I am really skinny; it makes my figure look unattractive. What should I do?
Traditional weight lifting or better yet, Crossfit.Eat plenty of protein (meat, poultry, fish, eggs, dairy) and whole carbs (potato, rice). Yogurt, bananas, oatmeal for breakfast,Try eating clean, natural unprocessed food. Veggies. Eat A Lot.You mat also buy some supplements. Ask a trainer in the gym.And train hard, 3 times a week minimum.Expect at least three months to see results.
Girls, are skinny arms unattractive on a guy?
It's not unattractive to me, and it's not a big deal. I prefer men with larger frames but they can still be skinny and attractive. 99% of musicians out there are skinny, and there are plenty of women that love them! There's a lot more to attraction than muscle mass.
Why do a lot of men find skinny women with no curves unattractive or unfeminine?
Well because it is, look back at older women(the 50's who were considered highly attractive, they didnt have 6 packs ripped or even slender, they had some meat on their bones, this was a more naturalistic look for women and it was average. Look even further back(roman times all across the globe) women had more meat on their bones and this dates back to BC eras Today its super small yet disproportionate butt and boobs. You have to weight 110 with D cups and a big butt, which isnt natural because with that extra fat its going to be distributed all around not in those right places. On you, skinny with no curves is like well what does she have that separates her from a guys body. Often compared to preteen boys. Personality means more in the long run but in your early mid 20's most guys probably will look over you for other disproportionate girls. But all you need is one guy so majority dont matter.
Am I an unattractive guy if I'm skinny and shy?
Let's not kid ourselves: Physical looks do matter and they do count. However there are two things you have on your side. A-) You can change your physical appearance by exercising and adding a few pounds. Yes, it would take some work but hey, you are the one who benefits.B-) Studies have proven that women, although of course think physical attractiveness is important, generally do not put as much stock on it as say men. In fact, they are willing to look more at the whole package then just the one thing. Again, not to say that men are a bunch of shallow humans but we tend to be more biased toward physicality than women. Now, what will make a difference is your personality and your level of confidence. Confidence is one of the most attractive qualities a man can have... that and a great sense of humour. All you have to do is get out there. Start doing things that you enjoy doing, socialize a bit more, meet people. It might not be easy at first but it will get easier over time. Do things that make you more interesting. Have fun! Maybe read a few books on humour or just good books. The point is to make yourself more interesting and the best way to do it is to do interesting things. Which will have the side effect of making you sure of yourself and more confident. There are no real shortcuts here, no quick ways to become a Casanova or Don Juan but fortunately you do have plenty of options in how you can make your life better. As you do that, and become a person that people find interesting, then people will gravitate towards you, some of which could be women that may catch your eye and you theirs.
Do women consider skinny males unattractive and a turn off?
I'm sure you're aware that there can't be a standard answer for this but opinioins and individual choices. If it helps you with whatever statistics you're on , my preference of guys would be - athletic and lean guys over skinny ones over totally beefed up, with potbellied completely restricted, in that order! And skinny guys here is a compromise-choice.( please dont blame me with objectification of men ;)) But then I met this guy, who is not just super skinny but also lanky at 6'3".We kind of instantly clicked and became best friends. We both agree that the smiles, thoughts, fears, dreams,and all other things we share with each other is unprecedented and unbelievable! also, the way we met, was one hell of a co incidence (I'll save that story for some other day), that we're convinced it was meant to be. It's been two years now that we're more than best friends to each other and are completely smitten and well, to me, he is Adonis incarnated!:) So, moral of the story is, as all the wiser people here have already stated -being skinny or fat or black or white or whatever, could be initial turn off/on for some, but thats part of the parcel.We see people as a whole, as a person, and by 'we' i mean 'we humans', not just us women.(if not, I sincerely hope we should).So if I am you and if I am looking for something substantial, I would not worry about that. Since there is definitely more to the chemistry, physics and timing of love than the superficial credits physiology walks away with! ;)PS. I'm writing this anonymous since I dont want to pump more air in my guy's already narcissistic head. :P
Pretty ladies, do you find short, skinny guys unattractive?
