dancers in class, but every time i make the tiniest mistake she makes a huge deal about in front of the whole class and makes me do it over again. There are people who make huge mistakes and can barley dance yet she never picks on them. I had a ballet teacher who did a similar thing and my jazz teacher said this meant she thought i had potential. Is this what "Ms. X" is doing or does she truly hate me i don't know why she would i have never done anything wrong and i don't talk in class..... Ah help
I have badly hurt my best friend and now she hates me... how can i get everything back to normal?
I think that your friend is most upset that you didn't trust her & then invaded her privacy. You shouldn't have done that, but everyone makes mistakes. You have apologized to her, now just give her some time to cool down. I know that it's hard, especially since you feel alone right now, but eventually things will come to a compromise. You do need to talk to your parent or to a councelor about these suicidal thoughts that you are having. It's not good to bottle them up inside- they could cause you to do things that are not good for you (like drugs, cutting, or a suicide attempt). Right now you need support & your family is the best place to look for it. If you feel that you can't get the support you need from your family, try going to a trusted teacher. Most times they've been through the same situation & can help be a mediator in stuff like this. EDIT: Please talk to your parents now!!! Cutting yourself won't do anything for you except to make you feel worse! Whatever pleasure or escape it gives you won't last- trust me! I used to cut & it didn't give me anything but more pain. Your parents love you. Your best friend may be mad at you, but I know she wouldn't want you hurting yourself because of her. Please talk to your parents about this!
How do I say sorry to a girl? I made a mistake and hurt her feelings before we were friends now she hates me. What’s anything that will help?
Hi!To start with, you must first accept your mistake and mean it when you apologize. Tell her that you screwed up somewhere and that you understand how it hurt her. If you are at fault, don’t let your ego come in the way; and even if you aren’t at fault, there is nothing wrong to take the high road and apologize to save the friendship. Be true to yourself and your friend. Explain why you did what you did. Tell her how important that friendship is and well, that you don’t want to lose her.In the end, don’t worry even if she doesn’t forgive you instantly. Give her some time and space. She will come back to you if it’s meant to me.Cheers mate!