I need a shoulder to cry on.?
jj22etc: Turn it over to the lord.He hears you.You know that to be true.You told me yourself.I get down sometimes too.We all do.But you know who always picks us up.He never forgets us and is always holding our hand.Did you ever hear of the FOOTPRINTS poem.It is about a young man or woman who like us had some tough times.He asked the lord why in his most difficult of times he always saw only 1 set of footprints not 2 while he was walking with Jesus on the beach.The lords reply was."Son when you only saw 1 set of footprints that is when I carried you" so sometimes when I get down like all of us do I read that poem and it picks me up and gives me the strength to continue on.You are a great person whose faith is so so strong.The world needs more people like you.If you want some one to listen or to chat look me up.And keep smiling.Never lose your faith.OK. [John]
Crying on someones shoulder?
Well I am 20 years old. lost my mother from cancer when I was 17...my mom was only 36. I recently lost my dog at 7 months old. I have met a person who is in her 30's...we are pretty tight friends...I practically live at her house when her husband isn't home. We have known each other for only a short while...maybe 4 months. The other night when I was at her house I really felt the need to open up to her about my mother. I never accepted it....nothing I just let it bottle up inside. I was raised in a "not crying allowed" family. Me being female wasn't even allowed to cry. My friend told me to let it out and I did...just started crying on her couch...like that. I tried to stop it but I couldn't..I asked her for a hug and I basically cried on her for 10 minutes....is this normal....I have been told it's not...for some odd reason I felt ashamed to do it?
What does it mean when some says that “I need your shoulders”? Is it included in some vulgarity or it's just normal?
Not vulgar, sometimes to cry on means in an emotional supportive role or perhaps as a compliment to your strength as in physical assistance or the last one I can think of is to reach something higher or to see something higher as in stand in your shoulders.
I need a shoulder to cry on?
go to a quiet place where nobody is around and let it pour. get it out. just because you have always been the strong one doesn't mean you cannot cry! if you don't want your loved ones seeing you then go for a drive and let it out!
Would you lend me your shoulder to cry on?
Yeah of course,I'm nice and warm too You still have the pillow right?
Who has always been your shoulder to cry on?
one should have thought of this before, when one chased everyone away. now is too late for such people. the ones who do not chase people away don’t ask such questions. they know whose shoulders to cry on, and have more than one pair of them. some have much more. i know all this because i am among ones who don’t have anybody, but i don’t ask for a friend now that i am in trouble. lean on own self.
What do you do when there is no shoulder to cry on?
you seem to have gotten into the habit of staying behind a saftey wall u have built yourself over theyears. these new friends of yours are not real friends if this is how they make you feel. ditch the users and concentrate on meeting new ones . when you ditch them and these negative thoughts u will see that there is light there at the end of thetunnel. be yourself always and true to yourself dont change for no one . btw it dont count for much but im here for that shoulder if u need it . take care hun x
I really need a shoulder to cry on right now?
I am the type of person that bottles up everything, so people believe that I am strong. But I've been so overwhelmed by my problems( school, anxiety, depression etc). There isn't anyone that I can open up with..
Should I avoid becoming a shoulder to cry on sort of friend to girls?
I have *some* friends that are girls, and I don't necessarily want to ask them out or anything, but I feel like they like me for advice and all more than anything else... like it couldn't be something more. Is this sort of stereotype boring to women? Women always seem to say they want someone that will listen and be caring, but I just can't fathom why they go for the opposite personality, after saying that.. Is it really a bad thing to be this way? I'm not saying I want to be a "people pleaser"... but I also don't want to get so involved in someone's life so as to get hurt. But I guess you can't live life without falling now and then... post thoughts on this please. =) I know it's conceited to like someone for looks anyway, (not that I would want to date a vain woman) but here are two pictures of me on a good day. http://www.flickr.com/photos/chingpow/ I *did* ask this in another section, but no one has answered... and I would like an answer or two, so I am trying in another section. Have I answered my own question?