My mom invades my privacy?
she sneeks into my room and goes through my stuff and if she dosent like it, she will leave it sitting on the ground and then yell at me later. aka a plate i ate off, a page of homework I got a bad grade on, stupid **** like that, it annoys the hell out of me and is not right
Is my mom invading my privacy???
okay, so my mom was gone for 5 days and while she was gone i went out with a guy that i wasn't supposed to and i told my mom that i was hanging out at this one girls house. anyways, the night ended really badly, and awhile after she got home from her trip she kept saying to me "your eyes look different, did something happen while i was gone?" and she'll be staring at me and then i'll be like 'what??' and she'll say "oh nothing...you just look different". and last night i saw that she had been looking at stuff on the internet about what to do when someone u know has been sexually assaulted (which is kinda along the lines of what happened with the guy i went out with). how the hell did she find out?? i don't wanna let her kno that i kno that she knos. the only way she sould have found out, was if she either read my diary or looked at the stuff that i was looking at online. both of which she said that she would never do because it would be an invasion of my privacy. what should i do???
My dad always invades my privacy!!!?
he reads my diaries and personal journals, how matter where i try to hide them. he reads my texts and emails. he's really good with computers so he can see all my web history and everything. its' just so ANNOYING!!! he's invading MY personal space and i hate it. my mom died when i was young and i have no siblings. its just me and my dad alone in the house. i used to be really close to him like a few years ago, but we just sorta fell apart. i want him out of my social and personal life but he just won't mind his own business. i've tried talking to him about it but he claims he "just wants to know me better" what should i do to get him to mind his own business?
My boyfriend invaded my privacy?
he went through my tmobile account and read all of my tmails. but at the same time he found out i kissed a boy. we broke up but he has forgiven me and wants to eventually take me back. i dont think we are ready to get back together. i love him but.. is this wrong or right?
My family invades my privacy? HELP!?
Thats quite disturbing... are they in some sort of cult? Why dont you show them this message actually? Sometimes its easier to talk through written messages instead of speaking, because then they'll read everything through and cant shut you up. How about putting passwords on your equipment? on your computer and your cellphone, so that when its inactive for x amount of minutes, you automatically have to type in a password to be able to access, use it... I think they are going way too far... and even though they control you to such a hallucinating extent, they probably do this because they love you and think they know whats the best for you, but all it is doing is the opposite and pulling you away from the family. Good luck until you can leave the house like when you go to college.
How can I get my mom to stop invading my privacy? I'm 16. My mom keeps taking my phone, going through my stuff, reading my journals and telling others my private thoughts. Now I don't talk to her about private things. How can I get her to stop?
Perhaps it's time to tell her the consequence of her invading your privacy. I have been through that and I can tell you even now at 30 years old, I still don't tell my mum about private things. It's not like I still don't trust her. She hasn't done anything to lose my trust in the last 10 years or so. Even when I told her not to tell anyone that I was pregnant because I want to keep it a secret, she actually followed through while my mother-in-law told every single soul she knew about the news (we weren't very happy with this). But when the habit is formed, it's hard to break. I didn't trust her for years and I made sure I hide and wipe everything that she could find out about my private life for years. It has become a habit that I couldn't break. Even now I only tell her about things when it's all set in stone.I love my mum and I wish our relationship has gone differently. I envy people who has great relationship with their mums and can share with her about many things like best friends. I wish I had the courage to tell her “Please stop invading my privacy and stop telling people about me. If you keep doing that, I don't think I want to tell you anything anymore. If you wish to know more about me, please give me a reason to trust you enough to tell you.”
How do you feel about people who invade the privacy of others?
I think that those people have serious issues with themselves. They have nothing interesting in their lives so they tend to “invade” other people’s lives.When I am doing something and somebody who is not close to me finds out about it, it means that they showed an interest in me even though they shouldn’t and thus, they did not have something better to with their time. Don’t get me wrong here, I don’t say that you shouldn’t care about other people; I just say that you should care the amount that is good enough for everybody to feel comfortable with(i.e. not to invade). But, if a person shows a lot more interest in somebody than he should show, then it means that something is wrong.And what’s wrong is that that person enjoys learning about what other people do, so that person does not find his life worth of spending time on.This makes me feel really sad about those people and disappointed that a lot of people are like this and I wish I could help them by showing that their life could also be more meaningful. For example, I realized that most people who mainly care with their looks rather than having anything else more serious to care about often show an unjustifiably big interest in other people’s lives. You know why? Because caring about looks is one of the most shallow things to care about in life; no complexity, no long-term meaning and no useful outcome. So, in situations like these, I feel the need to just tell them that they should find more meaningful things to do and care about in life.
Girlfriend is invading my privacy, what to do?
My girlfriend has become very jealous recently and I have caught her snooping through my pants for laundry and checking my receipts to see what I buy. The other night I got out of the shower and she was going through my text messages on my phone and emails as well. I grabbed my phone back and said I would appreciate it if you would respect my privacy. She then assumed that I was hiding stuff, so she investigated more. She became so persistent and wanted to know what I was doing on facebook. I gave her my password and told her I had nothing to hide. She checked my profile and went into my inbox. Some friends that are girls had emailed me and I had emailed too. Nothing flirtatious or incriminating of cheating. I really only have eyes for my girlfriend. She then dug back on some old sent messages of stuff I had sent to my old girlfriend. I grabbed the computer and said you do not need to be reading that stuff. It is private and why would you want to read that? she is now accusing me of cheating and thanks I'm this big cheating piece of crap. She wants me to delete my facebook profile, she's kind of getting to be that "crazy girlfriend." She says she can't believe I talk to other girls, but these are my friends and its nothing sexual at all. I really like her and would like to marry her. We are in the process of moving and making a big step. Right now I'm like what the hell am I doing. Maybe she's just being this way to make sure I'm commited to her. I don't know, but I want the jealousy to stop.