I think my friend thinks I'm annoying, what do you guys think?
Lately whenever I have a small conversation with my friend, she looks like she's uninterested. Although I'm just saying "Hi, how are you doing?" "How's life or weekend?" etc... But whenever one of her another friend would have a small conversation with her, she is really into the conversation. So the question is, does she dislike me because I'm boring or am I just really annoying? I'm shy, so I don't even talk much.
My friend thinks she fat? do you think she is?
my friend things she's HUDGE -literly i don't think she is "fat" but she could loss some weight she's 5-5".3 and 140pounds do you think that's "fat" ? should she lose weight? ^^ if so how much wieght should she lose?
I think my friend thinks I stole from her?
Now, from her texts that's what it sounds like to me. I want other people's opinions, though, because I refuse to be accused of stealing. She left her bag here and $15 have went missing. I asked her if there was another compartment where the money could be, she said no. I then text back explaining the only thing in the bag was a ring. Then she text "Right." I told her to check her pockets and other bags again, but she replied she definitely never took it out. I told her id definitely wasn't here and she replied "Right, of course, doesn't matter." I said, "Yeah, it does. It can't completely disappeared, think! When did you last have it?" She text back "Well, i didn't take it out, didn't spend it so i don't know what has happened. Do you?" Then I said "No, neither do I, obviously." Then- which really annoyed me, was she text back "Well what a mystery." So I got really annoyed and maybe it was the latina temper or whatever but I text back "Yes, it is. I don't have it and it's not in my house. I've searched the place and I can't find it. What else do you want me to do, cos I've sure as hell run out of options." Then she just text "Clearly. It doesnt matter." Then when I tried to call her, she hit the phone off. Now, am I just completely over-reacting or does it sound like she thinks I'm lying? I don't know, I have a reputation for being kind of fiery tempered, so maybe it was me. Whatever it was though, friend or not, I'm not being accused of something that I have never done. Sorry if this confused you, I tried to make it clear.
I think my friend thinks that I am in love with her. What can I do? I don't want things to get awkward between us.
First of all the whole situation comes down to what YOU want. If you want to take a step ahead and sail in the ship of the so called “relationship” then make her feel wanted, develop that kind of a bond which would create a sense of best-friend-ship and things will work out automatically.Well if relationship is not your cup of tea and you want things to be as normal as it ever was, then step forward and throw some clear indications of your friendship by hanging out with a group of buddies where you’ll have to make sure you don't pay much attention to her. (Please remember you're not playing a “hard_to_get” role of a person here. You just make her feel that you're not into her.)Talk to her about how uninterested are you in relationships and that you can never be in love with anyone in a subtle way because a healthy friendship is all you want.Don't take her out alone at least for the time when she realises that you don't love her. Hang out with groups, talk to her occasionally, give her less time and she'd know that you're not into her. And trust me with time you guys with be back to the same page without any feel of awkwardness.Thank you!
What do you do if a friend thinks you are judging them?
In my experience with my friends I have observed that this sort of conversation ensues when I bluntly start doling out solutions to them for their problems. This frequently happens when the conversation starts heading toward my judgment imposed on his/her situation from my vantage point.With time, I have learned to attend to their problems by more or less rephrasing it so that it conveys my understanding of their problem and my concern for them. I try to direct it toward a solution more often than not but making them feel that they are in control of the conversation. The short advice is to apologize then and there and pay heed to their problems earnestly.
How do I know what my friend thinks about me?
