Should I let my girlfriend hang out with other guys?
It's good if you trust your girlfriend to hang out with friends (even if they are guys) at public places - but I can't think of a good reason why she would want to be at their HOUSES, and on top of that ALONE. If they're having a party or something, why not bring you? What's the reason behind you having to stay out of the picture? You've been in the relationship long enough that you should both be comfortable hanging out with each other's friends. Fine, these "friends" of hers are new - but all the more reason for her to want to introduce you to them. I would tell her you think it's great that she has friends, but that you'd love to meet them and hang out with them too. If she says no, then ask for an explanation of why she is so against having you there. The way I see it, either they will be doing things that she knows you won't like, or she's ashamed to be with you in front of her friends. Or perhaps she hasn't told them she has a boyfriend because she likes the flirtatious attention she's getting and knows that chances are, if the guys know she's taken, they won't flirt with her as much. Because honestly, if I was in this situation, if guys who flirted with me asked me to go to their house alone, I would say HELL no, because I know they're attracted to me and I'd be worried that if I was at their house alone, they would gang up on me and try to force me to do things with them. I'd hang out in public places, but if they invited me to their house, I'd be damn sure to bring my boyfriend (though I'd probably never go in the first place). I definitely think you should ask her why she strictly wants to go by herself and not have you around. It really strikes me as fishy, especially since she knows how these guys feel about her, and going to their house alone doesn't exactly send the message that I would want to be sending.
For all the guys - flat chested girlfriend?
what if you found out that your girlfriend has really really flat chest (32AAA)? she just hid her flat chest by wearing padded bra. and you thought that she has enough breast size. what would you do? what will you think?
Girlfriend talking with other guys?
What your friend's girlfriend did was not o.k. and if he can't let it go cause she lied he should do himself a favor and find someone else. Good luck to him! '-)
How do I handle with guys that hit on my girlfriend?
I've been dating my girlfriend for almost two years now. We have lived together for nearly a year. There's no problems in our relationship, but there's something that's just perplexing my mind. Many times when we go out, there's always several nagging guys that go up to her and try to flirt. The thing is, I don't have a freakin' clue how to handle this. Should I be aggressive and ward them off? Or should I just pull her away? Every time it happens, she doesn't say anything to me about it afterwards -- and I know it aggravates her -- and I don't say anything to her either (I don't know what to say). So, in hindsight, and prospectively, what the heck should I do when put in these situations? Thanks
Guys Staring/ Hitting on my Girlfriend?
Listen I have dated my fair share of rather beautiful women, and I must say some of them knew exactly what to wear to drive guys insane. This one in particular, when we went out she would have a near no-stop number of guys that would hit on her... So what did I do about it??? Absolutely Nothing.... Why?? Simple. Because she knew that I was the real "catch", not those other guys. She also knew that if she was not careful, I would quickly become less interested in her..... In fact, it got to the point later on where she would get embarrassed and would come over to me and apologize for other guys hitting on her.... Starting to see how this works?? In short, let those "kids" try their best game, because as long as you handle things right, she will know the real game is with you. Good Luck!! :)
For all the guys - flat chested girlfriend?
what if you found out that your girlfriend has really really flat chest(32 AAA)? she hid it by wearing padded bra that you thought that she has enough breast size. what would you do about it? would you break-up with her or what?
Girlfriend brags about guys hitting on her?
Go 80/20. As it stands now, you are just nodding and aggreeing 100% of the time. That is fine. But, from here on out, only do that 80% of the time. The other 20% of the time, give her a little (and I do mean a little) taste of her own medicine. Say that a girl IMed you, say that you got a random text the other night, say anything to that effect just to let her know that there are other girls that know who you are and that appreciate you besides her. Always stay faithful to her, though. Don't ask her why she is telling you this stuff. That would show her that you have thought about all the guys that she has told you about. She is trying to find a weak spot in you. Just keep playing it off as no big deal. Laughing never hurt either. Laughing is tough to read and doing so is bound to make her think. She wants you to see that you are a lucky guy to have her. What you need to do is to let her know that there is no luck involved! It's all you. Through your actions let her know that she can't find a replacement for you. She can replicate, but she can't duplicate. 80/20.
Why is it that really nice guys stay single and never get a girlfriend?
Probably I am a best person to answer this. My story was e exactly at similar, I was a very nice and sweet guy who would help and talk very nicely to everyone. And there was a girl whom I liked very much but she didn't knew. We were good friends and often used to hang out after our classes. She always used to tell me I was very sweet . One day I proposed but she refused and put me in friend zone. I was depressed so I decided to study this matter. What was it that kept me away from getting a girlfriend. Then I found out that being nice is useless. A girl wants a blend of all stuff. She wants a guy who is rough and tough, with attitude and who Is bad for others but good only for her. Girls want a boyfriend whom they can constantly correct. Also girls are totally attracted if you have other talents like playing an instrument, dancing, Any sport etc. So I decided to give it a try developed some of above attributes, I decided to stop being nice that doesn't mean I was always not nice. Talked to girls with some attitude that I have my own life and I am enjoying it better than you. Developed a hobby of playing guitar, joined gym to get in shape, started doing stage shows. During all this i completely ignored the girl I had proposed. After all this, & after one of my performance at college, I got a text, it was her - which read 'nice performance, loved it.' I replied thanks. Immediately next day I received a call from her saying she wanted to meet but since now I was not the same guy I gave some excuse and didn't meet her. This happened one more time. I was getting a feeling that se is becoming desperate to see me. It was almost an year we had not met. Then 3rd time I agreed and met, when I met her I found her exactly opposite to what she was before, she trying to impress me, flirting with me. Being extra nice and caring. To be frank I found it weird. Then few days went and she herself said I remember you had proposed me, and she was sorry that she refused because she was not ready for relationship. But now she has decided that she wants to be with me. I guess my story explains everything now. Remember girls like adventure along with security. If you can do that. You are good to go.