Lonely, NO Friends..any suggestions?
I wish I could help you my friend. People seem clueless and totally uninterested if you have trouble meeting people. I too have S.A.D., and people just think you are weird merely because you struggle to be comfortable in social situations. Accept that 92% of people (98% of women) are vacuous. You could do what I do - after work, go to the gym for 2 hours (on my own of course), stop by the supermarket before going home and buy loads of food you don't need, binge-eat, listen to the same music in your lonely flat and hope that tonight you will get that rare text inviting you somewhere. I am sorry I know you need more constructive advice but I just fancied some self pity. Good Luck - no-one so far has given you a helpful answer.
Does anyone have suggestions for a lonely travel newbie? Tips and tricks...?
I want to began travelling by myself or with a group. Simple you start ONE STEP at a time Pick a direction and go. When out of time or money return to start place. This can be a day trip a week end or weeks at a time. You DO NOT start with a multi month adventure your first travel outing. Few hours by Train easily takes you to many nearby countries. I went from Amsterdam to Dusseldorf bought some Pommes frittes and returned. Misread the schedule and had run out of TIME. COST??? I had a train pass so the ride was no extra charge. Make a Bike adventure. Go for a day or two. It does not have to be expensive. https://www.hihostels.com/destinations/n... This place has been in business for over 50 years. https://ttc.com/brands/contiki-holidays/ Some reason you cannot visit a TRAVEL AGENT. You plan an adventure for the money you have and the Time you have. Yes the Five Star Hotel costs more to sleep and eat in. Using a friends couch is low cost for a day or two. Look on University Campus for STUDENT Travel things. Many things available for young people at lower cost. https://www.raileurope.com/europe-travel... Many Cities have tourist Day Passes to see and do things for a low price. https://www.raileurope.com/activities/ ANY adventures starts ONE step at a time. You can start with the left or the right foot. Did I do something a little different because I had some TIME left on my Train Pass. Went from Keil to Innsbruck and Back to Rotterdam. What did I do In Innsbruck? Purchased a Hat had something to eat was gone in a few hours. Had to be in Rotterdam before I ran out of TIME.
How do I overcome depression & loneliness if I don't have any friends and family doesn't understands?
Ya fighting with loneliness and depression is too easy believe me… See in this world each of us are alone nobody is born with someone(Not taking the case of twins)We are born alone and we have to die alone so there is nothing like loneliness. It’s just you don’t make friends… Don’t worry make yourself your own friend…talk to yourself the best way to make yourself inspire and fight with the tension, depression etc. In this world we all are having problems and targets to achieve so you are not alone all the people are moving with you… Don’t worry if your friends and family don’t understand you… You try your best to make them understand how you are feeling or how you feel… Talk to your mother or father they must understand you… You just be calm and have some faith in yourself and also in god…Smile and take a long breath and tell yourself you are the best and its your best day… And achieve your goals… All the best… :)
How can I get rid of depression due to loneliness?
One of the best cures for depression is a change of perspective.First decide if loneliness really causes you depression. Ask yourself whether do you really need company to enjoy life.There are a lot of activities one can do to enjoy alone.Keep in mind that a person dies alone.Being lonely is not something to fear or hate. It will teach you self reliance. You will come up with something to amuse yourself.Keep taking to your parents or siblings. It will help.Sometimes even they might make you feel lonely, in that case just take a stroll around your neighborhood. Go and explore places, gather information of your interest. Any activity that helps to keep you preoccupied.Stop overthinking that you are lonely and that you will always remain lonely.Nobody is always lonely throughout his/her life. Similarly nobody always has company throughout his/her life.You will surely meet someone who will give you the company you need.Do trust me. I have been through depression due to loneliness and have overcome it. You still have the freedom to decide if this answer is helpful or not.You only live once. Stop worrying and enjoy life as if watching a movie. Don't waste your single chance at life to depression. Keep smiling and be happy and satisfied with what you are. Be amazed with how far you have gotten.Keep believing, keep achieving.CheersHope this helps.Forgive me if my grammar sucks.This cover page of a manga might make you smile.Do upvote if you liked the answer. It's just a touch or a click. ^_^
How to cure loneliness?
