Is it right that Indian girls abuse like boys?
Basically, I thank the one for posing this particular question. Because I’m really desperate to share my views & personal experiences.POINT TO BE NOTED: I AM A GIRL !!Yes, it's true that indian girls are using abusive language ,be it because of the impact of westernization or changing trend in the society ,etcTo be honest , most of the girls in my school swear , irrespective whatever the situation or the context is.Surprisingly, girls of 7th standard have a better knowledge & usage of the filthy language than me..Sorry for the next four lines:Words such as f**k you, f**k off, asshole, motherf****er ,f***ing faggot (oh my god the list is endless..)are just at the tip of their tongues..I personally never used any of the abusive words because I became familiar to this kind of language in April 2016 (after joining this school where I'm studying currently)..Infact I went around the whole class asking all my frnds and classmates what the word “chuthiya” meant and I was laughed at..I seriously don't understand if I'm old fashioned or the other girls are way too trendy..My only request to all those who r reading my answer (whether it’s a boy or a girl) is that please do not use such abusive and pathetic language in the name of peer pressure or trend or whatever reason u give. Because according to me, our words speak our character…Lastly , please don't get offended by this answer. It's not that girls shouldn't speak abusive words or only boys should do that..aise shabd kisi ko shobha nahi dete( baaki aapki marzi).. Free advice hi, lena hi tho lo nahi tho Janedo!!:-) :-) :-)
Some girl keeps swearing at me and calling me names.She also wants to fight with me should i tell my parents?
Well, if you are getting tired of it I suggest that you tell your parents or if this is happening at school then tell a person close by a teacher, security, talk to your counselor about this problem, if its in tha neighborhood go ahead n tell ur parents about this and tell them to talk to these girls parents. It better to tell and be safe then taking all the crap girls say & them knowing no one know bout it.
Do trans people easily shout and swear with their new voice?
It’s hard for me to be loud. I’ve gained a lot of volume with practice over time, but the louder I get the less feminine my voice sounds. That’s something I’m aware of, but it’s incredibly draining to never be loud (people talking to you from across the room, needing to order food from across the table in large groups).So I do it anyway, whatever. It’s not like I’m stealth.Even when I’m doing that, though, I still do the voice thing. I’m still using my standard talking pitch and my head resonance. It’s just I might slip a little bit with how well I’m managing to sound female.Even when I’m not talking and suddenly scream, like if I’m outside getting the mail and am accosted by an unexpected bug, I still do the voice thing. I scream like a girl, if you will.It’s my default voice at this point. I don’t use it 100% of the time (my spouse doesn’t care and taking breaks from it helps with strain), but it’s my go-to voice when I’m speaking suddenly, or surprised, or the rare occasion when I shout, or whatever. It’s easy for me.What takes effort is doing it perfectly, and that varies. The less control I have over my voice at any given time, the less feminine my voice is going to sound in practice. Volume, suddenness of speech, and the length of time I’ve been talking are all factors that degrade the quality of my voice, but my pitch and resonance are my defaults now, so it never comes out explicitly male, just imperfect.
My wife swears at me. What should I do?
Swearing might have a proper time and place, but it can certainly be a red flag in a relationship. Check out what it might mean if your partner is cursing at you.Might help- This is How I Saved My Marriage – Pete Menoi – MediumA Lack of RespectAt the end of the day, a person who constantly swears directly at his partner isnt being respectful. This is especially true if you have repeatedly asked your partner to stop. It shows that your partner is either oblivious to the pain he is causing you by his language, or he simply doesnt care. Either way, this is someone you probably dont want in your life. Remember, if your partner can manage to speak to his superiors at work without resorting to crude language, he can certainly manage to do the same around you.Constant swearing in a partnership is usually a sign of trouble. Use the above guidelines to take inventory of your relationship with your partner. If the swearing continues after you do this, dont be afraid to back out of the relationship. You deserve a partner who doesnt resort to such language.
What the most messed up comebacks?That will get rid of the girls who are teasing me.?
I was sitting in front the bus,drawing in my sketch book .I felt paper being thrown at the back of my head and some kids swearing at me,I sighed picking the paper from of out my hair,throwing it in the garbage can right by my leg.I heard,"I'm going to talk to the retarded bit*h."Then after the first drop off a Mexican girl sat on the seat across me and asked me"Hey,aurora,what you are drawing?"I replied,"Please,do me a favor and just back off?"being irritated by the paper and the name calling,the bus lady is watching the road and driving to the next stop.As soon,as I said that she gave me the stank eye saying,"I'm being nice to you."I growled,muttering "Yeah right...."More paper is being thrown at me I heard...awar(or that sound cat sound Y'know rawr in some way.)I put up my sketchbook away in my bag waited for my stop.I got to my stop and then the girls started to follow me home,throwing rocks at me and giggling.I turned around then the girls got close around me started to push me,grab my bookbag and tossed it away in the streets,I picked it up and wounded up being punched in the gut and been hollered that I was just so f**king stupid.I ducked into a ball whimpering then got back up and run like there's no tomorrow,the girls shrugged and shouted,"Go back to your artwork and f**k yourself!" I came home with my book bag tattered and messed up... please someone help me.
What right do father in law have to confront or yell at daughter in law?
Unfortunately nothing can be done in this situation. They have absolutely no right. If they are scolding out of concern we may accept it as they are like parents. But controlling and yelling for no good reason is totally out of bounds. This is the entitled mentality of parents in law to control daughter in law and shout at them. We may take many more decades to change this mindset of people. Not only parents in law but son/daughter in laws too. The problem is parents should understand that when their son and daughter in law quarrels they should not interfere unless they are approached for resolving. Everywhere and more in India, parents intrude in their married children's affairs and do irreparable damage. Since we can't change this hardwired thinking we need to learn from the situation and stay away from our children's lives after they settle down. Only then the mind sets change. Your sister has not done anything wrong. You can show your support and let her be emotionally strong till this passes. If lucky no one will hold a grudge and everything will be back to normal. What's done is done.