Why do my parents not trust me for no reason?
I am a 15 year old girl. I am an honor roll student and I have always lived my life just to please them. They expect me to be inside all the time with them. But, how am i just supposed to stay inside my house 24/7? I can't hang out with any of my friends! One day they came to my house and I just wanted to say hi so i asked my mom if i could go right outside my door but she said no! They only let me watch tv and use my phone during the weekends and they make me give them my phone at 9:00pm. and i if dont then theyll ground me and forbid me from using it the next weekend. its sooooo unfair! who goes to sleep at 9?? I'm starting to feel a little depressed because they won't let me go outside at all and expect me to sit alone in my house doing nothing. I love going to school because its the only place where my parents cant go and watch me, so i try to stay there as much as possible; joining clubs. It's starting to feel like i dont have much of a life though, and if i dont have a life, then whats the point of living? nothing to look forward to. How do i make my parents understand that i am a teenager and that im smarter than to go off somewhere and drink and do drugs. i wouldnt do that! I just wish they trusted me a little. I have a boyfriend now and i havent even told my parents because i know they wouldnt let me do anything with him and they would probably take me out of my clubs at school because they would keep thinking im with him! Please help I really dont know what else to do!!!
My parents don't trust me driving?
You have your license. Your parents don't want a high-risk new driver using their car(s): an entirely rational decision. Your solution is very simple: buy your own car and run it at your own expense. Yes, it's expensive so you have to make choices, but that's what the vast majority of new drivers worldwide also have to do. If your parents provide a car for you then you're very lucky indeed, but they have no obligation to do so and you have no right to expect it from them. To summarise: buying and owning a car is very expensive; just because you have a driving license does not entitle you to free or subsidised car usage.
Why do my parents never trust me?
Because there's drugs out there, plus predators on the computer, your parents think they are doing the "right thing" by restricting you so you won't get caught up in these terrible things that are going on in the world today. Actually, what they should be doing is working WITH you, as an up and coming young person who "they" want to"be a success" in life. Did you here yourself say "im such a loser"? Show them this...this is what they are creating! a child who feels like she is a loser! Like she has done something wrong by being good! So, (I live in San Francisco) the minute they set you free, you might want to find out what all these bad things they are restricting you from. Their making you resentful and depressed. I said I live in San Francisco because when I was younger (I'm a mom too) tons of kids who were so controlled as are you, escaped from their enviorment and came here so they could finally breath. Tons of them got on drugs and never made it back home. If your parents want you to not rebel by the time your 18 (or before), tell them your a young girl developing into a woman someday soon and their restricting your development where you'll have to go out and find out the hard way, by yourself! This is cruel and unusual punishment in my opinion! If you love your child, meet their friends, talk about WHY their controling your computer, WHY their restricting you from everything where you have cacuned yourself into having "no social life to please them", while your brother runs "scott free" probably thinking about doing many of the things your not allowed to do. OMG, think about it!!
My parents don't trust me?
Do everything in your will to stop her stopping you doing what you want. You sound like you have a low self esteem, and you have to use your own opinion to decide whats right, because from what i've heard your parents seem to want to treat you like you have no identity, as though they want you to be fake and not your real self. You're 15, right? just think, one more year and then you get to move out, and once you do you will have you're own rights and be able to kick-start your career in music. Listen out for local shows, get involved because there could be a talent scout there. for the meanwhile talk to your mom, and if she gets mad remind her that you dont care what she thinks, you're going to do something that you enjoy and you want to do. For the facebook thing, have a fake account and give your mom the pass to your normal one. delete all 'bad' people and conversations with lads and friends that you dont want your mom to see. Go under ' conversation options' in your inbox to do this. with your new account, set as your status whats happened and people should avoid talking to that account. block your old account so your mom cant see you have a new one, and then that should be fine. i hope this helps, and good luck:)
My parents don't trust me for no reason?
Saw a response like that coming. I actually type at 45 WPM or so- I'm really fast. It's not like I don't help- I do half of the chores and keep the house decent after 8 people, drive everyone everywhere because Mom's too busy, etc. Idt it's they're worried about my maturity- I'm kinda overly mature at times, and sometimes a killjoy because of it. But, seeing as they distrust me for no reason, I'm not sure of anything about me anymore, so now I'm starting to get pretty depressed...
What do you do when your parents don't trust you?
You have to ask your why don’t my parents trust me and be honest with yourself. Are there tasks at home, school, activities, family relationships that give them reason NOT to trust you. You may think a small white lie is harmless, but a lie is something you deliberately thought about doing, while a mistake is simply that and errors of judgement can happen. So while your little white lies may begin to add up to be even bigger lies, it then leaves your parents to believe they cannot trust you. How do you earn their trust back? Is that possible? Well of course, as saying I won’t do it again, versus NOT doing it again speaks for itself. It is the way you act not what you say you will or won’t do that is the “proof in the pudding”. As you begin to earn their trust then the circle of trust becomes larger.
Why don't my parents trust me & why are they so strict? I can't do anything or go anywhere. My mum always accuses me of doing bad things. I'm 13 & I don't do them.
My guess is that you are not remembering all that you’ve done to make them not trust you. Also, you can lose trust for things that you don’t do, like chores or homework.You understand how you are graded in school. If you get all 10 answers right you get an A. Get less than 6 answers right you get an F. I suggest you sit with your parents and have them outline a process for you to receive a grade once a week on your trustworthiness. This is a test to see how much they can or should trust you to “do the right thing.”They are the parents so like it or not, they say what the test is. But it’s not unreasonable for you to get some say. The test could be a simple as a piece of paper on the refrigerator and every time they have to they tell you you’ve done something wrong they put a check mark on the paper. No person is perfect and in a week nearly everyone (child or adult) would have at least a few marks. But your parents will be able to tell you what is an A and what is an F.If your parents are willing to try this it will make their life easier. If you are as untrustworthy as you claim they say you are, they won’t have to spend as much time arguing with you when they tell you NO because you’ll already have seen your grade from last week as an explanation. If you are not that bad, and the grading systems shows that you usually do what is right, they will feel better about allowing you to do the things you want or to compromise. It will also serve as a reminder to you just what you really are doing.Good luck.
How can I get my parents to trust me with rats?
Last year my parents bought me a horse and I took care of him and saw him everyday until my dog passed away and I was hit with a wave of depression and then I didn’t leave my room other than to go to school and work. My parents now don’t trust me with the responsibility of a couple rats, how can I get them to trust me again? I’ve started cleaning without them asking, doing all my homework, offering to do stuff that they usually do, I got 2 fish and one died but we have no idea why, I’m going to counselling every week, and I don’t cut anymore. I’ve wanted rats for a few years now and both my older siblings had rats but they didn’t take care of them well and that has put my parents off them a bit
Will my parents ever trust me again?
So, I was cleaning my son's room--he was in 10th grade at the time--and I gathered up the water bottles. So, I've got the water bottles and I realize I forgot to take an antibiotic, so I take the antibiotic and open up one of the water bottles to swallow the pill down. Pills in my mouth, swig the water and I WIND UP WITH A MOUTH FULL OF VODKA! Little fukcer put vodka in the water bottle!! ARGH! spit it all out and text my kid: I'm coming up to school to collect your phone, ipod and SCALP. Be there in 10. Long story short, yes you will earn their trust back! Your job is trying to get away with as much as possible and OUR job is to thwart you at every turn! It's awesome to see that your parents love you enough to punish you. It's even better to see that you WANT your parents trust. Somebody put an awful lot of time into raising you. You're a lucky young man--and your parents are lucky that they have such a great kid!