Step dad touching me, what do i do?
Okay a few weeks ago, my step dad came home and asked if he could sleep in my bed with me, and i told him no, but he could sleep in my bed but i would go down stairs, and he said no neverming. Then like a week ago, i was wearing shorts and they were alittle short and i walked past my step dad he touched the upper part of my leg and was like those are really short shorts, and i walked away to shut off my little brothers toy, and had to walk past him again to get to the couch....and he touched me again.....well later that night he came over to the couch i was laying on and layed down next to me...and started rubbing my legs, and then was rubbing under my sleeve on my tank top....and last night, he came over on the couch and layed down, and put his hand in my pants, but i pretended to be asleep and started moving pretending i was having a bad dream and went upstairs untill he went to be then ran away to my friends house...he only does this when my mom goes to bed... What do i do?
My step dad yells at me for everything?
I can't take it anymore. He's not really my step dad, but he's been with my mom for about7 or 8 years now. I have a little sister who is six and she is his daughter. Whenever i do something wrong she runs to her dad and tells on me, and I know thats natural or little kids to do, but when she asks me to do something and i dont know how to do it or i dont have time to, she goes and does this fake cry thing to her dad. He believes her and yells at me. or if she does something wrong and i tell her to stop, she goes and crys to her dad, he consoles her and yells at me. I honestly cant stand it anymore. She's even sometimes lie about something that I did, and he believes her and gets mad at me. what should I do? someone please help.
Is something wrong with me, is this inappropriate behavior from my step dad?
My step dad always calls me sexy and hott. Sometimes when I am just walking around the house he will pat my butt. When I ask him for foot rubs and back rubs sometimes he touches way to close to all my private parts and it makes me uncomfortable, but I feel like it will be awkward to say something. When he gives me back rubs he also always unsnaps my bras. He also tells me I look just like my mom and have her nice a&&. He doesn't seem like a bad guy, he's normal, but when I think about the things he does and says it just sounds weird, but I don't feel like it's weird. Actually I kind of like it and I don't want to tell him to stop just because I want to see if he really is a bad guy and will do anything else. What's wrong with me? Is his behavior innapropriate? What should I do my mom knows about everything and has never said anything objecting it and my dad won't let me move in with him, but he doesn't know about this. Oh and I am 14 & a freshman in high school if that matters.
Why does my stepdad CONSTANTLY try to come between my mom and I?
Your step father sounds very insecure and there is not much of anything either you or your mom can do to change that. He seems totally unreasonable and paranoid. Your mom should suggest he see a counselor or a doctor. If he refuses, and he treats you both badly, I would say leave. I have no idea how old you are or if your mom works or what your financial situation is. However, this seems like emotional and mental abuse to me. I'd say get out of there as soon as you can. Do you have any relatives where the 2 of you could go for a while or are their assets she could use to get your own place? I recently saw on tv a lawyer told a woman to make sure she knew about all the family's assets and accounts and have copies of them. Then take the things that are yours. Have a good idea what things you are leaving behind which may be of value. Your mom must contact an attorney immediately to protect her in all kinds of ways. He is bullying and hurting both of you with his attitude. Make the break now before things get worse. If he works all day, make your escape when he isn't home but you must get a lawyer and have some idea where you can live. Good luck and it will all be ok. He will be difficult but it will work out for you and your mom
My step dad is putting his hands on me wat should i do?
Putting his hands on you? As in sexually or physically? Neither is acceptable. If it's sexual, you should report it. If it's physical, tell your mother (or father). Your mother's first obligation is to you.
I hate my step dad. What should I do?
Short answer: There's nothing you can do.Long answer: Dealing with parents can be extremely hard. Personally, I lost my father two years ago and my mom almost instantly (two months later) met another man online. My father died in April, my mother met my stepdad in late May, and he lived with us by September. My mother abandoned me for two months with my brother to go stay with my stepdad in Arizona, while I was still grieving. Basically, I have a lot of anger and resentment left over from this. Either way, my new soon-to-be stepdad isn't the best person, to say the least. He treats me much differently (worse) than he treats his own daughter, and says very cruel things to win an argument. He constantly blames me for things I haven't done and my mom believes him, and it's extremely frustrating. Because I broke my phone last month, and currently am unable to pay for my own (my mother is also unable to pay for a nice phone for me), my stepdad pays for it, which is kind, but he uses it as leverage against me. Anything I say wrong turns into me losing my phone for however long he’d like. Usually a few hours. He once gave me a list of things to do in order to get my phone back, so I completed the list and he still wouldn't give it back because he “"doesn't make deals with children.”Our relationship is awful, and he thinks that I like him more than I would admit. I don't, and likely never will.I’m explaining all of this to easily answer your question. No matter how much you hate someone, there is likely no quick, rational solution besides waiting it out. Unless your mother decides to leave him, you'll always be stuck with him. Just try to cope for now.
Was I molested by my stepdad?
Well maybe you were terrified and that's the reason you let him do what ever he did to you but it seems like you tried to stop him from doing it without any violence. I think that your parents marriage is already over because of what he did to you he is always gonna try to do the same thing he did to you he probably thinks that you like him and leave your mom for you since your 19 i think you should first call the cops then tell your mother p.s. most people that get rape get rape from people that are close to them. for example relatives, family members and friends. if you don't do anything you might get rape next time. when you say you don't want to ruin your parents relationship it's like if your saying that if you had a little sister that was being molested by your step father you wouldn't do anything because you don't want to ruin your parents marriage.
Why did my mom tell my step dad I lost my virginity?
Alright... I went to my mom after being sexually active for two months, and told her about me losing it. She always used to tell me to be honest with her and not to hide stuff away from her... so, that's what I did, I decided to tell her everything. Well, she apparently told my step dad because he locked the house phone away in his office and won't let me call anyone, took my cell phone, and has been mad all day and last night. When will he accept it? I'm 17 years old and me and my boyfriend have been together for a while... isn't it normal for people to lose it when they're growing up? I don't regret my choice and I love my boyfriend very much. I got on birth control and he always wears a condom... so, I just wanna know how long it will take for them to get it through their system. Will they ever trust me again?