I like a girl but have no chance with her?
If your mentality on the situation is that you have no chance with her, assuming that if you even asked her out on any kind of date, she would turn you down without a second thought, then you don't want to be with her man. She bases all of her treatment standards on looks and image, which mean absolutely nothing, and she's just the kind of person that would lead you on and then humiliate you, which always sucks and always makes you feel stupid about yourself. You're better than her, and you need to find someone who will respect you without you having to put a mask on, bow down to her reputation, and do a little dance all so she can dump you two weeks later. That's something I had to learn the hard way. Trust me man, you will go nowhere but down if you strive to go out with the popular girls, and they'll eventually stick it to you in the end. Don't do it.
Do I have a chance with this girl?
Okay so I have been dating a girl online for around a year. I lied about who I was, I showed her pictures of a man that looks way better than me. I know it was wrong but it was summer break after my second year of high school and I knew no girls would want to talk to me, even online because I am Persian. I have bushy eye brows and a lot of hair. So after a while I met this very beautiful white girl online, she has an amazing personality and we fell in love. I've been talking to her all day eveyday for around 6 months and I know everything about her. I found out she had phone sex with another guy so that's when I told her about who I truly was. She told me that she would rather die than be without me and that she still loves me and even plans to marry me. I love her soo much and I know she loves me back, but I gotta show her what I truly look like, I'm very scared cause I am 17 and I have not really ever had a true girlfriend, i'm scared she will be disgusted by me and I know she will remain a friend no matter what, but I truly want her to be my girl, I'd honestly take a bullet for her and I need her. But like i said I have black hair and maybe a few extra pounds, along with lots of unwanted hair. She's blonde, blue eyed and slender. We don't look like a couple, but do you think she could actually love my personality enough to stay mine? She's wasn't really that mad when I told her the truth, and i'm 100% she's real, I have seen her on webcam hundreds of times. If you would like a picture of me and a picture of her please include your email and I'll send it to you . Thank you
How do I get the girl I like to give me a chance?
Thanks for the A2A:You ask her out. Don't try to impress her and don't try to be who you think she wants you to be. Approach her as you are. Be confident in yourself. A common misconception is that "confidence" is a way you carry yourself... puffed out chest, furrowed eyebrows, narrowed "sexy" eyes, slightly deepened and raspy voice... no. Just no. Confidence is when you know and love yourself for who you are. It's when you can find enough fulfillment in yourself that you don't care what others think of you. So... Make sure you approach her knowing full well that she could reject you, and that if she does it won't be the end of the world. Ask her out. If she says "yes," great. If she says "no," don't press it. No means no, so just leave her alone. Be polite about it. Heck, you can just say "okay!" with a big smile on your face and walk away. I've done this and it confused the heck out of the girl... She was like "wait, what do you mean?" I just said "I mean okay. I think you're attractive, but if you're not interested, you're not interested." Walked away leaving the girl dumbfounded and relieved that I didn't make it awkward or make a scene or anything like that. Trust me when I say that this is NOT the only girl you will ever like. You can't make her give you a chance... You can only present the best possible you in the hopes it's someone she gels with. If it's not, like I said... no big deal. You WILL meet someone else. If, however, the two of you do fit together, congratulations. You're in for one heck of an adventure.
I am in love with a girl but have no chance with her what do I do?
Options:1. Walk away - There is the obvious option of simply letting go of her if you feel you're not her level. If you feel as though there is no chance then its best to look elsewhere. Also, if she is currently in a relationship, then its best to leave her alone.2. Elevate Yourself - But let's say you cant get over this girl...then give it a shot, its that simple. The worst possible thing that can happen is her saying no. and I'm sure you've heard no before, so what's the big deal?So, how do you get her attention? You do what I call 'elevating yourself' Ask yourself a few questions: A) Why do I think I don't have a chance with her?B) What is it about her that I love so much?C) What type of relationship/friendship do I have with her now?Once you answer these and more basic questions, it will give you some insight on how you'll proceed.Next step is to Be the Best YOU, that you can be. Basically, become the guy that she thinks she doesn't have a chance with. And if you are in contact with her, then treat her amazingly (don't be a doormat but still be awesome). Show her what a great guy you are and how much happiness you add to her life.If you are curious on where to start on being the best version of you, its really quite simple:1. Start a workout regimen and stick to it.2. Play a sport you like, or learn one.3. Learn a new language4. Be great at your job5. Smile...yes, smile.6. Read more and broaden your intellectual horizons 7. Eat healthy8. Be a jovial guy. (if you're not very good at telling jokes, watch a few standup comedians)9. Learn a new skill/talent. Preferably something to exercise your creative side with: Drawing, singing, Painting, Sculpting, Playing an instrument, Dancing...etc10. Take pride in your appearance and the way you dress.The list goes on but those could be a good starting point. If you follow the steps listed above, she may end up being the one approaching you. But my best advice is to be confident, and best the best version of yourself. Good Luck
How to ask a girl if you have a chance with her?