Hey I feel your question cause I'm go trough to same thing sometimes. Well, Regular Pranayan, Yoga or Meditation is really good for reducing stress & maintaining good health but curing lonliness??I dont think it helps cure lonliness. You may still feel lonely by doing all this. I feel a way to cure lonliness is to occupy yourself with something you love doing. Sure you have something that you love doing or something you desire. So go ahead and do it. Example, for me, when I'm lonely, I listen to music, chat with people and to feel busy, I get to the gym to workout. That helps me a lot. Hope you got my point, just do or occupy yourself with something you desire or love doing. Anyways, I understand if your going through this or if your asking for someone else, I truly understand lonliness. I'm saying this because I recently lost a loved one. Not some distant relation but in my immediate family. Day by day, I'm missing that person more and more. I'm still young, single, not married and just about to finish my teens. So I'm lonely too but I try my best to occupy myself with the things I desire the most. Sorry if I went to far on my explaination, hope I helped you out on this situation.
Recently separated and VERY lonely/bored. Any suggestions?
wow buddy we are both in the same boat, after 5 years my wife suddenly told me she didn't love me anymore, I have been alone for about 3 months now, I am just waiting for the divorce papers to come in the mail. I hate to say this but being at you mom house is the worst place to be, I could of gone back home to but I knew it would drive me crazy, so I still live in our apt, but I have remodel, made it more me her things are her but packed up, just haven't got them to storage yet. I live in the city, walk alot, just go walking, exercise you have to start living for youself now, I go window shop, just keep my mind of things. yes I hurt she turn around and walk out of our marriage and I just have to live with that, nothing I can do to change it. do you have any hobbies you can start up again.just the little things to keep you busy!!! good luck my friend!!!
How to cope with loneliness?
I’m 25 and in grad school. Have great prospects for jobs and I’m not tied down so I could get a job anywhere in the country when I graduate. I’ve recently left a long relationship that wasn’t healthy and overall I’m a lot happier/healthier. However, she was my best friend and we did a lot together. I’m in a new city and an friends with the people in my program but it’s not like undergrad. All I do is work, study, and go to the gym. I know I need to just keep my head down and get a good job, but I’ve found that on weekends when I don’t have much going on I just keep to myself because I don’t have anything to do. Any suggestions?
What can I do to overcome my loneliness?
You feel lonely so you want to cling to something, to somebody, to some relationship, just to keep the illusion that you are not lonely. But you know you are — hence the pain. On the one hand you are clinging to something, which is not for real, which is just a temporary arrangement — a relationship,a friendship.And while you are in the relationship you can create a little illusion to forget your loneliness. But this is the problem: although you can forget for a moment your loneliness, just the next moment you suddenly become aware that the relationship or the friendship is nothing permanent. To avoid loneliness, He/She creates all kinds of relationships, friendships, organisations, political parties, religions and what not. But the basic thing is that he is very much afraid of being lonely. Loneliness is a black hole, darkness, a frightening negative state almost like death as if you are being swallowed by death itself. To avoid it, you run out and fall into anybody, just to hold somebody’s hand, to feel that you are not lonely. Nothing hurts more than loneliness.But the trouble is, any relationship that arises out of the fear of being lonely is not going to be a blissful experience, because the other is also joining you out of fear. You both call it love. You are both deceiving yourself and the other. It is simply fear, and fear can never be the source of love. Only those who love are absolutely fearless; only those who love are able to be alone, joyously, whose need for the other has disappeared, who are sufficient into themselves.The day you decide that all these efforts are failures, that your loneliness has remained untouched by all your efforts, that is a great moment of understanding. Then only one thing remains: to see whether loneliness is such a thing that you should be afraid of, or if it is just your nature. Then rather than running out and away, you close your eyes and go in. Suddenly the night is over, and a new dawn. The loneliness transforms unto aloneness.Aloneness is your nature. You were born alone, you will die alone. And you are living alone without understanding it, without being fully aware of it. You misunderstand aloneness as loneliness; it is simply a misunderstanding. You are sufficient unto yourself.― Osho