So I'm 5'8 and weigh 131lbs (59kg) and I'm having difficulty attracting women. I solely believe this is due to my physical type (i.e. short & skinny). I see so many attractive girls with tall / big, strong-looking guys, and so few with short skinny guys I'm convinced the pretty ladies strongly prefer tall / big guys as sexual mates and are completely turned off by us short skinny guys. Am I, by majority, right? Should I give up looking for an attractive female? In the animal kingdom, female mammals only mate with the large males, and I'm beginning to think this rules true in humans. P.S my slightly older brother is 6'2 180lbs and has no trouble getting hot girls since he was age 13. I'm 24 and never had a girlfriend due to rejection - It feels like I'm cursed. How can I be comfortable now when I KNOW too well I have an ugly body type to women?
Why are skinny girl's always thought of as unattractive?
Why are skinny girl's always thought of as unattractive? Yes I am what a lot people may refer to as skinny. I don't have a flat tush, but it's not big and round either, it's just small and a little/slightly curvy. I'm straight down, no curvy hips or thigh. And too, my breast aren't big, I'm only like a 30 B. But that doesn't make me unattractive because I'm thinner. Big breast and curves aren't always "sexy", and It doesn't make them any more of a woman than me. Everyone's body is different. I'm tired of people with the whole "Real women have curves", a woman is a woman, we all have the same thing a vagina and boobs.There are some skinny girls that are attractive, and also big girls that are unattractive. I've seen women with curves that had horrible, I mean HORRIBLE bodies. Yet people still compare them to skinny or fit girls(saying they look better than skinny women) that probably look 100 times better and healthier. Why do people act like this? Why are people still doing the skinny vs. curvy thing? It's getting old, annoying, and it's sound really stupid. What are your opinions? No rude/hateful comments, please!
Does thick eyebrows make you look unattractive?
Shmello! (: So, I have thick eyebrows. There's no way around it; I have thick, dark and straight eyebrows. There's no curve in them. Sometimes I really do like them that way they look, because I have abnormally pale skin (picture Snow White, but paler) and it looks very dramatic against my skin. Although, the girls in my grade that have all the boys have very defined, thin and curved eyebrows. It's probably just because they are extreme flirts (one of them has dated 4 boys in the last year, for no longer than a 2 weeks), but I was wondering if it had anything to do with their thin eyebrows. I know eyebrow shapes really change how you look. I am not emberassed about my eyebrows, although I was curious to know if changing my eyebrow shape would make me seem, uh, more attractive? I'm perfectly confident in how I look, but if my eyebrow shape is making me look unattractive, I want to look into getting them waxed.
Do most men find thin women unattractive?
TLDR: Most men like a healthy, balanced physique with a little bit of fat and muscle. Too -thin people can look weak and sickly.Alright, I'll try and be honest here. Please don't mistake these statements for misogyny or shallowness - these are only surface impressions, and I think they apply for both men and women.There is a whole range of body types but you can generally put them within a triangle, with the three corners being thin, fat and muscular. Each quality has its upsides and downsides.Thin people look slender and elegant, with a well defined shape and sharp facial features. They also appear to be less threatening and physically imposing, which is a psychological bonus. However, if they're carrying too little mass, they look weak and sickly, which is not attractive. They will also have undersized curves and featuresFat makes the body and face look ‘fuller’, more youthful and more feminine. It also fills up the curves and exaggerates their shape. However, when carrying too much fat, the bits that are bulging out start sagging, which again is quite unattractive. It can also make people look unhealthy and puffy.Muscle lifts up everything and gives the body a good structure. It also makes everything look fuller, but in a more masculine way. However, carrying too much muscle makes people look aggressive and intimidating, which might be a turn off.These are the three basic ‘flavours’ that make up a Physique. Basically what most men like, just like most women, is a moderate amount of muscle and a moderate amount of fat. Too little and you look kind of sickly and malnourished. Too much, and you start looking like a battle tank. So essentially, a good physique would be around the centre of the triangle.One last thing worth mentioning is that it's true that men like curves. And it's possible that bigger curves activate the neural circuitry for attraction more strongly, just like prettier faces. However, this is purely an animal response, and in the long run, your personality, charm, intelligence, ethics, hygiene, passion, sense of humour, dressing sense etc is a lot more important.You say you are thin but not too thin - well that's exactly what most men like. If you want more curves, you could eat a bit more and work out. But in the long run, your personality matters a lot more than your weight (within reason) in finding a good partner.