My family don't support my dreams, what do I do?
Probably you are dreaming big or going out of the box to get your dreams accomplished.And on behalf of that i CONGRTULATE you for giving a thought to stand up for your-self and living your life on your own terms because very few people have this immense courage to do so.It happens with most of us that our family and so called relatives are either intimidated by our dreams or they simply give us a tag of “lunatic person”.Right?But i would suggest you to follow whatever your heart desires and not what other people want you to do.They simply want you to do risk-free task and play average,which apparently most of the people do .Some of them infact have no hunch that what they desire from their life,entire life they follow the decisions of other people .I understand that parents and your so called acquaintance need to be suportive,when it comes to following your dreams.Definitely they play a important role.But if they arent supportive then :Go solo!Put your heart in your dream and grab out the results!Realise that if no one is supportive and positive towards your goal,you still can do it if you ventured to dream for that.Avoid contacting anyone who isnt by your side because the more you indulge in conversations with them,the more they will try to retreat your mind and follow what they desire from you.Stop giving explanations to people around you that what you are doing with your life.Your life is a steering of car,dont give it to other people.The pain of regretting is one of the most bitter pain you will endure,if you give up on your dreams because of someone else.So , stop not till you actually achieved it.And remember when you will be done with your accomplishment then the one who mocked you for following your dreams would come to take inspiration.Go prove them wrong!Dont be a cry- baby,you have already endured negativity and lot of negative people who are stopping you to be a master of your own life.Cry, when you will achieve your goal,i want to see you crying hard at that time.I know you can do it and you will definitely do it,all it requires is a temporary struggle and i believe you are strong enough to go against all the odds of you life and create history.“You are more than you appear to be,all the universe powers and strength rests inside you!”All the best wishes from your future fan!Love,VARTIKA
No money..no family support..how to pursue my dream?
Hi! I am studing bachelor of arts Without any intrest in it.bcause i always wanted to study desinging.but evry body does not get supportive and loving parents.my Dad never supported me for anything i wanted to do.and due to lack of support i have already wasted my 3 4 years.now its high time to take my career seriously but still the situation is same.no money no support.my family is not suporting me finacially.and i have to get admision in jewel desiging as soon as possible.people please suggess what to do..how can i pursue my dream on my own.how can i arrange money for the course? Really dipressed and lost.:-(
What is a man's obiligation to support his family?
This is wholly dependent upon the agreement between the two of you. Things change dependent on circumstances. In my case, when we first got married, I made a lot more money than my husband. After two years, I had a baby, fully intended to go back to work, but ended up loving being a SAHM. So we have scrimped and had hard times on his wages, he hasn't really worked anywhere long-term, but with urging, he would always get another job. After this long of you dealing with it, you know the answer. I don't think you got what you "wanted", but then the two of you obviously didn't have things clear between you before you got married - regarding expectations, etc. If you have not been able to motivate him in this long, there is more at stake than just his not working. You have either enabled him, liked the power you held over him, or something.... Has he been depressed? Maybe he didn't get the job of his dreams, but most men would settle to just be working in today's economy. This is no reason to leave the marriage, but the two of you sure could use some professional counselling.
My family doesn't support my dreams ! HELP !?
It is highly unlikely but don't give up just because your family doesn't support you. My friend is a great singer and her dad doesn't support any of it. But she still does it anyways. You're friends support you right? You just have to work hard and take matters into your own hands. I know that family support is a good basis for any ones dreams but you just need to blow off what they say and keep going. Try and get into as many plays as you can at your school and do all you can to improve your acting Here, watch this video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w50Uhu1D_q8 It's pretty inspiring!!! :) LOOK AT IT ^^ Good luck with the Family!
My husband is smart but can not financially support our family.?
First of all he should pay for his own bad decisions, you are NOT his mother. Secondly, he should want to support his family. Third, when are you really going to put your foot down and put a stop to him freeloading off you? I don't understand, I am also a nurse; been married for 18 years and mother of 2 children. My husband put me through school and he still found time for his profession. I understand each person is different and I'm not trying to compare but come on. It sounds like he has not intentions of stepping up to the plate. Put your foot down and let him know playtime is over. He is 38 years old. He should be set in his profession and able to support his family. My opinion, you are being used. He knows he doesn't have to do anything because you are going to come through for him. If you don't, it sounds like he thinks your family will bail you out of your financial issues. You have a degree and it sounds like you have the support of your family. Make a decision, and either put your foot down or continue to be treated the way you are treated. The hold back is him. He may think that it is no big deal that you are supporting the family, but it really is. You are seeing what the rest of your future is going to look like. Do you want to live that way? Good Luck
My mom never supports me?
My mom is just like that. I end up doing things on my own and I'm actually fine with it. If you want to go to the gym then go on your own or if you can't look up how to do it at home because exercising at home works as well. Don't depend on her to change you just do it and show her that you don't need her uncaring ***.