What do you think about males getting their ears pierced?
What do you think about earrings on males?What do I think?Do no harm, forgive and forget. Be compassionate and understanding. Spread love not hate. Help others in need. And adorn yourself as your see fit.Those are the basic tenets of my “religion”. Sometimes I succeed, and other times I fail.I used to wear earrings back when people used different sides (left or right) to identify as gay or straight. This was the early 80s after all.So I pierced both sides, by myself. Without a potato ouchhh!I didn't care what people thought. I was judged unfairly by others anyway. so I figured wtf. As a straight guy, It didn't really matter because I knew who I was.The most I’ve done was 2 traditionally placed holes on each ear. This was before other types of piercings became mainstream, otherwise I might have gotten more piercings as well. I've always wanted a row of bling up and around my ears, in all those places it supposedly hurts like a mofo.The only looks I really don't care for are gauges and septum piercings. But that's just me. I know lots of people that wear those well.I used to wear studs, small hoops, and large hoops. I think even a diamond at one point too. That led to a small lucky number tattoo on my pinky, done by a gypsy lady working out of a store on Sierra Highway, for the everlasting till-death-do-us-part price of $7.Today, it still looks like a $7 piece of work. I now have one inner forearm covered and a small 3″ x 1.5″ tattoo on the opposite forearm near my wrist.Back in the day I had hair to my waist, and at times it reeked of 40 volume peroxide bleached and stained in various shades of Manic Panic red, green and blue. Blue black was also a fav.I know successful people covered almost head to toe in my ink, with piercings as well. Some have had rough lives and others are just following their bliss.It's ok to judge me, because you'll probably never truly know me, or even care to try. But if you must, I'm a dad, a father, and a papa first..
Why do men with an older sister act considerably more feminine?
Not true. I have 2 elder brothers who have an elder sister - and I also have a younger brother so I am an elder sister. And trust me - NONE of my brothers are effeminate.
I'm a 13 year old male who enjoys wearing my older sister's cheerleader uniform ,what's wrong with that?
I'm a 13 year male old high school student and when my older 17 year old sister is not home I like to wear her cheerleader uniform.I don't see anything wrong with it,what's the big deal,some people might take it the wrong way,I'm not gay,no one is home at the time.I think it's really not fair that a guy can't wear what he wants to,there are too many rules in this country,who else thinks the same way? My older sister is taller and bigger so I don't strech out her clothing,I don't want to wear women's clothing just my sisters,I don't wear her clean cheerleader uniform only her dirty ones,she looks like a miss teen usa,I don't see what the big deal is,no one is home when I'm wearing it.
MEN: Do you consider more feminine the larger their breasts are?
*tip my top hat at you* the short answer my parasol wielding friend is... no you are more or less feminine than a woman with unnervingly large FUN BAGS!!! Femininity like masculinity is not determined by the size of your anatomy, instead its determined by your ability to embody your sexes base traits whether its as a protector, nurturer or provider. That being said leaving out the masculinity and femininity deal... I have huge hands so a larger pair is more practical :P
My little sister thinks she's a boy?
She is a little girl who likes to play with boys. What is so wrong with that? I think it is great that she feels free to be and act the way she wants!! Not every little girl likes dolls, there is nothing wrong with that!! I think she says she wants to be a boy because it gets a reaction from you. She thinks it is funny when you overreact to her behavior. You love your little sister, right? Would it be so horrible if she turned out to be a lesbian? Would you stop loving her? And if you did stop loving her, who would that make you a better or worse person? You would miss out on a sister who knows what she likes and plays football with the boys!! I have known lots of kids, boys and girls, who go through a phase like your sister. Most of them DON"T grow up to be gay. This is probably just a stage and she will grow up to like boys in ways that don't just involve beating them at football. (By the way, I think it is sooooo cool that she plays football with the boys! She must be really good to be the running back.) You should be proud of you little sis, she sounds like a fun and funny kid.
How do I stop my son from acting so feminine?
While I can understand your concern. You really have nothing to worry about. I know that as a parent it is concerning to see your children lean towards the opposite gender. But you have to understand that he is still your son no matter what. You should try doing more masculine things with him. Like taking him sporting events that are male dominated. Does he like super heroes like Batman or Spiderman? If he does then get him more toys that are for boys. If the girl toys are bothering you to the point where they are all you can think about then get rid of them. He did not bring them in the house on his own. Its your choice what he plays with.
If a boy grows up with having a lot of older sisters, will most of his friends be girls?
Not necessarily nor does it mean he’ll be gay.His environment does affect him, but overall he’ll get to the point where he’ll find his own interest. There are a lot of variables in his decisions, but again, he’ll make his own at some.For example, my brother is four years younger than me and he has a pretty good balance between male and female cousins that his grown up around. He for the longest time has been more into having male friends.Then there’s my boyfriend. He has an older brother and sister, but he grew up as an only child. All his life though he’s connected better with females.
If a guy was born with all sisters and no brothers, does he have a higher chance of being gay?
I know this guy who has 6 sisters and was the only boy in the family and he's very feminine and sweet. He talks girly just like his sisters and goes out shopping with them all the time too. He can be very emotional just like a girl and cries about every little thing. So do you think a guy does have a tendency to be a bit gay if he grew up with all sisters instead of brothers?
Are younger sisters more attractive than older sisters?
Anecdotal evidence, just at the top of my hat:Jane Seymour is an elder sister.Beyoncé is more beautiful than Solange.Jessica Simpson is more beautiful than Ashley.I think that Kylie Minogue is more beautiful than Dani Minogue.I have two cousins that are more beautiful than their younger sisters.My eldest niece was more beautiful than her younger ones (unfortunately she died).My mother was more beautiful than her younger sister. Her younger sister unfortunately died.Not to brag or so, but I am more beautiful than my younger sister. According to everybody I was labeled the beautiful difficult one and my baby sister the slightly less beautiful but sweet one. That was actually true regarding my mother and my aunt, but I disagree regarding my baby sister and me. I am not difficult! Just not a pushover!In highschool all her guy friends whenever we went to a party always asked: is your sister already here? She hated that.When we go together somewhere, strange African men approach her and ask is that your friend or sister, will you introduce me? I don't know why African men are so obnoxious as to approach strange women to get introduced to other strange women. I had it happen to me as well, when I was out with more beautiful friends than myself. One of those friends had a baby sister as well, but she was also less beautiful. My sister never introduced them and I never introduced them. Those guys only pissed us off!