How do I make my girlfriend feel better about herself?
It depends on the situation, your girlfriend, and your skillet. I'll break it downThe situations to considerIf you did somethingIf you did NOTHINGif it's work/family/friend relatedIf she's in school and stressedPast life (experiences)Take a minute and figure out what has her in this slump. Don't just ask her because there is a good chance it's a ton of the above and she's not even sure which one is the worst. So pick one and take that first.HerWho is she? What is she like? What do you already know about her? When have you made her smile (what's worked before)? What was she doing/where was she when you remember her being happy and confident?Take these questions and think of some more…use deductive reasoning to figure it out. But I'm sure you can.Your skillsWhat makes her be with you? What makes you the best boyfriend? Are you funny/compassionate/artistic/comforting/the cook/etc?You be you. She loves you. All of you. So there is something you do that keeps her with you. Use that!!! Answer the top two, then you the third to help her out.Honestly sometimes just letting her go through her moods and doing the smallest things, like secret notes or coffee, or a forehead kiss and a little space (with a smile) will be the things that help her more than anything else you could say or do.
My pug is sick and miserable what can i do to make her feel better?
she has an ear infection in both ears. we cleaned them and put meds. in but shes still miserable. what else can i do? i put her on my bed with pillows and a blanket and cuddled her made her feel alittle better. ='( i want my baby to feel better! i luv her soooo much!
What can I do to make her feel that I trust her?
Trust is something you build over time and in most cases it’s perspective which plays the main game. The more she suspects the more you are going to lose hold of the bird called ‘trust’. Let her see the things as they really are. Don’t hide anything.Transparency in any relation determines a lot about trust. There may come a time when she feels like she could share her wildest secrets with you, while there might be times when she’d try to pull herself away from you. So what you gotta do?Well let’s talk like this-Had I been a guy beginning to lose the trust of this girl out there,then what would I do?Keep trying to tell her time and again that it had been just circumstances and nothing else?Or just sing out to her in whatever pitched voice I’ve got-JUST GIMME A REASONJUST A LITTLE BIT’S ENOUGHWE’RE NOT BROKEN JUST BENTAND WE CAN LEARN TO LOVE AGAIN(or maybe LEARN TO TRUST AGAIN :p)Or would I just leave the things out of egoism and wait for her to realize that I’d been true all those times?Or maybe I’d do something ultra-special,unexpected and out of the world that she couldn’t deny the fact that I’m trustworthy enough when I tell her I’ll love her till the stars are above her.
How do you make her feel happy when she is sad and not feeling good?
I can give you the answer a wise man once gave to the same question, when his wife was ill and depressed. "My wife got sick. She was constantly nervous because of problems at work, personal life, her failures and problems with children. She has lost 30 pounds and weighed about 90 pounds in her 35 years. She got very skinny, and was constantly crying. She was not a happy woman. She had suffered from continuing headaches, heart pain and jammed nerves in her back and ribs. She did not sleep well, falling asleep only in the morning and got tired very quickly during the day.”“Our relationship was on the verge of break up. Her beauty was leaving her somewhere, she had bags under her eyes, she was poking her head, and stopped taking care of herself. She refused to shoot the films and rejected any role. I lost hope and thought that we’ll get divorced soon…But then I decided to act on it. After all I’ve got the most beautiful woman on the earth. She is the idol of more than half of men and women on earth, and I was the one allowed to fall asleep next to her and to hug her shoulders.I began to pamper her with flowers, kisses and compliments.” I surprised her and pleased her every minute. I gave her lots of gifts and lived just for her. I spoke in public only about her. I incorporated all themes in her direction. I praised her in front of her own and our mutual friends.You won’t believe it, but she blossomed. She became even better than before. She gained weight, was no longer nervous and she loved me even more than ever. I had no clue that she CAN love that much.And then I realized one thing: The woman is the reflection of her man.If you love her to the point of madness, she will become it. “- Brad Pitt -
How can I make a girl feel good about herself?
In a world that profits from self-doubt, liking yourself is an act of rebellion. This was written in the toilet stall of a local university. It shocked me, I thought it was meant especially for me. There is a DJ playing the same record in every woman’s head. No matter what the objective truth is, the lyrics are always the same: not pretty enough, not smart enough, not good enough. That voice in our head ill not be silenced by you alone, you cannot over-write the song in our heads, you cannot substitute self-hatred with material displays of affection. For some of us it makes it worse - we think you feel sorry for us.Find what is unique about her and tell her that being unique makes her special. Be honest. Do not make things up. Someone said: The problem with the world is that the intelligent are full of self doubt while the foolish are cocksure. Encourage her to change her thoughts and she can change her life. It will not change overnight but with some patience and labor, you can make her feel better. Unfortunately everyday the world conspires to make women feel inadequate, rebel!
I feel I made him too jealous *sigh* need my Y! girlfriends for this one?
Well, I don't think this is all your fault. He needs to understand that most heterosexual women enjoy that kind of entertainment and it doesn't mean you don't care about him - or that you want to run off with one of them. Still, I think your idea of trying to make him feel better is a good one. You want to let him know that he is the guy you really care about (I'm assuming that's the case, right?). Tell him that you know he didn't have a good time and that you feel badly about that. That you want to do something to try to make it right. That you really do care about him. Sure you enjoyed the entertainment, but it was just that - entertainment. Then ask him what you can do to make up for last night? I'm a guy (hope it's OK to weigh in on this) and I'm telling you what would help me get over it - if I were feeling bummed out about a date with a girl. It sounds like he's probably a little bit oversensitive and, hopefully, in hindsight, he will realize that he has been overreacting a bit also. Good luck to both of you.