My mom's Boyfriend is mean to me!?
If u are a young child or teenager, u should tell someone like a counselor or a relative that will help you, if its that serious. No man should ever treat a child like that. Relationships are a package deal and if he loves your mom he has to accept whatever comes along with her. Did u try talking to your mom? I have been through the same kind of situations when i was a child , so if you are unable to tell your mother for different reasons, tell someone that will care and help , before you reach adulthood and it will be a bad memory. I know about that!!
My mom thinks my boyfriend is evil. What do I do?
There isn't anything you can do about your mother’s opinion of your boyfriend, or anyone else for that matter. Part of moving into adulthood is balancing a respect for your parents’ opinions and desires for you, with your own autonomy. Certainly you are still required to weigh the opinion of your parents more heavily than if you were an established adult living independently, however, it should not govern your opinions completely. At 17 you should begin to hear the opinion of your parents then take it into consideration while forming your own opinion based on your own principles, morals and experiences.Your parents, having lived many more years than you, will certainly have a broader range of experiences to draw upon when assessing situations and formulating opinions, but that doesn't mean you are bound to hold those same beliefs. It means, instead, that it would be wise to listen closely to what they might say then take it into consideration when formulating your own opinion.In this particular situation, your mother feels that your boyfriend is evil. This is the part where you hear what she has to say, and evaluate its truth for you. The first question I would ask myself is, what evidence does she have to support this opinion? You say it is based on his eyes. I would ask you to carefully consider how reliable that sort of evidence can truly be. Can one truly know someone's deepest self solely by looking into his eyes? Perhaps in a science fiction novel, but not in reality. Having said that, the experiences your parents have had may give them a sense of who a person is. I would say that, in this instance, you look closely at your boyfriend’s character. Do you see signs of “evil”? This is the part where you form your own opinion based on what you, personally, are experiencing with this boy.Basically, this is a tricky time of life when you will begin to separate your beliefs from your parents. Sometimes they will match, but sometimes they won't. Learning to navigate those differences requires careful consideration and diplomacy. Sometimes you will get it right, but sometimes you won't. That's okay because it will all be part of your experience that you can, one day far in the future, share with your own children.
I think i heard my mum having sex with her boyfriend, what shall i do?
I too have been subject to such things. Yes, as much as you would like to think of your mother as someone androgynous that is just "mom" and nothing else, she is a flesh and blood woman who has needs. However, I do have a suggestion for you. Okay, so here is what I suggest you do. I would write a small note and slip it into your mom's purse. Put it someplace where your mom is going to find it when you are not around. Just write on the note "Mom, I know you love your boyfriend, and I know he means a lot to you, and I know women have needs, but please try to keep it down when you are in bed. That would mean so much to me. I just don't want to think of you that way. No need to reply. Just keep it down from now on..." I am sure that it would be good to maybe vary on the words somewhat, but the intent of the note is to point out the fact that sounds do not stop inside of her walls and door. She probably has no idea that you can even hear her, and probably thinks she is being quiet. This note will hopefully instill the right amount of embarrassment in her, and privately send the message that yes, you can hear her, no you don't want to make a big deal about it, but yes, you want her to keep it down. More than likely, she will read the note, turn three shades of red, crumple the note up, toss it in the trash and wallow in disbelief that she just received a complaint letter from her daughter about her "noises". That will more than likely stick with her, and she will probably stay quiet from now on. And that's the best advice I can give
I'm 36 and my boyfriend is 25. What do you think of the age difference?
If you two don't care, then it's no one elses business. You have the right to love someone without society going "ewwwwww", (unless it's illeagal). and its not. If you two are happy, then I'm happy for you also. YOU GO GIRL. There's an advantage to this age thing to. On average, you guys will die alot closer together, so you won't have to go without him for a long time if you spend the rest of your lives together. Now quit worrying about the age thing (its only a number) and go enjoy ur boi
I'm 19 and my mother doesn't want me to have a boyfriend. What should I do?
If you are still living at home and mother is paying all the bills, you are sort of “stuck” with her house rules. When you move out, have a job, and are supporting yourself, you can do what you want.It sounds like she is still “protecting” her little girl.Have you asked her why she doesn’t want you to “date” or have a boyfriend?Can the two of you agree on what kind of “dating” you can do that would not upset her?
I can't accept my mom's boyfriend. What should I do?
i’ve been in the same situation as you. my mom had gone through 3 relationships before she actually met my stepdad. every time i met one of past x boyfriends after my dad and her finalized their divorce always made me feel like none of it was right. like she shouldnt be moving on so quick like my dad did. and i didnt want to accept another person in my family that might do the same thing my dad did.but then again i was really young and hurt from what happened to my parents marriage. when i turned 13 my mom met my stepdad. i didnt realize how important it was for me to make sure she was happy. i took me so long to actually get along with my stepdad i threw every mean thing i that throw. he didnt mind , he didnt get mad and he kept trying and trying.as long as he loves your mom. takes good care of her. makes her happy. and treats her right. doesnt hurt her or you and has respect towards the both of you. give him a chance. get to know him. create a friendship between the both of you.consider your moms side on things. she’s a single parent taking care of you and providing for you too. she deserves some happiness in her love life