At what age do women stop wanting sex?
Some, when they’re buried. Others never wanted it to begin with, and everything in between [1]. Just like with men, it seems that there’s also a “use it or lose it” factor in play, with women who were sexually active throughout life and sex positive in general staying sexualy active longer as they age.It also very, very much depends on their partners. Being with multiple partners at the same time, it’s fascinating for me to notice the differences in my personality and behavior between the two relationships.For example, one of my partners is terrible at sex - very repressed, uncomfortable, incapable of communicating about it, not enjoying giving me pleasure much (and barely enjoying himself, due to strict religious upbringing) and on top of it is taking numerous medications that are making the functional part of it more difficult.If you asked him, I’m not interested in sex any more. And, I’m not - with him. It’s a stressful, drawn out chore that I do from time to time because I love him, not because I want it or get anything out of it aside from giving him sexual relief and some physical closeness he usually avoids. (He’s awesome in other ways, sex is not a significant factor in our relationship.)My other partner is highly sexual, kinky, delightfully compatible, uninhibited and extremely invested in my pleasure. If you asked him, I’m the horniest woman he’s ever been with, and I can’t wait to get my hands on him even after the 14+ years we’ve been together. (His other girlfriend, who has passed the menopause before they first met, claims she’s never been as interested in sex as she’s now, with him - because the payoff just wasn’t there with the couple of previous partners she had.)Footnotes[1] Low sexual desire in midlife and older women: personality... : Menopause
Why did I stop finding other men attractive no matter how handsome they might be except for one? How can I make a man feel the same way towards me and stop looking at other women?
You’ve put all your eggs in one basket, so if for any reason, the “one” you feel attracted towards doesn’t feel attracted towards you alone any more, you’re in deep doo-doo!Besides, you can’t make anyone else do anything. (Heck - most of the time you can’t even make yourself do anything! At least not anything really serious.) The best you can do is to influence others, but that can’t be done from a position of desperation on your part; it can only be done from a position of extreme happiness. If you’re in the least bit worried about them not being influenced by you, you’re not going to be influencing them … and then again you’re in deep doo-doo.Best suggestion? Become “trysexual” like me; try anything sexually with anyone at least once or twice before saying “no thank you”. You might surprise yourself! And in any case, what’s the harm? Get on Tinder at the very least. There are also lots of NSA hookup sites you should try out. Craigslist is another opportunity; so is Locanto (e.g.: https://ottawa.locanto.ca/ID_304...). Become a member of “True nudists” (The Largest Social Network for Nudists). And for heaven’s sake become a Pornhub Premium member - it’s cheap! - and upload your own selfie sex videos and photos.And pay for sex once in a while - the pros know what they’re doing! You don’t hesitate to go to restaurants for dinner on the odd occasion, do you, no matter how well you can cook?Do all this for just six months, no more, and you may well find that your attitude has changed enormously.Cheers!+++++
How do I stop caring about if men find me attractive as a young woman?
Why do you want to stop? Is it a concern that is disrupting your life? It is normal to be concerned about that and, unless a young woman is totally self-absorbed, even stereotypically good looking young women are concerned with being attractive to young men. Truly, attraction between two people is a complex concoction of visual and olfactory information, each person's self awareness, and the alchemy of non-verbal communication.I have encountered stereotypically handsome men (in the western culture at this point in time) that women think are so attractive. Most of them do not attract me in the least. Alot of them are too “pretty", too manicured, and they are not my type.I am not sure of your culture, so i dont how much emphasis is placed upon a physically attractive “ideal".If you are really overly focused upon this, I would approach it from the perspective of what physical traits, personality type, clothing, etc. feel “right" to you, and make you feel attractive. When you feel truly attractive, that is the image you will project, and that is how you will attract a person that attracts you!Let me tell you that primal women knew how to be attractive, but cunning. They didnt spend alot of time trying to copy some magazine ideal. They chose a man, invited him non verbally, and then if he chased her, good. If not, then she would look for another.Make yourself feel good first. Stop trying to make yourself attractive for them; make yourself attractive for you. Then, when you are ready to catch someone’s eye, you will decide if you feel like you want to.
How do I stop being attracted to women?