Something I used to say:People come together, and grow apart.I said it in context of relationships, but it really holds true across all relationships (not just romantic).Three thoughts:Have you done anything to offend someone?Have you changed significantly? (No longer conform to their perceptions of group-think.)Have they moved on in their respective lives... (have families, more concentrated on other things)? This is normal. It happens. It's not a big deal, and, if you haven't moved-on to other things, then you're just not fitting in with how life happens.Honestly, no matter the circumstance, if you're being excluded, it's for a reason. But, if you're being excluded, and none of them really have the backbone to explain the "why" behind it, then you don't really want these kind of people in your life anyway. (Nobody likes a back-stabber; and attitudes / behavior where at least one person does not have the ability to say something helpful and reasonable are specifically negative, and back-stabbing attitudes.)If you get that feeling that something's being said about you in the background, walk away. Find new friends. Don't worry about those kind of people. If someone comes around, then ask nicely to explain what happened. (If there's no explanation, or there's not a good explanation, you should turn your back and walk away again, just not return contact, do the same to them, not in spite, but because you don't want such negative, less-than-honest influences in your life -- being less-than-honest is not very "friendly," if you ask me.)Friend's don't let friends act stupid.
What do you think about your best friend?
Thanks for the A2A.I had never thought I will have some best friend in my life, I was very reserved till my college and there are no much friends whom I could consider as my best friends, my friends in college are more of acquaintances I can say…True friends come into your life when it is the right time…I have two best friends from my training days in my first company, one from Tamilnadu, the other is from Kerala and I am from Andhra. Since MNC's have people from almost all the states and I was having interest in learning new languages… Training took place in Coimbatore where I had to meet my first best friend ever Prashanth.Prashanth is an introvert only till he becomes close to you. . He is very caring when it comes to his friends, he knows how to value relationships, nourish them, nurture them, which I had learnt from him… He knows to not spend too much on what he doesn't need, He is having a good vision about his life, He is the one who started asking me to read books, he is a book freak… He is more responsible about society, knows how to encourage his friends to achieve greater things in life… If you ask me to stay with a friend forever and be happy I can say he is the one… Because it's been so long I met him and those often visits say still we both are holding same friendship… Bro come we will go have boost wala… LOL…!!The other guy is Vipin, I met him in my training too, Vipin is more of the other side of Prashanth… He is not a book freak, lazy but active, 0 sized he calls himself because he looks round in shape. . Holds no grudge on anyone, he is always positive about his life… He opens up and says stuff to me or Prashanth whenever something worries, forgets everything easily, He always suggests that we go somewhere and when we are already on the way to somewhere he starts saying “Bro we should do this or what. .?” He lives a life which saints live, Nirvana stage always… Never looses his cool… If you had to forget all your worries and be happy, you should be friends with Vipin Ayn Vijayan…!!!PFB Vipin.Did as you said bro… Vipin Ain VijayanOkay Right…?!There are other friends too whom I share my best time with but these too I had spent much of my time… So I say about them…
My friend thinks I act and think like an old person. Is it bad and should I change?
That depends on what they mean by acting like an old person. Do you walk with a cane? I am not sure of which aspect of “age” you refer.It may be considered old to be more cautious and responsible, rather than carefree and irresponsible. The time of life when one is young is fun and so attractive because of a more youthful attitude, but open to all sorts of dire consequences at the same time.Maybe you just need to “lighten up” a bit. But if you are just a more responsible type, be what you are. Being stern and disapproving of your youthful counterparts is not what you need to be doing. However, being cautious and responsible at any time of life is never inappropriate and a lot safer in the end.
What do your friends think of you?
I have never believed in quantity of people in life. I go for quality people. We are living in the time where people take pride in themselves having 1000+ friends on Facebook, 500+ followers on Instagram and so on and so forth. You get the idea, right ?Deep down they know, we all know who will stand up and with us.Friends are the relatives god let you choose.I have handful of friends in my life. They do think that I am talented, intelligent, charming, knowledgeable and a person you can look up to for advice and support at any time.And yes, I am also the official bootleger for my friends. every time we have to arrange any party which involves beer and alcohol, it comes to me to be taken care of :PBragging has never been my forte so this is what it is.
My guy friend thinks I'm ugly?!?
He implied it, and then denied it, and now he won't tell me exactly what he thinks I am! Do you think I'm ugly?! I don't think so! my best picture: http://i268.photobucket.com/albums/jj32/enniroc95/0110091900a.jpg