Why is this guy calling me "buddy" when he's flirting with me?
We've known each other for years, but the flirting between us is intensifying. He compliments me all the time (calls me "hot", a guy magnet, etc.) and he's touchy-feely, especially after he's had too much to drink. What catches me off-guard is that he calls me "buddy" and says things like "hey, buddy" or "you're just like the little sis I never had". But one his friends told him "you'd never act like that with a little sister" and he didn't say anything. Wtf?
Why does my ex call me buddy.. Is he flirting with me?
He does love you but not on the way your thinking. You guys sound like amazing friends but to say that you guys could be boyfriend/girlfriend it won't happen. You guys have a brother sister love. Ya you care for each other and are honest with each other but isn't that what siblings do. I have the same relationship you just discribed minus the nicknames with my brother. We are really close and always have been. You guys are just really good friends so enjoy what it is and don't think to much on it. Every thing happens for a reason my dear so enjoy your friendship. Friendships like that are hard to come by.
Do other people have flirt-buddies?
I have what I call a 'flirt-buddy'. We're in high school (but we go to different schools), and we're both attractive people. We see each other every Fourth of July and tease each other and flirt and joke around a lot, and sometimes finish each other's sentences. I don't really want to be his girlfriend though, and I have no intention of sleeping with him. I just want to be friends and flirt. Do other people have flirt-buddies?
What are signs that your guy friend/ buddy is flirting with you (we are both in our mid twenties)?
Here is my Top 10 of signs that a guy is super "into" you...Smiling. He smiles at you all of the time; sometimes you'll catch this out of the corner of your eye when there is no obvious reason.The "Shy Blush". He blushes a lot when he catches you looking at him, when you laugh at his terrible jokes, when you mention his name, just when you're close by.Eye Contact. He will hold your gaze for far longer than is necessary. And he'll do it all the time.Mirroring. He will unconsciously copy aspects of your behavior, laugh when you do, smile when you do. His blink rate will match yours and he will moderate his speech patterns and even his voice. You may find yourself asking, "Why are we whispering?"Hands on Hips. No, not a reference to doing the Time Warp (song). If he stands with his hands on the hips or places the thumbs in the belt loops, he might be interested in you. It's an unconscious display of confidence.Touching. He may touch your arm or hands way more than necessary. It's his way of trying to get your attention and find any excuse to continue a conversation with you.Head Tilts. If he tilts the head towards you, this means he’s listening attentively to each word you say. This also means he’s really attuned to what you are talking about and he’s really interested in conversation with you.Dilated Pupils. When he looks at you, watch his pupils closely. They will grow to the size of dishes.Raised Eyebrows. He may hide his eyes when he is around you because he likes you. He can keep his eyebrows a little bit raised as well. If his eyes are widened and his eyebrows remain raised while you’re talking, this is definite sign he is flirting with you.Fidgeting. If you see him fidgeting, this is because he’s interested in you and he is a bit nervous... possibly too nervous to actually tell you.
How do I know if a guy is flirting or just messing with me as a friend?
I have to say that most of the points mentioned by Priyadarshi are true. We boys are ourselves confused about how we feel towards a girl. Even though a boy can mess with you as a friend, he could also be flirting with you. The dufference is not alway clear, though.Like Priyadarshi said, there are a few points worth noticing, and I can add to that:The special treatment: He could prioritize you over other female friends of his.However, the best is to check this consistently because some of his ‘seemingly prioritizing’ gestures could be common among other friends too. If he takes time out for you or mentions that talking to you makes him feel way better, then that could indicate an attraction towards you.Listening to you more attentively than he doe with other friends: A clear indication that he’s onto something more than just being friends. Even if he somehow doesn’t know that himself (rare cases :P).The ‘distinguishable’ compliments: He will compliment you on anything (just not on your looks) in a different way that is easily distinguishable. Boys who flirt often wanna make their compliment stand out from the others’ such that you get the point.Making you blush or blushing when the joke’s on him: Another clear indication that he’s not just messing with you. We wanna make the girl we like blush with comments that make the girl feel special. On the other hand, when in an embarrassing situation, friends will laugh off the matter but a guy who’s into flirting with you will blush, no matter how hard he tries not to. ;)He’ll make a date, not a get together: If you’re single, the guy who is flirting with you doesn’t wanna just be a friend always. So he will seek opportunities to make ‘alone’ time together with you; just you and him. Might ask you out, even if its not an official ‘date’, he will make the day seem like one. If he’s just messing with you as a friend, the day will feel like hanging out with a friend.Hope his helps… :)
Why does he keep flirting with me if he says he just wants to be friends ?
He is a type we call “a player”. What he is trying to do now is see if you would be willing to be his side piece and a provider of “friends with benefits.” He has no true interest in you, otherwise YOU would be the girlfriend that he buys gifts for, takes out, and worries about. Make sure you understand this game he is playing. Don’t get caught up. Tell him to stop disrespecting you like he’s been doing, and that you used to think much more highly of him but now he has shown himself to be ratchet and trifling. Make sure he knows you are judging him, and that he has come out on the bottom end.
We broke up 2 months ago but he's flirting with me again how do I take this?
first of all, you have to consider why you two broke up. if he cheated or broke up with you for another girl, you have to realize he might just be coming back to you because the other girl didn't work out. if he said he needed time, maybe he realized he missed you and wanted you back in his life! also consider if your boy can get other girls. if you guys broke up and he realized he cant get anyone else, he might just be coming back to what he can get. if you broke up with him, chances are he tried to be strong for those two months but now he can't help but try to get you back. the main thing you must think about, is ... does he treat you right? and does he make you happy? if you answer yes to those questions you guys should work it out. nine months is a long time to be with someone, and obviously you guys are serious about each other. take your time and think about everything. i wish you the best of luck!
What does it mean when a guy flirts with you a lot, but then calls you bud?
no there is not a big psychological reason behind every little thing a guy does...stop taking what guys say technically and literally...jeez EDIT! okay lets look at the other answers: the guys both answered he likes you but the girls who try to interpret guys say friend zone. He likes you! ASK him! dont be nervous and crap..
She calls me a brother but flirts with me a lot. Is she messing with my head?
She is not messing with your head, but with your heart. Flirting is some kind of gesture that usually means there is a some sort of attraction in the heart of the other person. She is calling you a brother, well there are many reasons for this and we can think in number of ways. Let's see some of them.1.She might be afraid of the society to view her as a girl who has a crush on you. To prevent this she is using the call 'brother' as a shield.2. She may think that this is the only way to get closer to you and talk to you all the things she wants and she will be in a safe zone, because in the end, you're just her brother.3. She may be a kind of girl who is much much friendly with the people in her life. Observe her behavior and her attitude when she is speaking to someone else. Then you'll get the answer.4. She has a crush on you, but she is not revealing herself to you. She might be expecting you to stop her calling you brother. Few girls will do this, this may be due to ego or something related to ego. But, yeah that kind of girls do exist. They want you to disclose the feelings first.5. If you see something different in her way of talking and if it is too much flirting involved, then repeat the 3rd point again.Anyways, if anything you find suspicious to you in her, move away from her and be in a safe zone. Because the word 'brother' is not supposed to be used like this in flirting.
How can I explain to my husband that he's flirting without trying to and what is the difference for guys...?
If it causes you enough heartache to seek help, even on Yahoo!Answers, then it's a problem. In my opinion, if addressing this situation hasn't gotten through to him, then maybe this will help: Let him get a dose of his OWN medicine. Be as flirty as you can WITH EVERY GUY. Even his own family...