Do you ever feel that you're going to end up alone and bitter?
I felt so earlier, but not now. There was a time when I felt that I was a loser. But now I am confident that I will get a GF, eventhough unsuccessful so far . I realized my unique characters and I am sure there is some girl out there who would love me. So be confident. don't loose your confidence. There are lot of things to come in our future. And we always have a place in there and definitely a partner too.
I've always felt kind of broken.I've always been a little confused about my sexuality XD i think I'm somewhere in the middle, but I've always perfered women (sometimes I wish it wasone way or the other… its not and at this point I've just accepted tbats the way it is)I'm middle school and high school I thought about killing myself every single day. (The thought of college kept me alive XD ha)I have very little self esteemI dated a crazy girl broke up with her and dated someone that I loved and who didn't care about me (I was happy for four years)I isolated myself from everyone that cared about meI finally found someone who i thought may bebecome my friend and then she quit her job today.I feel like I'm alone and will never have a friend, a girl friend, or anyone who really cares about me againI'm pretty damn broken but I will wake up tomorrow put on a fake smile and muddle through another day of my life ^-^
That you are numb inside? Only you can answer that? Ask yourself what made you that way? Don’t put the blame on anyone else. Because you can’t. Because nobody forced you to become numb right? You did it to yourself.Can you do me a favor? Start getting back in tune again with the inner you? Your inner self. Somewhere along the line you lost yourself. Do this through prayer, yes, asking God for help so you don’t lose yourself. Find yourself again. Maybe you gave all you had to give and it was never enough and now it’s time to give some time and love to yourself. Refuel
I just broke up with the best thing that ever happened to me...?
I know what I am about to write is going to seem like he is the worst thing for me, but hear me out… I’m in love with him. There isn’t anything I wouldn’t do for this boy. Well, so about six or seven days ago, he tells me he is not in love anymore. And we came to an agreement that if I can remind him why he was ever in love with me, that we would stay together. I’ve been trying… so hard. And he’s seemed a lot happier. Although, he’s been really sick… so he says. I found out tonight that he’s lying about being sick. And even lied about being sick on my birthday. MY BIRTHDAY!? …ugh, so I’ve just been trying to help him feel better until hes well enough to actually hang out with me, because I really thought he was sick. So I find out that he lied… and I broke up with him… and he’s totally okay with it… because as he said… he’s not in love anymore. All I really need is someone to talk to. I’m so worked up right now, and I don’t want any of my real friends to find out some of the stuff I’ve done since I broke up with him. I don’t know what to do. I want him back, but I realize it’s too soon. ( We were together for a year and four months, and friends for a long time before that. ) I haven’t gone ONE night with out hearing “ I love you, good night. “ from him for a L O N G time. I’m crying so hard. I need him… what do I do? P.S. he's done A LOT of other bad things to me in the past. I've been thorugh so much heartbreak with him, its unreal. :////
Poll: Do you ever feel like....?
Of course I do. I have a mother who loves me for everything, and is always willing to allow me to try new things and expand my abilities. On the otherhand my father is a total jerk 95% of the time. I have an older brother and he is the only one that my dad likes. My brother is a former drug dealer, and probably still a drug user. He dropped out of college TWICE, and he is an alcoholic. He is a 22 year old college dropout living at home. But you know we can't all be winners like my older brother right? I also have an 18 year old sister who recently graduated college and got a job in the field she graduated in and my father didn't even say congratulations.
Ever feel like giving up on love?
i'm 27 and have in no way had a woman buddy. each time a sparkling female comes interior proximity, some guy that purely broke up along with his final lady buddy will sweep her up, leaving me nonetheless single. it is not straightforward that they get yet another purely like that, and that i ought to proceed on my own. Have i presumed approximately giving up? of direction. I hate it whilst human beings say issues like, "Oh, there is somebody for each individual." you be attentive to, for some human beings this could be an somewhat severe rely. while you're a teenager complaining approximately this, you ought to attend till you're in my place, the place you're accepted, have a job and each thing, and yet all of it is going nowhere.
