Do You Think You Can Engulf Yourself In Fire If Your Hatred Is Intense Enough

Can we hate the same person we loved?

Haven't you heard of the “ love - hate relationship” which is a common behavioural trait between two emotional love-locked souls?This love-hate dichotomy exists in all shades between the full spectrums of total love and total hate . This is nothing but a psychologic manifestation of yours different emotional feelings for yours near and dear ones , how possessive you feel about him or her but at the same time you are also the victim of some emotional blues when this relationship appears to be a mental burden, you simply seek a respite.The human mindset exists in its own unique self. It exhibits great verve and humour to certain behavioural traits and in the same way it is repulsive to certain others. You may simply love to adore yours partner's motivation and perseverence to get established in life , his warmth and passion for you , how much he cares about yours feelings, yours credences.In this case, yours feelings about the relationship resonates with a positive note, you are in one sense deluged with a feeling of pervasive and engaging exuberence.But is this all about this relationship? Only positive notes without an iota of dissatisfaction, something repuisive , some sense of antipathy?This is the marvel of the human mind. It always excels in dichotomy. In yours innerself, you also develop a feeling of despise , yours overwhelming selfless love is not always enough to engulf this repugnance.How this sense of repugnance crops up? No human being is 100% perfect. Yours emotions may contradict, aggressive feelings over trivial issues , you may feel deeply pained by alleged lack of warmth and response from the other side , But at the same moment, you call for a truce and make-up. This is a cyclic pattern that plays eternal in everybody's life.So there are two sides in every relationship. Some parts you simply love to adore, some part you despise to the core. These are the two deep emotions that makes a relationship so fulfilling, trustworthy. Extreme rigidity and communication gap is anathema for developing a sound relationship enmarked with passion and warmth. Insinuations and blame games are simply futile.You simply love and at the same time love to hate yours mate as an act of understanding admixed with compassion in a selfless urge of warmth, enthuasism and patience.Quote : The ultimate love hate relationship just got more love.[math]\Huge\huge {SANKAR}[/math]

What was that moment when your enormous love for someone turned sharply in bitter hatred?

Love is closely related to hatred. It isn’t the opposite. The opposite of love is indifference.Love relationships will have conflict. Hopefully it can be dealt with in a productive healthy way. But conflict can become so intense that it becomes hatred for the partner. This is unhealthy and can trap people in bitter conflict and in a relationship they don’t want anymore.If a relationship no longer works, remaining engaged and hating each other is a waste of time. The wisest choice is using self control and moving away from emotional engagement with the person. Achieving indifference allows one to move on and have a more satisfying relationship.Recognizing that you are at a point of truly hating your partner is a point where you probably decide to end the relationship (thoughearlier would be even better).

What are the lessons people most often learn too late in life?

1. Never judge any person by his/her looks. Never judge a book by its cover, so stop being judgemental about others.Example : Ex-Miss World & Miss India Manushi Chillar2. Work on Self Improvement more than entertainment. That’s why Quora is much better than facebook.3) If a person wants to stand by their self then let them because there is nothing wrong in doing by their self.4) Nobody will come to pick you up in your bad times except your family . Hence, value them .5) Love is a second thing ,First learn to respect your lover.6)Stop wasting time on a person who doesn’t deserve your attention.7) Showing respect to helpers & waiters would not degrade your position.8) Our words might kill someone ,We should think twice before using them.Choose it wisely.9) Intelligence beats size.10) We should never give up because sometime great things take time to happen.LEARN FROM YOUR FAILURES. No one is perfect in life. We all makes mistakes, but person who learns from their mistakes or failures are the one who creates history.11) Physical fitness is important. It affects your intellect, mood, and relationship to others. Go to bed early. Wake up early. Sleep well. Eat well. Stay fit. Exercise Regularly. You only get one body, so don’t neglect it.12) Drinking alcohol and doing drugs or smoking cigarettes will at last get you to the death bed at an early age. Its looking stylist to other but actually it is a classy way to commit suicide. Avoid them.13) Developing skills will get you to a reputed post and that in turn will earn you a decent amount of money as well as respect. So start working hard on your dreams. Person or life can cheat you but your skills can’t cheat you in your life even in bad time also.14) You never know when you will become famous due to your efforts on something , So keep on trying. Don’t give up.Never lose hope. No one knows about destiny. Best example : Richest man on the earth right now Jeff Bezos (Amazon’s CEO)15) Challenge yourself each day,each week and improve your willpower, productivity of work and self-control! Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.Hope you liked my answer :)but I want to hear your opinion. Please share in comments below.Thanks & Regards by,Chirag Dhanesha(Developer of Best 999+ Psychology Facts For Life Hacks - Apps on Google Play)If you liked my answer then check my above application to support me & get daily life psychology solution in one place.Credits : Google Images & Pinterest