How long should I ignore her?
You should not ignore her. Express your feelings to her and see what sort of a feedback you get. It will either be positive or negative, and if you prepare yourself for both eventualities, then there is nothing to be afraid of. By ignoring her, you are unconsciously showing that you are afraid of the consequences of expressing your feelings. Regards!
How to ignore your moms rude comments?
Okay, when people say ignore it and quit complaining, that's RUDE! I know what this is like, and it's abuse. Not physical abuse, but it is legit abuse. so like, talk to a counsellor or something. I honestly felt I was depressed after awhile of my dad being so mean to me all the time. It eventually got better. Don't ask why, he just stopped.. And tell your mom, you can't take that. No one should have to go through that.
Should i ignore her, like she ignores me?
Don't ignore her. Text her back, but you've got to back off a bit. I mean, don't act like a jerk, like you don't even care or whatever, but I can tell you from experience, that females get REALLY turned off by guys that come on a little to hard, guys that act like they care TOO MUCH. I know it sounds horrible, but that's the sad truth. The possibility that she has become uninterested is there, but you will never know unless you back off a bit and see if she keeps the communication alive. But whatever you do, don't start ignoring her purposefully. Then, you'll just start to perceive yourself as a jerk that's trying to get back at her. I really hoped that helped. Good luck! :)
What is the best way to ignore a girl and I don't want broken her heart?
I'm a girl and I'm talking from personal experience. I liked this guy a lot. He was really into me for days. Then he started texting less and finally stopped altogether. I didn't want to keep texting him and annoy him. But I hadn't heard from him for two whole days and I really wanted to make sure everything was OK on his side. So I texted him asking if everything was alright."Hey what's wrong? Is everything alright?""Yeah everything is fine.""OK cool. You didn't text so I was wondering if something was wrong or if I said anything wrong"He said, "nothing is wrong, I can't keep chatting with you forever!"He did a total 180 in how he was texting before and then. I got my answer. It's always best if you're honest and just tell her you want to stop talking.
What should a girl do when a group of guys comment on her?
I feel when a situation like this happens you should really walk up to that group and shout at top of your voice what they are talking so much about. Make as much noise as you can so that you can really gather a good crowd taking into consideration that its broad day light and there are a lot of commuters on the road. Trust me this will make the group of guys really uneasy and uncomfortable cause they are not really used to girls like you retaliating to their snide or remarks this will also cause an affect on the crowd around you cause they will also chip into the fact how they are harassing a girl like you which will go in your favor eventually the cops will get involved, these guys might even get man handled or beaten up by the cops and eventually the result will be that they will get locked up or for worse in a hospital . Now that's a lesson they are never gonna forget. However if its at night and this incident occurs i would suggest you to not do any of this and just walk up to a police and lodge a complaint and let them take the action this is only for your own safety cause generally at nights roads are empty and it would be unwise to act during that time when your alone as they are a group of guys and your just 1 person but do observe their features and how they look that way it becomes easier for the cops to locate them and get them behind bars.PS:DO ACT DON'T IGNORE CAUSE YOUR ACTIONS MAKE A DIFFERENCE AS IT GIVES COURAGE TO OTHER WOMEN AND TEACHES SUCH MEN A LESSON IN TREATING WOMEN WITH RESPECT.
How can I ignore her respectfully?
The kinder thing to do is to tell her, while you appreciate her attentions, you have other interests and do not wish to be in her life.
How can I stop the suggestions and indirect comments from my mother-in-law without sounding rude or without my husband thinking I'm against her?
Step one in dealing with troublesome in-laws is always reaching an agreement with your spouse about how to handle the issue. Sit down with him, explain that you are tired of her behavior, and tell him you are planning to stop accepting her criticism silently and will begin setting some boundaries with her. Ask him for his support in this.With an indirect criticizer, one thing you can do is expose her implied meaning. If she makes critical comments about unemployed women, and you are an unemployed woman, then calmly and politely say, “I am an unemployed woman. Are you criticizing me as well?” Then she must choose between admitting her criticism openly or backing away from it. The important thing is demonstrating that you are neither angry nor cowed, and that you will not let her behavior slide.His role is to calmly, politely challenge her when she criticizes you to him. If she implies that you dress poorly and he needs to buy you new clothes, he should smile and say, “I like the clothes she chooses to wear.” If she suggests that you spend too much on manicures, he should smile and say, “I am happy that she treats herself to something relaxing every now and then.” And sometimes, he should say, “Please stop criticizing my wife so much.”At no point should either of you yell, curse, or even scowl at her. Remain always calm and polite. Say please and thank you. If she manages to avoid criticism for a while, tell her how much you enjoyed spending time with her. In this way, you are never rude, you make it clear that her behavior needs to change, and you also express that she is welcome and loved as long as she's kind. You are not “against her” anymore than parents are “against” their children when they encourage polite behavior over rude behavior.If your husband will not agree to this plan, find out why. Does he think it's inherently rude to challenge his mother? It isn't. Is he afraid she'll withdraw her approval from him? That's a risk adults have to take when their parents behave unkindly. Does he believe it's your job to submit to whatever rude behavior his mother chooses? It isn't. Does he think only you or his mother can be happy, and he must choose between you? That's only the case if you and his mother make it the case, and you are not making it the case by politely asking her to stop being rude. If she can only be happy while being rude, what does that say about her? Nothing good!
My mother in law makes snide comments to me about everything. Should I tell her to stop politely or retaliate?
or ignore her comments altogether. I think she makes snide remarks to me because I don't do things exactly as she would do things. She is old-school thinking and I am really easy-going. She ruins my visits with her and because of this I hate when she is with my daughter. Help!
How long should I "ignore" her???..What should my next move be?
You messed up dude...Basically she let you know by her comment - not now, and you continued anyway embarassing her in front of her friends, you just showed her friends that your not cool...they had to make comments about it and she probably had to laugh it off. Maybe she didnt want to but she had to with her friends. If I were you, I would try to talk to her privately and quickly, and let her know that you know you were out of line, but you just couldn't help yourself because you like talking to her so much...or something like that..She will understand that your not a total idiot, because you understand what you did. She might give you another chance...Don't ignore her, you let her cool off already, so I would talk to her sooner rather than later (damage control) you did wrong...If she does give you another chance, take it slow and talk privately, keep the small stuff for when the friends are around...Good Luck