Why do I trust people so easily?
Every time I start talking to someone, I tend to start trusting them so quickly and telling them all my business and personal situations. And every time I tell them, I regret it after I've said it. I want to be able to stop, but how?
Do you trust people easily?
I'm a cancer and I have a difficult time trusting people, I am also a skeptic, and when I rread someone's incredible story on the internet or something like that I think, this person has a really good imagination, or that is a compulsive liar. Do you trust people easily? What's your sign? My birth chart : http://img831.imageshack.us/img831/9574/...
Do you trust people easily?
Unless there are obvious signs that lead me to suspect the person, I tend to trust easily (up to a point). The signals I get that prompt me to suspend trust are probably those that most people have: The person appears agitated or insistent, dirty/scruffy, they don’t know me but are trying to “chat me up”, I get the feeling they are trying to sell me something. I just want to stop the interaction and move away. Unless I get those impressions of the person, I usually feel safe to be there and reasonably comfortable. If I can easily help the person, I would probably try to do so if they ask. I tend to take what others tell me at face value — I grew up in sheltered suburbia and am not “street smart”, but I trust my senses and have lived long enough to feel that I can detect most scams. I don’t do drugs and I avoid violating laws, and that brings me into contact with shady people much less than people who do such things. And, I know that most people are good people and can be trusted in my day-to-day interactions with them. I want to trust, as it takes too much negative energy to often feel suspicious.But, when it comes to money and my assets, I am much more guarded. The people I need to distrust the most are after my assets. So, I am suspicious and non-compliant to requests for my credit card numbers, banking information and requests that I make purchases. I have taken to letting any phone calls from numbers that I don’t recognize go to voice mail — legit callers will leave a message and I can call them back; scam callers rarely leave messages and I have evaded having to talk to them. Likewise, on-line I am cautious about clinking on links that I am unfamiliar with. When doing searches, I look through all the offerings rather than clicking on the first one, and pass over links that offer free services or otherwise seems shady (learned that the hard way!)
Why do I trust people easily?
High Five !!You are not alone.You trust people easily when -You feel alone in life and need someone to share your thoughts and connect with them.You are actually very innocent.You have a big heart to forgive everyone and everytime regardless of what they had done to you.You are generous.You like someone and you are completely into them. (I used “like” and not “love” because you can't love someone without trusting them but you can like though).Trusting someone is not bad but trusting easily is a matter of thought.Though trusting easily your mother is not a matter of thought who trusted you and grew you in her womb for long 9 months.Though trusting easily your father is not a matter of thought who trusted you and sacrificed his life for your betterment working day and night hard to shape your future.Though trusting easily your brother or sister is not a matter of thought who trusted you and gave his/her part of chocolate just to see that smile on your face :)Believe me not every person you meet on this planet, breaks your trust.Take your time, nothing to hurry about, either you will end up trusting a right person or you will end up saving yourself from trusting a wrong person.Cheers for life !! :)
Why do people trust me so easily? Is it the way I look, or my personality?
I know this is a weird question but it's been bugging me for a while now. See, to completely understand this, you have to know the scenarios. I got a job and the very first day one of my co workers starts telling me about her life and her childhood, and some other really personal stuff. While she was talking she said "I don't know why I'm telling you all of this stuff, I've never told anyone about my childhood." Then another time I was at my friend's house and her cousin was there, when my friend left the room, this girl that I had only met 20 minutes before started telling me how her mom's always drunk and her dad's never home. I mean, I don't have a problem with it, I love talking to people and just being there when they need to talk, but what is it that makes random strangers trust me? What is it that makes you trust other people?
How do you stop trusting people so easily?
its a case of mental toughness and being independent, instead of some people unlike us that are always like . " oh i just cant deal with this right now"..."oh im so stressed, i hate my life!"..."oh i've i cant believe i fallen for this again i cant trust anyone"... "i have no real friends". blah blah i have a friend like that and he just annoys me, i always think "just get over it" Sometimes my parents say its the lack of experience, for example people living in conditions where they have to fight to survive like 3rd world countries will be really tough mentally and will most likely try to take advantage of you before you do the same to them. Anyway i think its just that they have honest people around them all their lives they really know how to deal with deception and lies when they have to face it.
Why do I trust people so easily, and how do I stop?
Hello Lindsey, The answer to your question is , give of yourself to others , but save some of your self for yourself in spirit all ways .Let it direct you, not just emotions. Don,t give all of your self into their keeping because they are also looking how to complete them selves and through separation from their true self have to be selfish by nature. Become whole in yourself first and then overflow into others from that base.
Do you trust easily?................?
sometimes too trusting and it gets me in trouble
Is it a good thing or bad thing to trust people easily?
I don’t think it’s a duality, good vs bad, as much as it is about cooperationwithin. There is always a degree of trust that goes into a connection, especially when you first meet someone. As you further on in the process, you begin to measure the certainty. You can’t measure if you don’t allow the trust and time to uncover such confidence in yourself and others. What’s important is how much you can trust yourself. To give yourself the learning to recognize when someone takes advantage of your time and energy. I’m not saying you should continue to trust when it’s obvious something is warning you. But, it’s the degree of faith you put into your fellow beings. I give myself the opportunity to be able to have the trust I need, to make the choices I want, in the people I am involved with, and if I get hurt, that’s my choice too. I believe emotional pain is inevitable, so I don’t have the fear that's typically involved with risk. I am emotionally honest with my vulnerability, but it’s more about the experience. The more you practice trust, the more space you have to build a connection, and the wiser you grow. If the other person misunderstands you, and can't trust, then they probably don't have enough certainty within themselves to take the opportunity with you. That's their business, their development, and not yours for trusting.