What are the signs he just sees you as a friend?
A huge sign that a guy just see's you as a friend, would be if he talks about other girls with you? Like, my guy friends tell me who they think are hot and who they have a crush on and who they would totally bang ;) Another sign is that a friend is comfortable with you no matter what, like my guy friends sit on me and hold my hand as a joke and aren't shy about physically touching me because we are friends. But you said here that when you sat next to each other, he moved away a few inches? That could mean that what you have is more than a friendship situation? Friends wouldn't care no matter how close they are, but if he had a crush on you, than the awkwardness he felt when he was near you might be a sign? It's hard to explain, but you have to look at the small details, without over thinking the situation. You also have to be careful ,because if he is just a friend, and if you did start liking him and he didn't like you back, or the other way round, it could make your friendship awkward. But personally, i think it sounds as if he does like you(; Good luck!! xxxx
Hooking up with your crush's best friend.?
I don't think you are going about it the right way, here. Do you? Using his best friend to make him jealous...is going to backfire on you when he realizes you are using his best friend. And what about the friend? Do you think that using him like that is a nice thing to do? If you aren't interested, decline. Perhaps this is why the one you like is not interested in you to begin with. Because he knows his best friend likes you. So by showing him you aren't interested in his friend, you may be clearing the way for the two of you when his friend realizes you aren't interested and moves on.
Signs he likes you vs. Signs he sees you as just a friend?
ok i totally know how you feel about this!! i have a bunch of guy friends and could never really tell if any liked me or wanted to be my friend. All guys act differently around their friends and people they like. now for me there were no signals because my guy friend was such good friends with me. Some people say if a guy teases you he likes you. answer sadly is not true it depends on what type of friendship you have with him. Now if you are not sure the best thing to do is to try to become one of his closest friends and then once you become better friends you should actually beable to find out. Look at the way he acts around girls that are not his friends and girls that are his friends or even his normal friends. sadly every guy is different which doesnt help us girls that much. If all else fails you should talk to him about a guy you like or think is cute and see how he acts. Does he try to comfort you and help you? which equals friends or does he try to discourage you or tries to help you awkwardly? another question is if you like him or just want to be friends with him because if you like a guy its easy to mix up a signal into looking like he likes you. So ask yourself if you want him to like you or not and then go from there.
I like a guy but he just sees me as a friend. What should I do?
“I have currently stopped talking to him”First piece of advice, don't suddenly disappear without giving an explanation. Imagine it from this guy’s perspective, he's been chatting online with you, then complete silence. How would you feel the other way around? Trust me, although most guys would understand silence means a woman is upset, other than that, they have no clue what's going on in your head. When it comes to communicating emotions, they’re simple creatures, being direct is easier.We’ve all been there at somepoint. Frustrated when we don't get what we want. The problem is that you'll start repeating this behaviour with any guy that crosses your path, because you fear being open with them.I'm assuming that you don't know him in real life (correct me if I'm wrong), in which case, putting it out there that you like him isn't going to cause you too much discomfort if he doesn't want to take things further.Just because he's two years older doesn't mean he maybe more confident. Lots of guys will chat to a girl, but be afraid in making the first move, in exactly the sameway you are.I had one guy tell me after three years he was in love with me. I genuinely had no idea, because he was playing it cool. They say women are complicated!There are two outcomes, but with one important lesson to learn from. Don't fear rejection, you really have nothing to lose, cutting someone off without taking a risk/giving it a chance won't benefit you in the longterm.Best wishes,Abi
Why do guys usually just see me as a "friend"?
i know a lot of guys who think im cute..and tell me im cute. but when it comes down to it its like they wouldnt date me.. and idk why.. i have a lot of good guy friends. and i know alot of guys.. and i asked this one guy today if he thot i was ugly.. and he said " i dont look at u like that" yes, we have known eachother for a really long time and stuff, but idk i just wanted ta know if he thoght i was ugly. and it just seems like guys just always want to be my friend.. OR just like a "fuc* buddy" why is this?
My crush wants to just be friends help!?
