Why can't some people ever admit to being or doing wrong?
You know, that is a very good question. I apologize all the time, for everything - I mean, for my attitude, when it's off, or my words (that's a big one!), my actions (rarely far off base here) and my inaction (again, a bigger problem). But I hardly ever hear anyone apologize to me.There is someone close to me, who, in order to get along with them, I just have to keep my mouth shut about some things. There is NEVER, EVER going to be an apology from them; they don't respect me, and they never will. In fact, if and when its possible, they'd rather see me doing poorly than well. They would NEVER cop to that - ever. But that's when they are the most comfortable with me.They can't admit it or deal with it openly, because their "stuff" is subconscious. People have limited "resources" to deal with that kind of material depending on their circumstances, the demands on them physically and otherwise - some people already have enough going on.The way I don't get hurt by them anymore is by sidestepping emotional things, pretty much completely, unless it's something in their world that is going on. Fact is, if I do start talking about 'my stuff," it's going to get trampled on.So, know what the abilities and temperament and tendencies are of the horse you're going to climb up on before you get in that saddle. Once you're there, enjoy what she's got to offer, but let go of the expectations related to that horse being something it isn't. Then you can just enjoy the ride.
Why are most men not willing to be wrong about anything?
Wait, you think that's exclusive to men?Oh, honey…Go date a few women. Then come back and tell me how they never ever have a problem admitting they're wrong.Go ahead. I'll wait.People often struggle to admit when they're wrong, and it may be difficult for them to acknowledge that their perception may be wrong.Some people are douchebags in the way they handle that.But contrary to popular belief, you actually don't have to hang out with douchebags of any gender.I mean, you do realize you have options, right? There are tons and tons and tons of men out there who aren't douchebags. Don't settle for someone who is a dick.But at the same time, you might want to make sure you're not a dick, either. Making broad, sweeping, sexist generalizations about 4 billion-ish people is kind of a dickish thing to do, and men have just as many options as we do. They don't have to settle for dicks, either.
Why does she not want to admit that she is Black?
My friend is Puerto Rican but she looks like a black person and she has many physical traits of a Black person. And it just makes me mad how she acts when she is afllitaed with the word Black she gets mad and says that I'm not Black! Why are people so self-hating?
Do Taurus men have remorse or knows their wrong doing?
I am taurus girl and if this were my situation I would not admit to a thing that happened so long ago. We hate proof that we are wrong and unless we are in a continued setting( meaning always seeing the person we hurt) we put the fact that we hurt them out our minds. I am not sure if I am the only Taurean who thinks this way, but if the situation stretched longer than say 2 or so weeks I definitely would have put it OUT of my mind. Regardless of whose fault it is. See 1) it would mean that I am in some way at fault (that is unacceptable since I should always remain in the right) and 2) if that much time had past I would scarcely be thinking about the bad situation cuz it would just b a waste of my time. That sounds harsh but that is the truth I think he has (no matter if he still talks 2 you or not) detached himself from the situation so it no longer occurs to him that he may have something to make up 4. In his mind the situation is dead and gone and unless a TSUNAMI like experience shakes him he will not give a dam about that past. Its like y would I concern myself with trials of the past when there is so many other things to do? If you guys were still talking there would have been hope that he would admit the wrong but after that long a separation period, you had best move on 'cause sure as hell he has!
Why are people so adamant? Why do they never admit that they are wrong even though they are wrong?
Not all people are. Some are. Could be a myriad of reasons1. They feel insecure and feel good by dominating every conversation no matter how wrong they are. They want to justify how their point of view is right and what a big loser you are by not agreeing with them. They will twist and turn their arguments and toss all logic out the window that you will end up feeling drained out and realize the stupidity of wrestling in mud with a pig. 2. They are religious fanatics and can't hear a single word against their God. This goes against the natural human spirit of curiosity and exploration though.3. Their ego is fragile. If they admit that they are wrong, they will have to accept defeat. Surprisingly, man can learn so much more by acknowledging that he was wrong and then trying to learn the truth.4. They have created imaginary benchmarks and judge everyone (including themselves) by these criteria i.e. alcohol is bad, touching elder's feet is good etc. These people are so hard on themselves that they can seldom manage a smile and are consequently hard on others as well.
How do you deal with people that "are always right" even when they are wrong?
They view themself as superior to everyone and thus, always right. Attempting to have a fair conversation with someone who thinks he can never wrong can be a source of frustration. As a result, you're left wondering if a discussion is even worth the effort, since the person who just has to be right puts negotiation and honesty to the side. If you have no choice but to interact with that person regularly, consider taking a strategic approach to communication. If all your efforts fail in dealing with the person who always has to be right, your sanity might be better preserved by disconnecting from him. Remain civil, but stick to the topic at hand in unavoidable conversations. Be polite and don't engage in conversations that have escalated in the past to arguments about who is right.Perhaps he actually lacks information and instead of being okay with the gaps in his knowledge, he overcompensates by claiming that he is always right. Accordingly, he may secretly lack the confidence to accept his weaknesses. People like this are often extremely sensitive to rejection.If the person who thinks he’s right all the time is in your family, focus on managing your reactions to him. When you notice that you start to get irritated and then make an effort to either end the conversation or steer it in a different direction.If someone always thinks they are right, and you try to correct them, you become their enemy. Instead you have to get them to feel like you are on their side, and that your ideas and their ideas are the same.You essentially just have to re-arrange your language to not be combative in any way shape or form.
Why do guys blame their girlfriends for their wrong doing?
i don'r understand when my boyfriend cheated on me and we were arguing about it he turned it all on me like i did wrong he made me feel wrong like i cheated i even apologized to him a billion times but i didn't know why i was apologizing my boyfriend told me that i didn't love him because we always argued about why he cheated on me but iwould say if you loved me you would have never cheated then he was like everyone makes mistakes and didn't expct for me to break up with him but when he heard i talked to a guy at the mall he broke up with me and thought everything was supposed to be ok why do guys think everything they do is ok but whaen a girl does it all hell breaks lose
Why don’t police officers just come clean and admit that they shot an unarmed black man in the back because he’s black?
Because the likelihood they did it because he’s black is hard to prove, and these days it’s highly unlikely.The police received a call that some guy was breaking windows. A description was given, a helicopter responded to the scene, the pilot saw a guy breaking windows, and followed him until cops on the ground could arrive. They tell him to get down, but instead he runs. They give chase.Here’s where things become unclear. The cops say he turned to them with an object in his hand that they thought was a gun, which later turned out to be a cellphone. He gets shot eight times, six of them in the back.Officers who fear for their safety don’t have the luxury of waiting to make sure whether something is a gun or not, so they open fire.Here’s the thing the rest of us should do…let the investigation be over before we express rage or opinions on how things could have been better. We DO have the luxury of waiting to make sure that we have all the facts.If the investigation shows the officers acted negligently or illegally, they SHOULD face the appropriate punishment. However, if they acted in good faith, we should accept that Clark made a dumb decision that cost him his life.Remember, Clark had a criminal record. Not relative to the narrative? Horse hockey. A criminal record indicates a history of unlawful behavior.So let’s wait until all the evidence comes in before we call Clark a sinner or a saint.It’s very probable that he wasn’t shot because he was black, but because they feared he was armed. Let’s see ALL the evidence first, and go from there.