Christians:What happens to children who are raised and conditioned to believe that killing/stealing is right?
A person who dies in such a state of violent consciousness, goes to hell. Now the question may be raised; "For what reason was that person forced to take birth through such parents and in such circumstances? This question is very difficult to answer through the Bible we presently know because Christians have chosen to compile the canon in such a way, as to leave out all books that hint at reincarnation. There were originally about 50 gospels, only 4 made it to the canon. Why? Who decided which one was suitable and which one not? According to other scriptures (Vedic): Every human being, through the means of desires and activities, amasses a certain amount of piety and impiety during his lifetime. According to the balance of the pious and impious acts, performed in the previous lifetimes, a person receives a particular body in his next life. Pious activities result in an auspicious birth, with plenty of opportunities to improve both materially and spiritually. Impious activities lead to an inauspicious and wretched condition. That's why some people take birth as a prince, others as yogis and still others as a beggar, disabled or diseased, skinny, fat, strong, weak etc.... Many people don't like to hear this but this is how it goes. Practically, in every lifetime, through the use of our free will, by choosing particular desires and activities, we are modeling the conditions of the body we will receive the following lifetimes. The tendency one follows in the present lifetime, is formed in previous lifetimes through the means of desires. Thus, by positively changing our desires at present, we can change our condition in the future, as we will receive a more godly body, in more auspicious circumstances next life.
I think that it took me yelling at my son in the mall that I wouldn’t buy him the $150 shoes that he felt he was entitled to because 1. I make enough to afford them and 2. Because I have so many shoes. It took me two days to calm down enough to have a heart to heart with my teenagers. I told them that yes, I probably made more money as a single parent than most of their friends and I also bought most of my shoes (which I admittedly have way too many of and spent way too much on) before I adopted them. I told them that if either one ever spoke to me the way that I was spoken to again, we would leave the mall immediately and they would leave empty handed. And that they had better not even think of starting it up after I had bought them what they needed because I would most certainly return every item that was bought. Furthermore, because I know how my kids think, if they thought ripping the tags off first would prevent me from returning an item, it would go to goodwill where someone else would be grateful for getting it. I ended my calm conversation by telling them that what I choose to spend my money on is not their business and if they didn’t like how I chose to spend or not spend my money on them, they needed to get jobs so they could spend their money however they want. I also reminded them of speaking to me and treating me like I’m their parent. I said that I don’t care what they think or feel about/towards me, but they absolutely will treat me with the respect that a parent deserves.The next day, my son chose to disrespect me (big time disrespect me) then expected a ride somewhere. I let him know that I would be more than happy to take him, as long as he could pay my “fee” for gas and time, just like an Uber. He said that I’m his parent and he shouldn’t have to pay me. I then told him when he starts to treat me like a parent, I would act like one.He thought he was brilliant with his next move. He said, “well, since you’re not my parent, I can be home whenever I want.” I replied, “not so fast, you are treating me as if I’m your guardian and that is exactly how I am responding. I am still providing you with food, shelter, and clothing and not charging you. And for that, I have been given certain rights such as to tell you what time you are to be home as well as if, when, and where you are permitted to go.”Works like a charm.
Do you think it is better for a Same Sex Couple to raise a child?
As far as wishing he was never born, God didn't breath the breath of life in him for nothing. Maybe he is to be the #1 supporter of preventing other children from having to go through this. He can make something positive out of this and his mother could help.God didn't provide us with children to anyone who wanted them. He presented us with a relationship union of a man and woman to populate the earth. If he had intended for one or the other to do so, he would have made that so. Man is the one who has misused the knowledge God has provided for us and made it possible for people to abuse the meaning of parents. Your friend is probably a good person, but I would have to agree with her son that it was a very selfish act on her part to think she could raise a child and decide a father was not necessary. That is a type of abuse to me. God made the family unit and man has grossly manipulated it for self gratification. I realize this seems harsh, I am totally doing what is good for children no matter how the adult feels and at the same time the parents are the in charge and are responsible for doing what is right, not what they want.
What are the cons of being raised by a single parent women?
Well research has shown the following. Children are more likely to face physical abuse. Children are more likely to face emotional abuse. They are more likely to be murdered by their mother than their father, They are far more likely to end up in prison. They are far more likely to drop out of school. Girls are more likely to become pregnant both out of wedlock and as a teen. Boys tend to have self esteem issues and have trouble relating to other men when they grow up. Children are more likely to commit suicide as teens and adults. Children are more likely to have behavior problems. Children of single mother households tend to be worse off economically. Boys who grow up in single mother households are less likely to stick around for their own kids. When they are told fathers are not needed then they simply do not feel the need to father their own children. I could go on but I think you get the gist. Children need the balance that comes from having access to both a mother and a father. Edit: Omg so many TD's for showing proven facts. I guess it just proves that MRA's are right and feminists don't care about the truth.