Listen, I know it hurts TONS, but you have to move on for your own sake. Look, at least you've found out the answer rather than crushing on him for years and years and find out that he only likes you as a friend in the end! Remember that anything someone chases in life runs away so keep that in mind and do not chase him. Since he said that he only likes you as a friend, continue to be his friend, but make this casual. Do not be the person that he'll come to for relationship advice and don't hang out with him and his buddies or he'll see you as one of the 'guys.' If you're stuck in this type of friend zone, then it's like impossible to get out! In the meantime, stop contacting him and go out to meet new people. If you guys are meant to be, you will be in the future (hence, be his friends) P.S. I've in your shoes before. I was rejected when I confessed to him my feelings, and we're still friends now. It hurt so much at first, but you should be able to heal as time flies by!
What does it mean when he says he just wants to be friends?
When a male friend zones a female, it does not usually mean the same thing as when a woman friend zones a man.When a girl or woman tells a guy she just wants to be friends, it’s usually because she isn’t romantically interested in him, or sexually attracted to him. However, when a guy says he just wants to be friends, it’s often more about lack of commitment than attraction.Almost every guy who has ever asked to “just be friends” with me, followed up that request by continuing to flirt with me, and expecting that I would be interested in sex under this header of “friendship”. These guys also often become jealous when you move on to be with someone who wants an actual relationship.So what does he mean when he says he just wants to be friends? It really doesn’t matter what he means. What it should mean for you is that he is only a friend, and nothing more. Don’t allow him to prey on that friendship to get into your pants.Good luck!
I still love him but he only sees me as a friend, and don't want to lose him. What should I do?
You need to lose him. You need to fight that addiction you have for him and get away.If he is not interested in you now, he will never be. You will watch him get a girlfriend and then get a wife and in the meantime you will have no life.So your only option is to go FULL NO CONTACT with this “friend” who will never be more than a “friend”He is probably just using you for narcissistic supply, and if you don’t know what that is, please read up on it on Quora.Whenever there is a person who is the “best friend” of someone who has friend zoned them, it is almost a given that the one who is the object of desire for the other is a narcissist and they are using the one with the crush as “narcissistic supply” and they will never let you go, and you will never get the relationship with them that you want.The only healthy thing to do then is cut off all contact with them ASAP!!!!Move on and find a guy who actually wants to be with you as boyfriend (lover and friend) and eventually husband. That is what you deserve and you won’t get it with this guy who has “friendzoned” you for his own benefit.MOVE ON….
My boyfriend wants to just be friends. What should I do?
I would say this is nothing abnormal or a exceptional situation that you are facing. People who have been in long term relationship always do face a similar situation if not the same at some point of time. Its an old saying if a bird leaves the cage and doesn't come back it was either never meant for it or it just wanted to break loose of the confinement. There is a strong bond between you both from what I sense as you have said "We obviously love each other ....... we've tried before and we always got back together"But I feel you guys didn't do anything much to address for the reasons you broke up every-time. Things became normal after some time and you guys moved on back to your old routine. This is the time when you have to introspect yourself that do you really want, carry on like this or because there is a lot of unpredictability in your future take a step to call it off. Secondly you have got into a comfort zone and created a cocoon for yourself which you have to break free off. You have got too much influenced/dependent on your boyfriend emotionally/physically.If you know no one likes you, then you would also know why no one likes you just try to address that and move one with opportunities/a new boyfriend. World has these in abundance its just that you have to get out and explore.I would just suggest give your self and you boyfriend a break by being just friends. See if he really does feel the void created by your absence in his life or you just don't mean to him much.
Why does he want to be "just friends" but treats me like he loves me?
He is afraid to make a commitment. Or, he is afraid that if he does, he will be locked into it and he will feel trapped. I think you should be grateful that he treats you so well. If he treats you like he loves you, he probably does.Maybe he feels he is too young to have a long term serious relationship. Maybe he has some dreams he has not shared that he thinks you will not be able to accommodate.If you can’t discuss this directly with him, your relationship is definitely not yet ready for a commitment.