Do I have the right to be mad/annoyed at him?
Yes, you have the right to be mad at him because he lied to you about the plans he had. If he had come out and told you beforehand that things were reshuffled to where he wanted to hang out with friends, then that’s understandable. Choosing to bail out on you with a BS excuse is something that could have been averted had he come clean with you.My suggestion is to talk with him and express how you felt about being slighted in that manner. Be honest and tell him that yes, that pissed you off and you’re not going to accept being treated like that. Stress that simple communication will make things easier for the both of you. Let him know you’re still his friend, but do not let him off the hook for an act that has no excuse.Hope this helps. Good luck, Emma.
Is my Army Recruiter right for being annoyed with me?
You have the right to decide what is right for you, but understand they also have a job to do with limited resources. I think the advice about talking with those on active duty was good. Recruiters have a job to do, and that is to put you into the (in this case) the Army. If you are taking their resources, (budget, time, energy) by spending time it a hotel and taking their time when they could be talking to other potential applicants, I think they might get a bit testy. I think you can see it from their perspective as well. Understand, these guys are human too.
Do I have the right to be annoyed at my parents because...?
...they can't speak English fluently even though they've lived here for about 21 years now? My parents are first generation people, meaning they immigrated here from their country, leaving their home and immediate family. I'm really thankful since I'm now a student who is currently getting a college education, and my parents were much too poor to receive one, but sometimes I just get so annoyed by little things like how they have to depend on me to translate all their business calls or they can't even order pizza over the phone because they seriously cannot pronounce anything or hold any kind of decent English conversation. They say they don't have time, since they're always working to make ends meet and such, but why can't they just try to learn a little bit after work when they come back home instead of just going right to the TV or something? Am I just being an immature daughter and get over it?
Do I have the right to be annoyed if my girlfriend posted a video with a guy friend's arm around her shoulder?
Do you have the right to be annoyed? Yes, you do.Should you be annoyed? Only because you have the right to be annoyed? - it is totally up to you man.Personally, I would not allow a PICTURE to annoy me. Heck I do NOT allow anyone and anything to annoy me.This morning, when I woke up, I took the decision that today I want to be happy. No matter what anyone says or does, I stay happy.You? What do you want to do : be happy or be annoyed?I hope you understand nobody cares if you are annoyed. Yep, not even your gf. Do you still want to annoyed? Or decide that YOU are in control of your feelings, and understand that happiness comes from within. You do not want to relinquish your contro over your own feelings to someone else, do you?Relax man, be happy. Life is too short to live it as an annoyed sour p***.Smile! The universe will smile back to you!
Do I have the right to be angry at my friends?
An ex friend of mine deliberately smashed my phone about 2 months ago. One of my friends got really really annoyed at it and always cussed her. My ex friend said she was going to pay to eventually telling me to take her to court. Now my friends at school are all up her as$ and can’t get enough of her. What do I do? Do I tell them how I feel? Do I stop hanging out with them?
My boyfriend posted his number to his FB. Do I have a right to be annoyed?
My boyfriend of a few months went overseas a few weeks ago for work. He finally got a new number out there & gave it to me so we could text/talk. He had a few of his Facebook friends also asking him for his number on his wall. So instead of replying to them individually with his number, he puts his number as his status update for everyone to see. I kinda hinted to him before he did it that I didn't like the idea, but he did it anyway. I said that random girls will be calling him now but he blew it off and said random people would not call/text him at an international number. I honesly don't even believe that because it's easy to add international text to a phone plan. Two random chicks already posted to the status update with his number by joking that they would prank call him, and that made me even more pissed off. I should add that we're from a conservative culture so we're dating on the down low. Therefore we don't have our relationship status on our FB, so it seems to others that we are single, which makes things even more complicated now that he posted his number. Anyway, I'm upset by this. Am I over-reacting? Or do any others agree that it's a bit inappropriate to post your number for all of the girls you know to see even tho u have a girlfriend? What do u think? Btw, no rude answers please!
Do I have a right to be mad at my fwb? I yelled at him?
Do I have a right to be mad at him? Help! My fwb (friends with benefits) is treating me like sh*t, do I have a right to be mad? What would you do if your fwb ignored you at a bar when you took them out to hang out with your friends? They were clearly paying more attention to your friends, giving you short answers, and even after you were staring at them for ten seconds they refused to acknowledge you, and were texting. They even got up to leave and went outside for a smoke. You were also socializing with your friends but they were clearly ignoring you. What would you do? And what does it mean if you started yelling at them and asking why they were ignoring you and telling them that they made you feel like sh*t? Would you be upset too?
Boyfriend comes home drunk constantly. Do I have a right to be annoyed or should I just leave it alone?
My boyfriend and I have been together over four years, but have just moved in together three months ago. We moved to a new city so I could finish my education so it's just the two of us here, though he quickly made a lot of friends. I know that he likes to drink, but since we moved in together he's been drinking a lot. Nearly every night I can smell alcohol on his breath when he comes home from work and many nights he comes home drunk. I know he's hanging out with his friends and wants to enjoy himself, but I don't understand why he has to drink so much so often. When he drinks he doesn't become violent or mean, he just becomes really annoying and whiny, which annoys me. Often he'll come in very late and I'll already be sleeping. Though he knows I have to get up early the next morning, he'll wake me up and complain that he doesn't feel well and/or make all kinds of noise so I keep waking up. A few weeks ago he asked me if the drinking bothered me and told me to be honest. I said to him very sweetly, "I'm glad you've made so many new friends and I want you to enjoy yourself, just be careful, that's all. And please when you come in at night, try to be a little quieter if I'm asleep." After that he didn't speak to me for three days. Should I address the issue or just let it go? Am I making a bigger deal of it than it is? And if I should address it, how should I go about it so that I don't come off like I'm telling him what to do?