Is a 45 year old man dating a woman 20 years younger a "bad" thing.?
I wouldn't say it is a bad thing, but I would be very careful. The younger man older man thing could work, but take your time. Because you were set up, we can assume your buddy had your best interests at heart. The world is so corrupt now a days, you have to take care of yourself. No one will respect you more than you. All I am saying is to be careful. Don't jump in head first. Get to know this chick first. Don't let her break your heart. She is young, and most young women eventually come around and say, "I'm so young, I'm not ready to commit, I'm sorry, but I can't". BE CAREFUL. If she is the one for you, then time will reveal. Sure, go for it. . but, do so with one eye open. You have to be careful. I wish the best for you and I hope she is not a bad, gold digging apple.
Do men in their late 20's think that an 18 year old is too young?
I'm 18 and I prefer older men from 23-28 but they all seem so busy with their life's and I'm still in HS. But I like them because of their maturity and everything. Would they think I'm too young?
Do you think getting married young is a bad thing?
I want to get married young (22-24 maybe) but it seems like everyone thinks it's so terrible? Do you think that if two people are honest, responsible and really love each other, they can make it work?
Is a woman in her late 30s not desirable because she doesn’t/cannot have kids?
Not not really. For men who don’t want kids or already have kids, it’s actually a plus. As long as you don’t mind being a step-mom, you are likely to not have any problem.You are never going to be desirable by everyone. Your real problem would be that by late 30s most “good” men would be married and they usually stay married or don’t stray.If you are attractive then you shouldn’t even having problem dating younger men in their 20s. But of course if you are looking for serious relationship then try to date men in their 30s who would be more interested in getting married.
Why do women in their mid 30's get so desperate for a boyfriend/husband?
Women in their thirties probably wasted their twenties with men in their twenties. It's fine if they do that by choice, but they should have been told that it's OK for a girl in her early twenties to marry a man in his early to mid thirties if they want to settle down. Women in their thirties need to know that men in their forties and fifties are still energetic and fun to be with, and that boys in their twenties are just as good for meaningless and very quick whatever as they always were. I don't know why people are so hellbent on believing men and women should date their age mates. It only leads to nubile twentyish women pressuring little boys to grow up and marry, to single motherhood and unwelcome fatherhood, and as you say, to annoying single thirty somethig women who are upset that men who are just ready to become fathers want girls who are just ready to become mothers.
Should a 20 year old woman and a 45 year old man date?
Dating him shouldn't be much of an issue unless you're considering something more serious and longer term relationship. If you guys were to marry and expect a long relationship together, there can be some potential issues. First, because of the difference in age, there might be many things he's already experienced, learned, observed, have opinions on. You might, on the other hand, going through a learning process yet. This difference in learning levels causes problems over time. Sex is a very important part of a good relationship. Imagine 10 years from now, when you're still in your prime (30s) with strong desires and drive to make love, he would be in his mid to late 50s. Though he might want to partcipate, he might not be able to perform or satisfy you as much. That's huge. You'll have to be a little selfish --- thinking about what this might mean to you. And you'll have to be thinking long term as well --- what this means 10-15 years down the line. If you are still convinced he's the guy, why not? Good luck.
What is the best place for a single guy in his late 20s to live?
I’m about your age and I rent a room in a house with 6 other people. (Strangers)I found the place on craigslist and I’ve really enjoyed it so far.If you’re trying to save money I would definitely suggest renting a room. If you have a lot of stuff that isn’t really an option though. If money’s not an issue I would suggest renting a studio or a 1 bedroom. Although a room or apartment is sort off a bad idea if you enjoy bumping loud music all night.Live wherever make’s you feel comfortable and not restricted. Make sure your landlord is a good person.
Do women in their early 20s get attracted to men in their late 40s or older?
Yes, they do! Girls in their twenties are going through the most amount of emotional growth. They want someone who can handle that. Further, with old age comes experience and patience: virtues every one admires.With experience comes intelligence and that is a HUGE attraction factor.Having said that, most of us are smart enough to realise that these are attractions brought on by admiration and not love. These are not even infatuations, but the externalisation of our emotional struggle to someone who in our eyes, has seen it all!So yeah. If you're a man in your forties and have girls 'liking' you, you're probably a very looked upto, respectful man!And if you're a guy in your twenties, don't worry. Hang in there. Just make it worthwhile so that the ones you run after today; admire you tomorrow. :D