I think something like this is possible, but only by small margins and only for moments at a time.You’ll have to engage in mindful, directed thought that interrupts your feelings of attraction by fixating on the unattractive attributes of a woman.When you catch yourself experiencing attraction, remind yourself exactly what you’re being attracted to.This hypothetical woman poops. If the bidet is not popular in your country, realize that there’s a good chance that the inner folds of her buttocks are smeared haphazardly with poop and sweat. Remember that at this moment, there are parts of her that assuredly smell awful. Imagine those smells.Scan her skin. Fixate on the awkward moles, and barely perceptible film of tiny hairs that allude to her ape ancestry. Apes aren’t that appealing are they?She has beautiful eyes, doesn’t she?Breasts are alluring, but have you ever seen the cross section of one? It’s yellow, fatty, glandular tissue. Do you really want to touch that?While we’re thinking about the cross section of things, have you ever seen imagery from a slaughter house of bisected pigs and cows? Yes, I’m sure she’s a great person on the inside, but she’s also a lot of blood, piss, shit, bile, mucosa, and veiny, pink tissues undulating in peristalsis. If you haven’t seen very much gore in your life, supplement your imagination with Google. I won’t impose it upon you here.When that is done, imagine her personality. If you’ve met many people or, god forbid, worked closely with someone for 40 hours a week, you know that there are innumerable ways for people to be annoying or deeply flawed. Think of all the ways that you could become sick of her company after a few months.It’s embarrassing when she steals extra condiment packages from the restaurant.Ugh, why does she have to complain about everything?Why does she never want to do what I want to do?I hate that she was so rude to my sister.These exercises won’t eliminate your attraction to women, BUT they will momentarily alleviate the attraction. They’ll distract you, and let you see with objectivity long enough to get away from the woman and hopefully never see her again.
Guys do you find taller women ugly?
Damn it! YOU again! You got issue to work out with about hating tall women. Stop it already. You posted this already and you're violating the guidelines. You about to go to jail, boy (sarcasm)! That really hurts. ='(
How do I stop liking anime women in favor of real women?
Anime can affect the subconscious by conditioning the mind to respond positively to women with unrealistically proportioned eyes, hair, body, and chest. The downside is that real women are not up to par as they do not meet expectations of body types shown in anime. How does one recondition the brain to respond positively to non-animated women?
Can a man, who loves women, stop being interested in other women, if he finds love?
Yes a man can, im one of the few myself and i gonna tell you a short story.Im against having many relationships on a record, i believe on true love. I never had girls in my life allmost, only a few. I can go years without touching someone or anything.I were mostly alone, dreaming about a spesific girl, i had my desires but i gave up eventually. I rejected every girl that tried, get the F away from me in some sort of way.One day a very nice girl met me on the street, we shared a few words and i said i had to leave. Later she contacted me and wanted to be friends, she obviously liked me. One day she asked to meet and we did since i said it was okay, talked, shared stories and had alot of fun. Later i found out that wow this is it, she was exactly what i needed. Love grew between us and we were happy. But she was a girl with alot of problems and veeery insecure. Problems occured from everywere, every day, got yelled and and never knew why. I were allways nice, patient and helpful. She lef me 5–6 times but allways came back to me. I never knew what bothered her. Fought for years. To this day, i still leave her alone and wait for her return. I love her and won’t trade her for anything. 4 girls tried to steal me later too, i said: okay im single but i love someelse, okay? Leave me alone, go away. I drink beer, smoke, listen to love songs, thinking about her every day on my balcony after work till i go asleep.Im 24 today, i promised her things and im commited myself to her. We go along great. Last thing i said: call me one day, ill wait. If i turn old and she never comes, thats okay. Can’t force her. I know moral and ethics. I cry every day but i tell myself:I died old, still loving her, loyal as F*** :-) never touched anyone. Of that i can be proud being a real man with clean pages.D.D
Why shouldn't I give up on finding the right woman?
I had been hanging out a lot lately with a friend I was very much in love with. I finally broke the news to her today. I don't remember exactly what she said but she said something along the lines of “I appreciate and value your honesty, but I don’t feel the same way. Sorry.” I’m not going to lie – this hurts like hell. I really fell for her hard, probably the most I ever had fallen for a woman. Now I can’t help but look at the past two months as a huge waste of my time and effort. Keep beating myself up for how I misinterpreted everything that went down between us. I’ve been single for all 27 years of my existence. So when I get rejected, it tends to amplify that fact. I do honestly suffer from a social anxiety disorder. So it’s harder for people like me to put myself out there like I did earlier today. Gets harder to put myself out there with every rejection (totally the wrong way to go about it, I get that). Kind of an “it didn’t ever work before, why would it possibly work next time?” thing. Which makes no sense at all, I grant you that. So who knows what the future will bring any more…almost ready to just stop trying or caring at this point. Why try at this point if all I do is get shot down?