Do You Think That I Can Or Can

Do you think I can become a K-pop idol?

Pay attention to these points.The only criteria that actually matters are weight and beauty. If you don’t have a pale skin (no, not fair, but pale), forget about getting access. Even many Koreans, who are tanned due to being brought up in warmer countries, don’t get the advantage.It doesn't matter if you can’t sing. SNSD’s Yoona can’t sing more than 4 lines, but she’s still there as a dancer and a visual.Prepare to make a transition to either dramas or movies or variety shows. Even if your acting sucks like Bae Suzy, you have to make a transition because even SHINEE and Super Junior idols are now considered to be “old”.As a K-Pop idol, try to work you way in China as well. That will give you an edge over others K-Pop idols, knowing that you can be used in China as well. Just like how Xiumin is popular in China and Nichkhun is popular in Thailand, you can also do that.It’s a competitive world there. It all depends on how popular you are. If you are always in news for good reasons, you can survive happily. Just look at CNBLUE. Yong Hwa is probably the only idol of the four who has managed to make a mark for himself through multitasking.You have to master Korean, by hook or by crook. Honestly. Hire a tutor or learn from somewhere. But you should be so adept at Korean that you can rap properly in a Karaoke and score a minimum 85 there.If you are not pretty, then get ready to go under the knife, aka, plastic surgery. Chinese, as far as I know, don’t support plastic surgery because they believe in their parents’ physical features (just like how we do). In your lifetime, you have to have many such surgeries and treatments and even workouts- every day, every week, every month.

What does the term 'if you think you can or you think you can't, you're right' mean?

It’s because predictive statements can become self-fulfilling, if you believe them.Committed belief can be a powerful thing! It’s certainly a difference-maker.For example, if I’m certain I can punch through the board, I’m probably going to punch through the board instead of flinching and shying away from the complete motion.If my belief is strong enough that the board is too strong, that I’ll only hurt my hand, I might elect not to bother an attempt. In that case, by not trying, I confirmed the prediction! (you miss every shot you don’t take)Either way, my belief affects the way I relate to the problem/prediction. A positive belief may tip the odds of positive confirmation (or certainly, make it more likely I’ll keep trying repeatedly), and a negative belief may prevent me from making the attempt at all.Some related phenomena:The girl you don’t ask to dance might never know you were interested.The target won’t hit itself; it’s on you to pick up that bow, arrow, and make it happen.How likely are you to practice if you know the thing you’re practicing is doomed to failure?

Do you think I can still trust my girlfriend?

C'mon, man. Game over. Don't drag this any longer. She might have a reason for not having split with you already, but there is no way this reason will be something nice for you. She has lied to you more than once, she has spent nights out hanging around with other guys and ignored you. It is written all over the wall that she has cheated on you, but even if she didn't, she has behaved in a very inconsiderate way towards you.If you keep clutching at this relationship, she will think you are a whiner, emotionally dependent on her, and will tread upon you. Or else she'll think you are just too stupid to read the signs that she is fed up with but does not know how to split with you.As for the reasons she might not have split with you already, she may be wary of doing so because she pities you, because she is not yet sure the guy she is dating will really keep her or because she just wanted to have a break from you with another guy.There can be other reasons, of course. But I wouldn't stay to know which. There is no point "fighting" for the love of someone. You can't force anyone to stay with you, you can't persuade anyone to love you. Better leave with your head up than to be kicked with your tail down.