My bf thinks i dress too revealing but im 19and thats what girls usually wear &i like it what should i do?
i dont think i dress too revealing i sometimes wear spaghetti strap shirts rarely i wear skirts(short skirts) and in the summer i someimes wear shorts he says that he was raised to believe that a girl should only dress up 4her bf and not 4anyone els because why would u need 2advertise urself to others i dont think it looks bad and the reason i wear stuff like that(i used to not) is bcuz now im comfortable enough w my body to wear that because he made me feel good about myself i can now wear stuff like that and not b so self conscious. we argue A LOT about this issue and i dont know what to do any more! should i change for him, or stick to who i have become? is he right about what he beleives?
Why do most women think they’re attractive when they’re not?
Just because you’re skinny, blonde and wear a lot of makeup and revealing clothing doesn’t automatically make you every man’s type. I know I’m more attracted to girls who dress modestly and chubbier ones I would never date some wannabe instagram model in a pencil dress. Nothing against these women but I’m kind of tired of them thinking every guy wants them and think they are a higher social status than others. And what you’re all about to do in the comments is aggressively come at me and accuse me of being heartbroken or rejected or something as your brains physically can’t comprehend a straight man criticising a woman who like this unless it’s for them reasons because women like this are such a protected and defended species it’s hilarious You aren’t attractive to me sorry stop presuming all guys want you
Why do women dress in revealing clothes and then?
Get angry when men notice? I'm sorry but as a woman I can't understand that. At all. And also as a Christian, I believe that the body is sacred and should be treated with respect, and therefore I dress modestly to not attract negative attention. Now if a guy makes the choice to be rude even when I'm wearing modest clothing, I'm not responsible. However if a woman wears a low-cut shirt that shows a few inches of cleavage, or wears super short skirts where she can't even lean over without stuff flying out, what do you expect? I actually got into an argument about this with someone and she told me I was a "s lut-shaming anti-feminist" because I don't think it's appropriate for women to dress like that and then get mad when they get attention. Why would a woman dress so provocatively and expect that only a select few men would pay attention? Sorry but there isn't any sort of man-lust filtering device that I know of. Isn't this also very unfair to men? I mean when a girl dresses like that, even *I* notice! Don't women at least think they have a responsibility to men for dressing better so they don't get mad about it, but then don't mislead the guys who look? That doesn't mean you are responsible *for* their actions, because we all know there are men out there who are going to find some excuse to stare at a woman. But if you're going to wear that tight body-hugging top, or a short skirt with that slit on the side (you know which ones I'm talking about) then isn't this a reasonable reaction to expect?
Guys: What do you think when ur gf wears revealing clothes?
I'm 23 years old and a size 3. I think I have a good body so I figure why hide it. I love heels and wear them whenever I go out. I shop at Forever 21 a lot and get a lot of their cocktail dresses. I like things that have one strap, have spaghetti straps, are strapless, short, and tight. It's the way I've been dressing since I started college. I don't necessarily do it for guys but for myself. I like looking nice. Last night, I was going out and I had a short strapless dress on and heels and my boyfriend (who lives with me) went "Is that all your wearing?" Then, I got pissed off and said, "What are you, my father?" Then I left. Guys have you ever had similar arguments with your girlfriend? Do you care if she wears things that some might call revealing? Am I wrong? Who do you think is right in this situation?
Why do women wear revealing clothing?
I am noone's boyfriend or parent. But I am well-qualified to answer this question since I am a woman myself.I would never date or marry someone who believes that he can "allow" me to do something. I am not a child, I am a grown woman. I don't mind someone close to me suggesting that a particular type of clothing might not be appropriate for an occasion or a place, but I am also free to ignore the suggestion. I don't ask anyone for permission to wear what I want to.My mom does give her opinion about things I wear sometimes. Most of the times, I agree with her and sometimes I don't. But thankfully, she is also quite aware that in the end, what I wear is my choice and she can only advise (and not order me) to wear or not to wear something.I have a sister and I give her advice about what to wear when she asks, else I keep my opinions to myself.Why should I confine myself to "comfortable clothing"? What is "comfortable clothing"? Some of the clothing you described sounds comfortable enough to me. In the question details OP you say that you don't think revealing clothing leads to rape. Then what's the problem with wearing the clothes you describe as revealing? Or is it that you think that it leads to other sexual offences such as sexual harassment, etc. (sections 354A-D of Indian Penal Code)? As with rape, men who commit these offences don't commit them because women wear revealing clothes. Those who want to act in such a way do so regardless of what the victim is wearing. It seems a lot easier for the Indian society to blame women for attracting "unwanted attention" instead of placing blame on those who do pay such "unwanted attention". It's really simple, my body is my own and I can wear whatever I want to wear as long as it does not violate any laws. Your body is your own and you can do whatever you want with it, unless and until you invade the personal space of another person, such invasion may be unlawful and may lead to legal consequences.Men themselves can certainly wear shorts and walk down a street without being sexually harassed because of it. And noone's asking them not to. So "revealing" clothing is not the cause. So the question is why shouldn't women wear "revealing" clothing if they want to? What harm does it cause?