Life Struggles?
I am speaking to some middle school kids as a school project about improving thier overall lives. it is a group project and we are talking about various topics including academics, nutrution, and drugs. I am talking about life struggles and am really at a loss of what to say. i was thinking about saying something along the lines of how they shouldnt get down on themselves when things dont go their way, and that they should keep the mentality that what doesnt "kill you makes you stronger" do you guys have anything else that you think i could add in cause i need more to say than what i have thought of
What should i do during lunch (High school) if i dont got any friends?
Aww I'm sorry :( try asking one of your teachers who seems nice if you could sit in their classroom during lunch. Or try talking to people you notice who have your lunch while you're in class, then ask if they'd like to sit with you :) good luck! I remember how tough highschool was. Above everything else, remember no one can make you feel like you're inferior without your consent
What does it mean when you dream struggling to walk?
Walking is fundamental. It is a skill we perfect quite young. We learn to walk before we learn to talk, which is an amazing thing all by itself. We don't stand babies up and try to walk them around everyday, but we do talk to them and try to get a response from them many times per day. Yet they walk around on wobbly little legs and babble and yell.A dream where you cannot walk means that you have a fear that something fundamental in your life is off. That there is some factor that is very basic that is keeping you from your goal. It could be a lack of money or your social status or the availability of a certain resource being limited. You may have a goal that you see others achieving, but for some reason you cannot figure out how to do it yourself.You may also have a support system that has suddenly disappeared, leaving you feeling uncertain. The death of a parent or a friend moving to another city can leave us feeling uprooted and unstable in our own lives.It is literally a dream about the fear of not being able to stand on your own two feet and support yourself and your goals. It does not mean you will fail, it just means that you have a normal fear that is based on insecurity. And insecurity itself is not a bad thing. It shows us where our weak spots are. Your mind is reminding you to work on those things as best you can. Save money, become more independent, search for opportunity. Dont let a circumstance in your life determine how you live or what you accomplish.
My best friend has big ol' boobs!! ?
So I'm in 8th grade. Girls here usually have b cups. My best friend Is a LARGE c. Maybe even D. And I'm an A ! I hate being next to her because I feel ugly and like people look at her not me. Her boobs aren't fake either. I've seen her in a bikini( no homo!) sometimes I don't walk with her. But then she comes by me. And when we always pass guys I'm the halls, they say hey Meagan! And don't even notice me. I have liked this boy for a few years. And I finally asked him out, and he says" no, but I will be glad to go out with meagan ! And I walked away and he said " grow some boobies! I started crying and I told her about it, and she looked at her boobs, and was all ugh, I'm such a guy magnet! "I've never had a boyfriend and she has had plenty. Any advice for me? This depresses me, and I never want to wake up in the mornings because I know it will be another, long, hard day of being flat chested. Please help
AHHHH.... Meeting his friends!!?
Its definitely not a bad thing, I am completely comfortable with the idea of meeting his friends and I'm excited that he wants his friends to meet me.. We've been dating for about a month (determined that we are exclusive, but not bf/gf ....yet.) He wants to take me to his hometown where we will go out to a bar and meet up with a bunch of his close friends (friends for 15+years!) My question is guys or girls: When you meet your buddy's girl what do you expect or look for? What is the first thing you notice about her that you like and or dislike?! (not necessarily physical features..but personality, quirks..etc..) I'm sure I'm fretting about this more than I should be..but a few tips or advice could never hurt!!!
How do you tell the "fake" friends from the "real" friends these days?
For me personally, having my babby and going through PPD showed me who me real friends are. My "online friends" - i.e. all the lovely people I have met off this forum, have been there for me more than my "real life" friends. I have one person in my "real life" whom I can honestly call a real friend - my friend who is also 100 odd miles away at uni. Our friendship has surivived my having a babby, my going though depression and her being 100 odd miles away. My old real life friends couldn't understand my illness, and so therefore they are not my true friends. I know it's very hard to judge a person's character fully via the internet, but when these people are willing to read pages of pages of why you're feeling so rotten, and actually try and make you feel better - it makes me want to jump through the screen and give them a massive cuddle for taking the time to do that. .. I'm kinda rambling, but I hope you get my drift.... :)
My boyfriend left me suddenly without having a fight or giving me any reason. I still love him. What should I do?
Know a few things-1. You are not alone in this situation. There are innumerable people on planet earth who feel heartbroken or who are cheated in love or have had bad relationships.2. Look for the brighter sides. He could have fought really badly. He could have cheated and been arrogantly proud of the fact. He could have had an affair with your sister or best friend. He could have spread some really horrible rumours about you. He could have indulged in domestic violence. He could have broken not just your heart but also your spirit.3. What if he would leave you without giving you reasons a couple of years down the line. That ways he could have taken away your few more PRECIOUS years. That would have been worse, Isn't it?4. The fact that he did not even have balls to talk it through in itself should be the biggest proof that he was a jerk.5. Understand that he is very under confident and insecured guy. Life is so short. You really think you should be waiting for reasons. Not at all. You were too good for him. You deserve love and attention of real gentlemen not such idiots.6. There are many many interesting, happy and ambitious guys out there. You can't see them because you are too stuck on this one. Go explore.Get out and see the world. Travel around. Perhaps it is time to catch up with lady friends. Visit your relatives. Visit your grand mom/dad. Visit your school. Meet your teachers. Keep yourself busy. Read voraciously. Revise your goals and to do list. Indulge in movie marathon. Start dating other people. And meanwhile completely disappear from his life. Don't stalk him on social media. Unfriend him, unfollow him. Delete his contact , his mails. Forget him. Pretend he never existed. Write down all his bad qualities and exaggerate them further. Most importantly, be nice to yourself. Understand that you were too good for such jerks . It is not your fault if he did not give reasons. He is an idiot. Thank God for ridding him from your life. Pay attention to your physical and mental fitness. Run, swim, cycle meditate. Give yourself some time and fall in love with yourself. Every thing will be great. You will be fine and do wonderful. :)