Do girls/women like it when you defend their honor?
If you're thinking of it as "defending her honor" you may have a slightly obtuse conception of the idea. Some women will go for an over-the-top romantic approach, but I think more will appreciate a man capable of handling situations with tact and subtlety. That said you should absolutely confront any person who disrespects your lady. If she tells you she finds it backwards, she can defend herself, etc. then by all means keep quiet in the future. However I think you'll find most women will appreciate a gentleman who is confident enough to approach and correct truly rude behavior that impacts her. No need to be violent or mean to the offending party, just show you're confident in handling those situations smoothly. Make sure you're doing so for her benefit and leave your own ego out of the equation. Your aim here should not be to get into physical fights. (If you do form the confrontation in terms of a physical challenge and then refuse to fight, then you can bet she'll think less of you.)
How do I act when boyfriend's friends think I'm ugly?
That’s not acceptable.In 40 years of dating the closest I’ve ever come to that was to tell a girlfriend - completely truthfully - ‘You’re not pretty but my God, are you beautiful…’Do you see the difference there, please?Even if you are what some people think is ugly, that’s their opinion, not your natural state. There are other people out there who will find you extremely attractive.You need to tell this guy that even thinking, let alone stating that you’re ugly is and always will be wholly unacceptable. He needs to take it back, right now; apologize profusely, right now; tell his friends to do the same, right now or hit the high-way.There are hundreds and thousands of guys out there who will find whoever you are very attractive and the fact that you’re currently with someone who doesn’t appreciate you for who and what you are isn’t really your fault…
I just found out that my girlfriends ex boyfriend hit her how do i cope with that?
i just want to hurt the guy i cant even think about it she told me she did the best she could and ran but i think thats crap i just want to teach him a lesson and beat the sh** out of him. i cant figure out what to do but i need to do something and i do know that
Why will my boyfriend not defend me when his colleagues talk bad about me but rather laugh with them?
Because of two things:He doesn’t respect you. If he did, he would jump to your defense and tell his friends to cease and desist or else. Then he would never put you in that situation agaiHe has no respect for himself and feels the needs to conform so he can fit in and feel good about himself.Either one, or both, are not not healthy and can be dangerous. So, what do you do? Stand up for yourself. If you find yourself in that situation again, put your foot down and speak your mind. Freedom of Speech and freedom to defend yourself are RIGHTS granted to you. Call your boyfriend and his friends out for the disrespectful misogynists that they are. Then leave. Or if you don’t want to wait that long, be straight up with your soon to be ex and tell him how you feel, and that you just discovered that you deserve a man who treats you like a princess, not like a floor mat. Then tell him to hit the road because his free pass to treat you like scum has been permanently revoked. Then call up some girlfriends and go out and have fun. And never look back.
This guy punched my girlfriend?
This guy was harrassing my girlfriend before I went out with her, he called her flatchest and hit her and stuff. Then the other day in PE we were standing there and he is jealous of me because I have her and he likes her just he shows it in an idiotic way, so he was making fun of her and I didn't really do anything but then he punched her across the face and she fell to the ground and I said "You knocked her down why dont you try knocking me down" so we went into the parking lot in front of the school and the other students and teachers in PE watched us and we had a fist fight and I beat him, which resulted in me getting a big suspension... Did I do the right thing?
My girlfriend is mad at me for "not standing up for her.” She accidentally spilled her drink on a girl in the club. The other girl threw her drink on my girlfriend and her boyfriend shoved me. I grabbed my girlfriend and we left. What should I do?
Wow, I'm sorry this happened to you both. What an unfortunate accident that turned into violence and hate toward you and your girlfriend. That just stinks.Look, there was nothing you could have done in that situation. You had to diffuse the anger, and get the heck out. It most certainly could have escalated. What I'm interested in knowing is how you handled things after you left? Let me let you in on a little secret. Women still want to be protected by their boyfriends/husbands. It is deeply ingrained in us. If nothing can be done during an escalated situation (which clearly here was the case), then at least, at the very least, how about what Otis Redding sings about...Try a little tenderness.Forget those other crazy people. Supporting your girlfriend would have been the best and only thing to do in this situation. She needed your support. Having a drink thrown in her face after she tried to apologize was about the most humiliating and hateful thing she could have experienced. The best response I can think of to this crazy evening out would be to have helped her get cleaned up, taken her to a special place, bought her another drink, held her hand and told her that it was all going to be okay. You could have held her close and let her spit out her pain verbally- given her some extra loving care all night and let her calm down in her own time. Blaming each other will never resolve any situation and this one was impossible to resolve. But tenderness can go a long way. And it usually does. Otherwise, why do we kill ourselves to be in these most complicated of human couplets? Not to defend ourselves, but to find a team we can belong to.
My Girlfriends brother hits and abuses her. HELP?
Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a few weeks now and her brother hits her all the time. I guess its been going on for along time. I really love this girl and would do ANYTHING for her. She calls me on the phone crying just about 3 or 4 times a week when her brother punches her in the stomach or across the face. He tells her it will be twice as bad if she tells her parents and tells her to lie about how she gets hurt. I honestly cannot take it anymore but I dont know what to do! I have not met anyone in her family other than her mom but only for a few minutes. I want to say something to her brother but I dont know. Im hoping that someone that has been in this situation or has some good advice.
Guy punched my girlfriend, and i walked away?
You're lucky she's just mad at you. Some chicks I know would've kicked your *** just for leaving them there. I take some of the words back, but I got a question. How big are you(height, weight) and how big did the guy seem to be?