I think you should flat out ask her where you two stand. As obvious as it may sound, I feel like 'beating around the bush' about it only complicates things and wastes time, so if she does like you then bam, massive win. If she reveals she doesn't, take it on the chin and see what your options are: they may be to sort out why she doesn't, and to rectify the situation so she could possibly like you. Or, it may be necessary to move on (even though you like her) because, from my experience, some girls when they make a decision it is impossible to change that no matter what. Which sucks, but best of luck.
Do shy guys have any chance with girls?
yes ofcourse, but you have to go out there and find her. my boyfriend is like the total oppisite when it comes to our personality. im loud and outgoing, not afraid to walk up to a stranger and say hi; my boyfriend is quite and a little shy and sometimes feels uncomfortable when we go to a place and im just being myself drawing attention. he can be rly shy at first but will loosen up as he gets to kno a person, which thats what got us together. and when it comes down to it we love each other, we have been together for a year. thats what you gotta do, when you find a girl first get to kno her so you become comfortable with her, nd if something bad should happen, move on, dont let it slow you down. <3
Would I still have a chance after being rejected by a girl?
It is very slim, next to none at all. Sorry to break it to you like this.So let me start by saying what slim means, that slim chance is that she might take initiative to ask you out instead of you asking again. Don't you ask again or you might be labeled to her as a creep. Usually when someone gives that initial rejection NO means NO. However, for many we try to find ways in our mind to make up for that rejection. We tend to ask ourselves questions like “maybe I approached them the wrong way?”, “What if maybe I should try again when the time is right?”, or say to yourself “She might have been going through a rough patch and couldn't possibly want someone AT THE MOMENT.” What do all these questions and statements have in common? They are all making you believe that you still have a chance after the rejection. So you search desperately for any sort of loophole that you can get around to make this person want you in the way you want them. It DOES NOT work that way. A rejection should be the closing of whatever your thoughts for this girl was. She said NO to you, meaning that she does not see you the way you see her, or want to see you in the way that you see her.You may not see this now but she in fact did you a favor, that favor is that she did not want to set you up, go out with you, make you spend some of your hard earned cash for a quality date that YOU are taking seriously, trying your hardest to show her a good time, and get your hopes up just to knock you down later on, which will hurt a lot more than just a rejection right on the spot. Also believe that there are plenty more girls who will reject you but there will be plenty who will also say YES to you. Just because you have had one or few rejections don't let that stop you from asking out another girl, or another, and another, eventually one will say YES to you.-G. Asci
Do I have a chance with a cute Asian girl?
Dude.........I dont know if YOU would have a chance with her ........but there are endless millions of white guys in america who could if they work their magic and impress her the old fashion way. By being a nice guy. And one of those guys could be you for all we know. Asian girls are attracted brains more so than other females are.. so if you are a scholar or someone accomplished.. you will definitely have a chance. Asian females dont like white trash and wiggers. There is a reason you never see them on jerry springer.. and its because they dont make springer style hookups. But if you have your stuff together.. absolutely. Asian girls get called "gold diggers" for a reason. Because they have a good taste in guys. Asian females are very open to interracial dating. Other than native american women... they are the most open. White male/asian female is the NUMBER ONE interracial pairing on earth. I have dated over 14 asian girls in my life so far. Some were one night stands (just fun on club night in japan).... some were years long relationships and some were 5 day affairs.. that kind of thing. But they gave me a shot! And i finally met the greatest asian girl to ever live and am engaged. I have never had problems with them at all. I even succeeded in having a quick fling with a girl who spoke almost NO english and I spoke NO chinese.. IN CHINA on a BUSINESS trip... with my MOM. They arent slutty...but they are curious about ...guys from other cultures. Its new to them. Newness is sexy apparently. So.. go for it. It helps to learn their language if they arent americanized. I generally dont date americanized asian girls anymore. The only thing asian about them is their "take off your shoes inside" thing. Thats just a white girl in an asian body which isnt culturally exotic to me. But a true authentic eastern lady is a mighty fine female indeed. Go for it. Whats the worst that can happen? Find out she has a big muscular boyfriend who doesn't cotton to strangers?