Does He Feel Comfortable With Me

What does it mean when a guy tells you that he is comfortable with you?

I asked my boyfriend if he loves me after being with him one evening. And he said “ Yes. But not to marry you or to live the rest of my life with you. It's just that I like the way you are and I'm comfortable around you. I like being with you”.I felt he's not serious with me from his behaviour. That's why I actually asked that question from him. Because I thought about how I was being treated and decided it was time for me to move on from this person.So when I hear him say that I said then it's time for me to move on because I need a family. I saw how much he was shocked and hurt when he said “yes I understand”.So if a guy says he's comfortable with you then it means it's fun to be around you and nothing more serious.Isn't your life serious? Think wisely and decide.Good luck :)

Does it mean that you still care if you feel uncomfortable around your ex and avoid eye contact?

Yes it means you still care. You can’t fake like you don’t care anymore or like you aren’t hurt by his/her decision. Maximum you can do is accept she doesn’t want you in his/her life anymore and stay away.Let me tell you my story. A short one. It was two long years after she asked me to stay away from her. February 12th, 2016, Fate or coincidence, we both met each other again at a restaurant on the same day I proposed her, two years back in 2014. Not as strangers again, this time with memories. I stood frozen as I was so happy to see her again with our mutual friends. She couldn't look at me as she was probably feeling guilty and overwhelmed or because she was indifferent. Emotions ruled the scene. All the Worlds a stage and both of us were the leads in the play called LIFE. I composed my thoughts, gathered up the courage and shook hands with her and told a "hi" smiling outside, but weeping inside. The moment where I guided her hair behind her ears in the latest picture of hers flashed in my mind and all those emotions of love and togetherness preoccupied my mind. All she could think was "I know how much you are hurt and I don't know what am I going to do to make up for it". Our minds spoke these words and the other person exactly deciphered the other's thoughts. And we both left saying a "Hi", still hoping that the other should be happy. Sometimes silence speaks a thousand words, with more deep meaning.Words take back stage. Love is much more than just a feeling.And Yes, I STILL CARE ABOUT HER and TRULY LOVE HER THOUGH I STAY AWAY FOR I WANT HER TO BE HAPPY and not feel guilty or sad seeing me. And yes I haven’t come across her ever since even though she lives just 2 miles away in the same city as me.

What does he mean when he ask are you comfortable with me?

First of all, how long have you known each other? Has he said that he loves you and if he has do you believe him? Do you think that he is trying to trap you and maybe letting your guard down in front of him is a bad idea? As long as you are doing so in a healthy manner and you are both really into each other, i would say that he is really getting into you.My man asked me the same question so that he could trust that we could talk about anything. This type of communication helped him trust me and have the confidence that our relationship was getting serious and he made the decision that he wanted to be with me and only me. Talking about anything means that you can discuss taboo topics like politics, religion, sexual fantasies, etc. This helps in establishing closeness and grounding intimacy.They tell you secrets without shame. They may not be happy about admitting their secrets, but they don’t mind if you know, because they trust that you are close enough and you won’t turn around and leave them. This man is looking to continue with a serious relationship and not a relationship to be left hurt or abused.The big step is relaxing their personal hygiene, such as burping or passing gas. This may not sound like a big thing, but no one wants to be judged for what they do or don’t do in private. The judging aspect is a really big thing! If they trust you and have confidence that you are the one and that you have their back, he will forget about your phone or computer and lend you his. If he offers to lend you his phone on his own, that means that he trust you and he feels really secure around you. He has nothing to hide!If he hasn’t said that he loves you, maybe he has to be certain about all the signs from you before making a declaration of love. He might have been hurt in the past and is being careful. He may be worried about being vulnerable.Be patient! Your man is showing you his love cautiously and in creative ways.

How can you tell when a guy is comfortable with you?

The first thing that came into my head is that he stops trying to be “macho” or manly all the time. He allows himself to be vulnerable and into the sad or sensitive sides of himself. He is honest about feelings that are painful or make him feel less than secure.He tells you about himself in a manner that isn’t “I can do this. . . ., I am so good at . . . . and the like.” More like, things at home aren’t good, it bothers him when. . . .And finally, he stops feeling like he has to compete with other guys for your attention and/or stops worrying about you “talking” to other guys. I mean talking not sexting or sexing. He becomes confident in your relationship together and isn’t worried about you messing around.As someone else said, it is a continuum and comfortable ebbs and flows.