No.It helps to see children as scientists and problem solvers. The parents role is to make it safe for kids to explore. Parents are nearby like loving mentors to keep an eye on the big picture that the child can’t yet. Parents take care of safety, respect of others and keep things practical. They let children see how thinking beyond the immediate goal is done.Children should be able to trust their parents to give them the help the child wants. Children want to become more competent at the world, as Daniel Pink’s TEDTalk illustrates. Just like adults they want challenges that stretch their abilities. Just like adults they don’t want to flounder helplessly over their heads.To grow, children need to tackle what the child sees as challenges. If the parent assumes a situation is a challenge but the child is overwhelmed, the child isn’t learning what the parent expects. The child is learning they can’t trust the parent to be their partner in helping them achieve what they’re trying to do. They can sense the parent has an agenda to train them to the parent’s standards.Parents may feel proud of themselves on the few occasions when they push beyond what the child felt was a limit and the child succeeds. But parents don’t remember the far more numerous times when parents push and kids crumble. By being pushed the child doesn’t learn more about how and when to listen to their own inner voice. They learn how to ignore it and depend on someone else to push them.
Do you feel i am being harsh or over reacting '?
Hmmm, properly the time to voice those concerns is to achieve this especially and throughly to the college board assembly. you will ought to start exhibiting up on the college board and conversing up oftentimes. Unfotunatly conversing up whilst the college is telling you no would not frequently artwork okay. unhappy to assert your basically gonna ought to regulate to their hair standards for now to get your daughter by way of this testing section. now's not the time to combat this conflict in this manner. you will lose and you're being seen as a hassle making ascertain to the college. faculties truly provide mom and dad who combat them in college a not undemanding time. Write a letter to the college your concerns. Then do not deliver it yet study it some days later, and be constructive to apply actual statements. at times once you % to combat something you won't be able to achieve this without delay on. it is not undemanding to guard scuffling with whetehr or not the college ought to droop your daughter, or whether or not hair that's crimson or spotlight is a disruption. yet you could argue the way you're recommended if it violates written coverage or the way your daughter is notified if it vioaltes coverage. you will ought to start analyzing the college regulations to make your recommendations up the place they are screwed up. i hit upon that when a individual is severe a pair of rule they are breaking their very own regulations in some way. So decide the place. After your letter, refer to the college board at their conferences. Then initiate writing an open ed, be very careful on the way you be conscious it.
Am I the only one who thinks this law is too weak?
I think child molesters ought to be imprisoned for life. We can physically prevent them from re-offending. That being said, I think it's ridiculous that a doctor can be convicted of murder for ending the life of a suffering terminal patient but a government employee can collect a paycheck for executing a perfectly healthy person. I understand your "moral itch" but mine is different from yours.
What do you think of parent strictness?
My parents were unbelievably strict when I was a kid. My dad was a police officer and I was scared to death of him. I don't recommend scaring your kids because I'm now 40 and still not comfortable around my father, but in terms of being strict, my parents did a pretty good job. I was a good student, varsity swimmer for all 4 years in high school, never drank, smoked, or did drugs, and I've never committed a crime (other than a moving violation, like speeding). I hated my parents when I was a kid because I thought they were over the top, but you know what? I'm totally OK with my son "hating" me when he's a teenager because I'm strict with him. He will grow up to be a better person for it. On the other side of the coin, I have seen far too many parents try to be "friends" with their children and it always backfires. If the child doesn't respect the parent as an authority figure, there are no guidelines. No rules to follow. If the child knows that the parent won't follow through, then what is to stop the child from behaving badly? Kids need to know what their parents expect of them, whether it's good grades, not sneaking out at night, adhering to curfew, not smoking, etc., and if the rules aren't followed, an appropriate punishment will be given. I love my son more than any other person on Earth and I want him to grow up to be happy AND a contributing member of society. Many of my friends' kids won't and that's because at the ages of 6 and 7 they already disrespect their parents. I don't hit but I have taken away my son's allowance, restricted him from his PlayStation, and sent him to bed early for breaking the rules (lying, etc.). He is generally a good kid and knows what is expected of him. If I relax on those rules, his bad behaviors will increase because he knows he won't get punished. Teaching a child right from wrong is a parent's JOB. If my son rebels when he's older, then he'll REALLY understand what punishment is about.