Broke up with boyfriend yesterday but still feel like there's some underlying feelings?
me and my boyfriend broke up yesterday (he was my first love) and we had been going out for almost 2 years. When we were talking about it we both seemed relatively calm and decided to mutually break up, However, the whole time we were discussing breaking up we were hugging, and right before i left we kissed...twice... After i left i really started thinking, and im not sure we even had any grounds to break up at all. We had gone on a 4 week break before we met up again to break up, would the separation of that have anything to do with it? and does anyone think that i should try again at this? im just not sure we should be breaking up.
Have you ever broke up with someone and feel so hurt because they are dating?
I am on an emotional roller coster, we dated for 2yrs and 2months, finally ended. We need to end it. It was unhealthy, he was controlling, jealous, smothering, I lost myself and my selfesteem. I was very unhappy, he was very insecure and accused of things for no reason. I've been trying to leave for a year but he would always call beg, pop up and would end up back in my arms. When we broke up last month he called 3 times with in the month and I was so hurtful to him because I needed him to stop calling for us. We needed move on because we were going in circles. He did stop calling then a friend called and said he was out at my old job on a date it hurt so bad and I called him it was horrible, he wanted me to take him back and he scolded me saying I left him for my selfish reason my job, but it was also because of his ugly personality. I had too. I dont want him back but I want to be his friend. I feel bad that I was so cold, this is one time I know hes not going to call me again.
I broke up with him, but Why do i feel empty inside now?
It's normal. I want you to know that right off the bat. Even if it was the right thing to do, and you know you had to breakup, you're still cutting off what was once a big part of your life. Think of all the time you spent with him or thought about him or talked to him. There's no denying that a boyfriend or girlfriend is a huge part of our life. So now you're done and that person's gone. Right after it's going to feel like there's all this empty time, because you've gotten so used to having someone to go see or talk to and all that. Now you don't. I just wanna reassure you that things will get better. This feeling won't last forever, not even close to forever, alright? It'll be hard at first - you'll try to find things to fill the time, to keep your mind occupied. But eventually you'll get in the habit of not having him around and it won't feel so bad or empty. You're gonna be fine, I promise you. Keep your head up. It's alright to feel lonely for a little bit, but stay strong.
You go out and you party like you do when’s your a strong independent single woman! Get your single gals (you don’t want to be near the one s in relationships tbh) and just all go out!Do not ever let a man ruin your birthday.You listen to Beyoncé’s Lemonade and you dress damn hot every day.You don’t think about dying because he’s stupid. How do I know this? Because he broke up with you a week before your birthday. What an idiot. Imagine that.. taking your own life, taking all your goals you had before him, all your loved ones happiness, everything you’re on this earth for because of a stupid guy who dumps his gf before her birthday?! Not acceptable.I once had a boyfriend and tactically broke up with him with 2 months of buffer room each way between his birthday and his finals. I cared for him and that’s why I timed it right. This guys obviously wanted to hurt you and you should let be hurt because of it.Ironically I’ve had a solid streak of guys self destructing our romance a week before my birthday 3 years in a row. I’d feel very silly if I killed my self after the first one!!The first I loved, we had a thing for 4 years ish. I realised he had a gf a week before my birthday. I got my single chicks and had a damn good time! I also hooked up with his mate. Muahaha.The second reminded me of the first although seemed like a nice guy… turns out he got too drunk/ high, stood me up and made up excuses about not being about to get to his car because of the hangover and wanted to go clubbing instead of our date. Bam.. another party birthday! Woo!The last ghosted me.. that was upsetting although he’s trash… he is absolute trash because of the timing and the ghosting.How dare you even risk your life because of a loser like that. How f*** dare you say that your life is so unimportant that it depends on this boy.I would let you know a price of my mind if you were my friend. Life is so precious. That’s disgusting to measure a break up to be as equal as the worth of your life.Listen to music, stay sober and get on bumble!!Ps. I never go to my friends in relationships when a romance doesn’t work because why’re all judgy as if it’s a higher world. Single is great. Don’t act so precious that single life is somehow below anyone in a relationship.Rock it and wake up tomorrow looking fantastic. Delete him from you life by throwing everything out, selling the jewellery cheap and not letting him cross your mind.