Why do I have to lie to my boyfriend all the time?
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Why does my boyfriend lie to me?
He is lying because you let him walk away with his bad behavior,basically you let him surpass the relationship boundaries or your personal boundaries.We teach people how to treat us,so if you let him walk away with his toxic behavior and he got comfortable doing it,that answers your question.A relationship is built up on:Trust,value,respect,appreciation,commitment,boundaries,love and care.On every relationship after the honeymoon period is over there will be no excitement or love as it was in the honeymoon,what keeps the relationship going is the trust and commitment.Your love after a time becomes your best friend,someone who will always be there for you as much as you are there for him.Basically with one word love fades after a time,but value,commitment,trust,respect,appreciation remains and that’s what keeps the relationship going.If the trust is broken in the relationship it will never be fixed.You should have called him on his lies everytime,if you didn’t then i don’t know what to tell you,he got comfy that he has you now he is lying or cheating or whatever.Never ever in a relationship give yourself up 100% to the significant other and never allow yourself to be taken for granted,because you are a person with boundaries.He ain’t your mother or father to get comfy and take you for granted,he is your boyfriend.Wish you the best of luck!!!!
Why does my boyfriend lie if he loves me?
Maybe he lies to you because he feels that telling you the truth would cause a argument between you two? Also, maybe he lies because he is embarrassed of the stuff that he is doing and lying to you about. If you come down on him about doing certain things then he lies because he doesn’t want you to get angry then you get angry when you catch him lying. Sometimes telling a lie may be for the better good then telling the truth. Could you imagine what the world would be like if everyone told the truth. I think it would be rude, crass, depressing, etc. There is a awesome movie called the invention of lying, Ricky Gervais is in it and it’s hilarious but it makes a good point on why people lie. For example, what if there was no after life and your mother was on her death bed really scared because she was about to die, wouldn’t you want to lie to her and tell her that the afterlife was full of beauty, bliss, peace, etc. You get my point. I don’t think your boyfriend lies to you because he is being spiteful and malicious, I think he is lying to avoid confrontation. Please don’t get me wrong, I don’t agree with lying about things that matter but I’m not against little white lies. Suppose that Your a full figured woman and your boyfriend didn’t lie at all, and you asked him if your dress made you look fat and since you dislike lies he told you know your fat makes you look fat, again, I think you get my point. Now if he is lying to you about going somewhere with friends but he is really hanging out with another girl then that’s a whole different matter. My wife believes if you can lie about the small stuff then you can lie about the big stuff but I don’t agree with that. Anyways, good luck and I hope it’s just little white lies and not lies to cover cheating and maybe give him some slack, I’m sure if he tells you he loves you then he means it. Telling someone you love them is a serious commitment and shouldn’t be tossed around like a baseball.
My parents are not agreeing to my intercaste marriage. What can I do?
Isn't it great when someone else feels your pain? I personally know at least half a dozen couples who are/were in similar relationship as you. I'll suggest them the same which I advised them.Tell your parents openly that if you love someone else, it doesn't mean that you love them less. They've taught you the meaning of love and passion. How can loving be bad if you learnt if from them?Society will always say something or the other. Even if I marry a girl of your choice, someone will be saying one thing or the other.If you don't agree to me marrying this girl/boy, I won't. I respect your decision and truly believe that you have my goodwill at heart. But in that case, please understand with clarity that I won't marry anyone else. I won't be able to commit or justify my relationship with anyone else and there is no reason why they should be cheated out of an honest relationship.My culture and my religion starts and ends with you. Never have you taught me discrimination. Then why do you think that her caste is more important than what she actually is? Do you mean to say that just because of my caste, I am inferior or superior to someone?These points of debates should be carried out with utmost calm mind, I'll suggest when you are having intricate discussions with your parents.
What was your favorite moment involving milk?
I don’t remember how old I was, but had to be in early grade school - maybe fourth grade.My younger sister and I were at the dinner table, not allowed to leave because we had not finished our meals yet. For me, it was a chicken heart still lying on my plate that I did not want to eat.When my sister was not looking, I tossed it into her glass of milk to hide it. She saw me do it and started crying to my mom, who had had her back turned and didn’t see what happened.I, of course, said, “No, mom! She put it in there herself so she wouldn’t have to drink the milk, and then blamed me!”My mom didn’t know who to believe, so we were both sent to our rooms until one of us confessed. She then set a kitchen timer for every hour on the hour, and when it rang, she would come into each of our rooms with the whipping belt.We were in our rooms for two days.It was not bad. After a while you learn how to make it sound like the whipping was really painful, but you can barely feel it, and our rooms were filled with toys and comic books, and it meant that I did not have to go play baseball with the other kids (I hated playing baseball most of the time).Another favorite moment involving milk was milking the local school’s goat every day, and putting the milk in a big pot on the fire stove to let it evaporate down and condense over a long period of time, making some of the best, sweetest cheese ever.Also, when the local dairy farmer would give me a call, telling me that he had a heifer that had given her first milk (legally, they are not allowed to sell the first milk, because some dairy farmers use hormones on the cow for the first birth which would get into the milk, but he did not), so I could go pick it up. That was a lot of milk, and extremely high in fat, because she had just given birth, so I was free to do all kinds of cheese experiments on it and add different ingredients for different flavors.
I came home and caught another woman in bed with my husband, he claims it was a prank for a YouTube channel he plans on starting. Should I believe him?
LoL, I hope you didn’t believe him. That excuse is so easily proven to be a lie.If your husband truly was making a Youtube Channel prank why didn’t he let you in on his plans in advance. Also why didn’t your husband make sure you were present during this Youtube Prank knowing he would be in bed with another woman that wasn’t you. He doesn’t need a set just his Smartphone camera to video tape everything.I would have said, Great, I will also make a Youtube Prank with another man when you aren’t around and in secret. You can add it to your new Youtube Channel.If I were you I would seek a very good Divorce lawyer. Obviously your husband it too stupid to come up with a more reasonable excuse for cheating on you on your own bed.
How to awaken the wolf inside of me?
My father told me that our family is actually descended from wolfs and he said that every one hundred years the gene that makes you able to transform is passed down into the youngest male child. im that child and i havent been able to awaken that power yet and my dad doesnt know because he never saw his grandpa change (he was the last one to change) i would ask him but he died becuase he stopped changing. but my dad told me that there are other familys like mine out there so if theres any one with the answer please tell me i know this sounds like from that twilight series but thats what i told my dad but he told me that its true in our family)
I hurt my crush........?
Okay so Friday is the last day of school so I wanna make things better by then. So me and my friend were walking to class last friday and my crush walked by with his friend. My crush is soo cute I was staring at him and my friend whose stupid was like "Talk to him" i'm always so scared to because i'm so shy. My crush is kinda of a jerk because him and his friend made fun of me a last weekend-.- so im scared to talk to him because he thinks im a creep even though i did nothing but my friend was like "if you talk to him he'll see how great you are" and so anyway we were walking in the hall and she pushed me into him as hard she could and my elbow went into his nose wicked hard :( he grabbed his nose and blood gushed out it. His friend was like wtf and told a teacher that he was hurt and he went to the nurse (he was bleeding really bad) the nurse called his mom and brought him to the hospital. I feel like such a bad person i never meant to hurt him :( i blew everything even more.. What can I do to make this better???? :/