A girl loves me a lot, but I don't have that feeling for her. Should I search for someone to love that much or should I go on with someone who loves me so much?
Boy, time does repeat itself. The same thing has happened with me too; this time the only difference is that I have been replaced by you (and the girl in question too is not the same).To be very honest, and I sincerely request you that you do consider my opinion seriously - you should go with neither of the choices. We'll consider both your choices one by one.CASE 1 : Should you search for someone to love that that much?Even if you want to, you cannot search for love. Nobody searches for love, love happens on its own. You cannot and you do not find love; love finds you. You might try with all your might, you can put in all your efforts, you may pen as beautiful a song as possible, but if the "time" is not right, love cannot happen.Rather, love can find you at the most inappropriate of times, in the most dismal of situations possible, when you are least prepared for it and when you least want it.So if you think that taking a torch and searching in the nooks and corners will find you love, you are hugely mistaken. Let love find you dear, not otherwise.CASE 2 : Should you go on with the girl who loves you?NO.I would have suggested you to say "yes" to her had you also confessed that you loved her. But since the feeling is not mutual, I would strictly advise you not to further this thing with her. Because even though she loves you, eventually she will be pained in future if nothing works out between you two. I was twice asked by two girls for a relationship but I knew that I would not be able to love them the way I loved my ex-girlfriend. And had I continued with a relationship with them, I knew that I will be the cause of their sadness in the future, which I didn't want to. And I will suggest you too to do the same. **A man loses his masculinity the moment he hurts a woman or deliberately becomes the cause of her sadness.**And I don't think that you'll want to think of yourselves as a lesser man, do you? So sit down with the girl and tell her that she is really very sweet and that you do not want to hurt her. Tell her that until you too develop a feeling for her, you will not want to tread on the path of something as serious as a relationship. Promise her that you'll stay her friend always and will make sure that nothing makes her sad. This thing surely will make her happy and she will be able to get your point of view.All the very best brother.
Does she like me or is she just lonely?
gahh dude thats more confusing than the LOST show, i hear where your coming from; usually if you get asked to go out for walks and stuff thats a good sign, at least for me. but then you hear about this other dude, that just throws a wrench in the machine and tells you she may be just lonely and needs a friends, therefore the walks... so im guessing that you like her back and its tearing you up inside and now you dont want to put any discomfort on her, so you are keeping it bottled inside and now it sucks......hahah thats a complete guess but ive been in somthing similar and so i just suggest picking sides, weather you want to be more than friends or not; then just run with it......hope this helps
Is she lonely or bisexual?
Sounds like she is roping you in to be her GF. Just tell her the usual you like her as a friend but you aren't going any further with it and if you are thinking the wrong thing about her that you are sorry but you just were getting uncomfortable because it seemed she was trying to hit on you. Just a small talk is all that is needed.
I wish i had a girlfriend, i get lonely?
I don't know why but when I read this I get the feeling that you're a really sweet guy. It might be hard and a little embarrassing for you to not have much experience in the dating world but all dating is; is just hanging out with someone of the opposite sex. Just hang out with them as friends, don't think about it as a date or wanting to impress them because it will just make you nervous. Have fun when you go out and the other person will have fun too. You'll definitely meet someone, sweet guys like you always do. It just takes you a little while longer than others.
How do i deal with loneliness? Girlfriend is gone for a week...?
My girlfriend is gone for a full week, and i wont have much, if not any contact with her. I dont have many friends, i work only like 2-3 days a week (short shifts too), and i dont know what to do. Our relationship had its bumps and im really insecure, but mostly i miss her, and i wont have too much contact with other people the next coming week. I would always talk to her every day, see her usually once a day; and now i feel really alone. I play videogames, but that can only last me like an hour or so at a time before i need to do something else. I draw, but im not really feeling it. What do i do to get over my loneliness for the next week? Its really depressing because obviously i miss her, and i feel extremely insecure, and im completely alone without her.