Still want to stay friends with a guy I rejected?
Ok I know some people say after you reject a guy you can never be friends with him again but I think that's bull ****. Anyway onto my dilemma, so I have a good guy friend we have two classes together and are in the school show so we see each other everyday after school too. He asked me out and I think he's funny and nice and he's not unattractive I just could never see us dating. So i said no. It's been a few days and he's kind if avoiding me but if I talk to him he will talk with me just very mutal. Let me get one thing straight I was not rude when I rejected him I simply told him I didn't see it and I'm very sorry but no. I want to stay friends but am afraid of when I talk to him or try to be funny and have fun conversations like we use to I might lead him on and I don't want to lead him on because i dont want him to ask me again and i have to reject him again.I just want to be friends
My ex girlfriend told me to never talk to her ever again. Now she complains to my friends that I never acknowledge her when we’re at the same place. I find this odd. What does this mean?
Hmm.. Maybe, she was very mad at you so she said that but now she (of course) regrets what she did back then. I think now she wants you to come back to her either as a friend or ‘good friend'? People make mistakes so do women. And your ex just realize that she made a mistake back then.There's nothing wrong with become a friend or even a good friend with your ex right?
Can 2 people become best friends again after a breakup?
It hugely depends on the people involved and the feelings one still has for the other person.No. Definitely not if you still have true feelings for them.There are so many possible reasons for this.You still have deep feelings for them and you still love them no matter what has happened . You still love them for who they are and somehow they don't share those feelings anymore.You can't fake like you aren't hurt by their decision. Most of the time it hurts, but you respect their decision and stay away. Sometimes you try your best and they fail to realize, so you stay away.What does friendship mean? You actually can talk about all possible things in the universe. Will you be able to talk to her/him about some other person that she/he can actually be involved with? You can never if you truly love them. So there you get an answer of why you can't be friends. Friends are honest and you can never fake honesty with the one you love.You will always love the person if you love them truly from the bottom of your heart. If they have decided to end it, and after you have tried enough if they still end it, friendship isn't possible for a while. One can be mature to atleast have hi bye kind of interactions, but some people aren't even willing to do that.May be you don't want to see her guilty or hurt. This is one of the main reasons why I stay away from her. I can't see her hurt anyday. I still love her but in silence. Can't just be dishonest by being like a friend. That's dishonest to both her and the friendship.We can't be like before. Love makes emotional connection and attachment stronger. But when that person wants to leave, you question yourself, love, life and everything. You simply cannot be friends with the one you truly love. We can care as a friend, but can't fake like a friend and be opportunistic.Finally, friends can be lovers, but you can't be just a friend with someone you genuinely love. You can feel happy for them staying away, that is what love is all about. Being unconditional.
How come girls always friend-zone me?
Women always keep guys in the friend-zone and I never understood why. Probably for some stupid reason that nobody understands. I don't know about you, but if a girl I like friend-zoned me and it was never gonna change, I'd rather lose the friendship completely and never talk to her again instead of staying in the friend-zone and never leaving.
How do i deal with a boyfriend stealer?
this is how it happened my best friends nows about the drama me and my boyfriend are having so she said she'll talk to him, well it looks like she did more than talk...she told him a lot of lies about me like(i was cheating on him)he belived her so she asked him out 3 weeks later the relashionship didnt go so good now she want me to be her BF again and he wants me to be his GF again what schould i do????????
What should I do about my daughter's best friend?
First of all your are not the first person to ask this question. I have had some incidents with cutting with one of my best friends. Unfortunately she is no longer with us. One of two things it sounds like her friend wants to tell her to get help or she wanted to see if she'd keep a secret. Your daughter was right in telling you its a very destructive thing call self mutilationation. Is usually cause my high levels of stress and other things. Your daughter and you have every right to to approach her mother if not. You can call the authorities and have her taken into protective custody. No matter how mad her friend gets at her. Just tell her she did the right thing. Sometimes are not ment to be secrets especially when they involve hurting themselves or someone else. Your daughter is a good kid if give her kudos for coming forward because they its a very hard thing to do.
Why don't guys just stay friends with you after you reject them for dating?
There are several reasons why. Firstly: -Pride. You've hurt their pride. Good going. -Embarrassment. They're sort of embarrassed to meet you because suddenly, all the trust you two had is gone. -Awkwardness. The massive stigma of being an 'ex' means that you and him probably have very little to talk about that won't involve something awkward. -Bad memories of breaking up. That sucks. This comes under the broad term of being 'hurt'. -The-thinking-that-the-world-spins-aro... Some may think that if they don't need to see you at all, everything is fine. -They think you're a sh*t head. You may have done or said something or a series of things that have just downright annoyed them, causing them to possibly hate you through a series of different times that they think about what just happened.
My ex wants us to stay friends, but I'm not sure I can watch her move on to another guy. What do you suggest?
A couple of people I know are friends with their exes. I don’t know how they do it.My ex wanted to remain friends. I declined. I don’t hate him. I just know myself. He’ll complain of a headache one day and I’ll spend my entire evening wondering if he remembers how I used to help him with his headaches. He’ll talk about his work-project and I’ll wonder for hours if he misses me helping him with his projects.I overthink things to bits. If we’re friends I’ll interpret his friendly gestures as an invitation to rekindle. Every evening he didn’t call would be “Does he have a new girlfriend?”. Every evening he did call would be “Is he trying to say he wants me back?”I would convince myself He tells me about his day, asks me about mine, we’re both single… WE NEVER REALLY BROKE UP! YAAAYYYY!About a month after the breakup but still being friends, I’d start making jokes(?) about how no girl he’ll find would be good enough, he’d be trading down.I will not have processed the grief of the breakup. The all-consuming pain of the withdrawal from the addiction that that was, will never have happened. I will have continued to get my fix.I’d want him to be happy, but also miserable without me. I’d want him to tell me leaving me was a mistake. All. The. Time.I’d wait.I can’t do it. I can’t be friends with an ex. I can’t just switch off my feelings.Maybe some day, years later, when he’s irrelevant to me, I can be friends. It will be a new friendship with a new person. I will have changed and so will he and the past won’t matter. Although even that sounds daunting to me. But right now: