Young single mother with twins .?
First of all, you are NOT a horrible person! You gave those kids life when it would have been easier to abort them. That is the biggest gift you could ever give. You are doing the best you know how. That's great! And two, if he really is the loser, you are saying he is, the boys will not go to him. If he can't provide for the, the state wont give him custody unless he shapes up. Since he isn't on the birth certificate, you could give them up without him having a say in it. However, if he knows the babies are going up for adoption, he can petition for a paternity test. Having no car and no license would prove to be a problem, but he can change that. This things are temporary. The babies would probably go to foster care and he would have 6 months to get a job and a license. And he if doesn't, they become legally free and will get adopted. I urge you to make sure that's what you want to do though. Those little boys are yours. You carried them for nine months and they share your blood. Your feelings are temporary and things will get better. Don't make a mistake you will regret for the rest of your life. You could try "safe families for children". Basically what this is is a temporary placement for the kids. The social workers find homes for the kids while you maintain custody of them. If at ant point, you want them back, you get them back as soon as possible. They want to help you out. Many parents do this and they realize either 2 things. They love their kids with a passion that is so deep. They want their kids and know they can make it through anything. The other is they find they like their life better not being responsible for the kid. They like not having to take care of them in the middle of the night, and when their sick and hungry. They like having that freedom. Either way, its completely your choice. The goal of the program is to help you be the best mom you can be and really help you out. You can try googling it and seeing if its in your area(: I wish you the best of luck. Feel free to email me if you can any questions! <3
Do twins attract more attention then single births do? would they attract attention if they were opp sexs?
Obviously a lot of people are single births but is it true that when twins come in the room the get more attention is it true though. About two years ago I met a guy who looked identical to me do you think we would attract a lot of attention.
If triplets are born, and one of them dies, are the remaining two then considered twins?
It would be a situation-specific decision on behalf of the family. Some people are comfortable explaining how/what happened, and some people would prefer to keep the death of a child personal. Personally I would have this reaction: In public, or if asked by a stranger, I would say, "yes they're twins." I would not like to discuss the death of a child with a stranger, nor is it any of their business. If a family member who was not familiar with the situation asked, however, I would respond "actually, they're two triplets. Their brother/sister passed away (in the womb, shortly after birth, whatever the case may be)." When the children were old enough to understand what happened, they would be referred to as twins or triplets in whatever way they choose.
Some people are born intelligent or born talented . Is it true?
It has long been believed that intelligence is somehow related to genes and people are born intelligent. But many research prove otherwise. Intelligence was never, and will never, be fixed at birth.Eating smarter for better brain health begins in the womb and continues with breastfeeding, especially if Mom follows daily recommendations for vitamins and minerals.Babies learn from their surroundings. If the people they come in contact with are intelligent and talented, they will learn from them.Intelligence increases as people grow up. 2009 Norwegian study examined the effects of an increase in the duration of compulsory schooling in Norway in the 1960s which lengthened the time in education for Norwegians by two years. The researchers used records of cognitive ability taken by the military to calculate the IQ of each individual in the study. They found that IQ had increased by 3.7 points for every extra year of education received.some abilities (e.g., fluid reasoning and crystallized intelligence, or verbal abilities) are more stable over time, while others are less stable (e.g., short-term memory and cognitive processing speed).You may have a certain level of general intelligence but it is important how you use it. When you approach a task, how well do you plan? How well do you adjust your response if it's not going well? These non-cognitive traits can be improved more easily than cognitive abilities."'Brainy' children are not cleverer solely by virtue of having more or less grey matter at any one age. Rather, intelligence is related to dynamic properties of cortical maturation.Sources :Intelligence Is Still Not Fixed at BirthIgnore the IQ test: your level of intelligence is not fixed for lifehttps://www.livescience.com/3614...
Different color eyes is it true there should have been a twin ?
my mom heard that if you have a child born with two different color eyes that there was a twin the the womb that never formed i was born with a blue eye and a half blue and brown eye i don't think it is true but has anyone ever heard that
Do people with the same date of birth have similar personality traits?
No. because time and place can be different. According to the hour you're born there will be lot difference in personality traits, thinking, belief and life style. Even there will be difference in people who are twins. Astrology is not just limited to date of birth of a person. It's actually deeper than one can think. Reason people do not share same personality traits and life is because:1)Two people born on same date have same planetary positions but ascendants (Rising signs) are different according to time of birth.2)People born on same date of birth on on same time but different places, have different degrees of planets and different dignity in divisional charts. 3) Every planet is moving when you're born influencing your nature so it can never be the same.
If a Chinese woman gives birth to twins, which one will be taken by the government?
Neither, the one-child policy has never actually BEEN a one-child policy despite its’ name. It’s one birth. Hence IVF being such a big deal here considering a woman could attempt to impregnant herself with multiple children in order to get around this policy.Also there has really only been a strict “one child policy” for major cities and populated areas. In the past people from the countryside were allowed 2–3 children depending on the situation. The minority people were never regulated considering how small of a percentage of the population they were.There was also a “try again” policy in some areas for couples who had a daughter as their first child. This was in attempt to control female infanticide, sex-selective abortions, and neglecting to register unwanted girls. This however didn’t work out quite so well as the government hoped. These instances were much more common in the countryside some 20 years ago, but they still happen.There is some debate about the gender gap but even from casual observation one can see a significant disparity between males and females. Some estimates say up to 30 million Chinese men will be bachelors their entire lives unless they choose to marry foreign women.
Twin questions?
Hi.....I have a bit of a different take on your Twin questions. My Mother lost my twin at around 5 months of being pregnant. I was born in 1961 so it was alot different back then. No one "checked" to see if my twin was a boy or a girl. I myself lost a set of twins 13 years ago. I was early into my pregnancy and was having alot of trouble carrying them. It was determined, after having several tests in the hospital, that two heartbeats were heard. Not long after is when I miscarried them. I divorced my twins' Father a couple years after we lost them. The man that I am with now (and have been for several years) is an Identical Twin. Sometimes I can tell him apart from his brother, but if they are dressed alike (only on purpose and for laughs) and don't say anything, just sit there looking at me, then honestly I'm a bit lost. They seem to get along fabulously and love each other more than they can say. They even work at the same job together. I've asked both of them, on separate ocassions and not in front of each other, if it annoys them to be called by the other twin's name and they both answered "no, it doesn't bother them". I'm not really sure if they feel special or not being Identical Twin Brothers. I myself have several sets of twins on both sides of my family (on my Mother's side and on my Father's side), so believe me, I do know alot of twins. I've always held a special place in my heart for twins (even before I was old enough to understand that I had had a twin). Have a lovely rest of the evening.
When identical twins are born, do they share consciousness?
No --- they do have differences. They showed co -joined twins on tv and one was crying and the other one was content and playing with it's fingers. They see what is in their own range of view. Went to school with triplets and 4 sets of twins --- it was a lot of fun! Consciousness is a quality of the mind generally regarded to comprise qualities such as subjectivity, self-awareness, sentience, sapience, and the ability to perceive the relationship between oneself and one's environment. It is a subject of much research in philosophy of mind, psychology, neurology, and cognitive science.