Ex boyfriend wants to marry me....?
I had an ex that did the exact same thing around the time I got together with my current boyfriend. I blew him off completely because I recognized his response exactly for what it was - jealousy. He's not actually serious about marriage or a permanent relationship, or he would have put in way more effort not to become your ex in the first place. Marriage is just the only thing in his mind that would keep you away from other men. If anything you should be disgusted, because he's showing he thinks of you as an object to be kept all to himself, rather than a person who can make their own choices. Even worse, he's treating his own girlfriend like a plaything to pass the time until he can get back with you! What you should do is give him a big wake up call and tell him that until he can learn to respect you and your decisions, he doesn't need to be a part of your life.
Why doesn't my boyfriend want to marry me?
Why don’t you ask him where does he see himself 10 years from now. My friend asked his girlfriend and she answered raising your children, taking care of you and my patients (she is a physical therapist). They have been happily married over 20 years.Men are ready to marry at different stages. Perhaps he doesn’t have the economic stability or the income he would like in order to marry. He could also feel he is too young to marry or feel he still needs time or feels insecure. Many men just don’t like losing their freedom, sounds a little selfish, but with time many change and eventually want to settle down and marry. The worst case scenario is he has another girlfriend or another family if he is an older man. You don’t want to change anyone, you want someone that is ready for you, both of you need to be at the right moment in your life to marry.This is a situation you will have to discuss with him. If he does not want to marry you now, and does not intend to marry you later, my suggestion is that you find someone that loves you and wants to share his life with you. Time flies and you do not want to waste your time with someone which doesn’t have your same goals in life. That doesn’t mean he is not a good person or that you don’t love him, it just means that you are looking for someone to share your life with, I don’t think you want to spend your life with someone which does not want to marry you, the only way to find out his motives and true intentions is by having a heartfelt conversation with him . Tell him how much you love him and you want him to be part of your life in the future, ask him what are his thoughts on the matter. You can also ask him the other way I suggested (where do you see yourself in x number of years?) which gives you a hint to what he may be thinking but that will lead to asking him in a more direct fashion later anyway.I also want to remind you that marrying someone is the easy part, the difficult part comes afterwards. And they lived happily ever after does not exist. Successful and happy marriages do happen but they don’t happen on their own just by marrying, they require a strong commitment and effort on both parts, good communication, respect and of course love which is essential. My mom says that when she wakes up she likes to conquer my father’s heart every day. I wish you luck
How do I know my boyfriend wants to marry me?
If you are shy to ask direct question you try this trick to get a hint what is really going in his mind.If you go out and about with your boyfriend in the mall find a bridal shop. Stop and stare the mannequin wearing a bridal gown with full of admiration.Grip tight your boyfriend's hand and say, " I wish I will wear that wedding gown soon." Then, glance at him and analyse his reaction.Then, if you sense nothing after that first trick. Do it again. Leave a week gap.Take him for a window shopping and spot a jewelry shop. Go inside and try a ring without bothering your boyfriend next to you. Then when you find the ring you like, show it to him."Isn't it pretty?" You say and sigh, " Aren't I lucky if I gonna be engaged one day?"If you haven't got a wedding message from him, you try one more time. Again leave a week gap.This time, take him to the park. Find a happy couple with kids having a nice time in the park. This time you hug your boyfriend and look at straight into his eyes for a while, then divert away your eyes to the happy family.You say, " Oh I wish...will have a family...just like that." You sigh and turn your eyes back to your boyfriend.If you haven't sensed a wedding proposal, he either is a sort of person who is scared of commitment.
My boyfriend wants to marry me and wants me to move from USA to Egypt and be muslim what do i do?
a muslim male can marry a christian or jewish woman without her having to convert to islam. he is not allowed to force u to convert to islam (that is a choice u have to make urself), and u should be allowed to practice ur faith. any children from this marriage would have to be raised as muslims. obviously even if u do not convert it will be highly unlikely that u will be allowed to consume alcohol or pork. u will probable have to dress more conservatively than is the norm in the US, but that's the case in most eastern countries, whether predominantly muslim or not. the culture in egypt is completely different to the US. I would suggest that u visit the place first with a male relative to see how the family lives, where u will be expected to live after the wedding and what u are expected to do after the wedding (continue career, work from home, be a housewife) i have seen marriages like these work out but there are also cases where the guy completely changes after the wedding (and not just bcos of religious or cultural differences). u dont say how or whether u have met or low long u have known him, but i hope i have given u some things to talk to him about before making ur decision
Why did my boyfriend say he wants to marry me?
My boyfriend has told me more than 3 times that he wants to marry me. I thought he was joking. But we spent the night together just talking and he sounds serious, he said "Your my last." because i asked him how many women he had been with he said "2, but you are my last. I am never letting you go, I almost lost you once and it will not happen again. I want to marry you. I want us to be married, and children too. What do you think?" I said "Oh." He said "Would you marry me? not now. After school when we are both done. I would like to marry you." Is he joking... I mean what kind of man will say this to his girlfriend? I'm 19, he's 25. We've known each other for a year or so, and we dated last year but he did something to make me leave and he's been trying to get me back for 9 months until I gave him another chance. We met when he saved my life and slowly began talking etc. he is a nice guy, loyal, friendly, supportive caring. I'm in university and he is finishing this year he is also a Nurse.
I want to marry my married boyfriend, what do I do?
Sometimes we fall for people we know we shouldn't fall for, but then we need to stop and ask ourselves if this is truly what we can allow ourselves to do.If you want to marry him, then tell him. Tell him you want to progress more in your relationship with him. If he says no, then you should see that as him not wanting to leave his wife. So he has one foot in with you and one foot in with her. At the end of it, you may not get what you want. If he says yes then you got what you wanted. But please keep in mind, you both have knowingly hurt another person. There's nothing wrong with loving someone, but you've both aided each other in lies and deceite towards his wife. Someone who doesn't know any better. The least you two can do is to release her from what you are selfishly doing. She may not be happy but she at least knows the truth.How would you feel if he actually has a 3rd person? Will you be on with that? I hope you don't think I'm judging you, if anything I just want you to try and empathize with how his wife will feel when she finds out.
My boyfriend wants to marry me and settle down. But I also want to do masters before settling down. What should I do? (Read whole question below)
My wife has completed her masters in Auckland after our marriage.Now she is working in Auckland and i have my business in Delhi.I never think to distract her from her goal.If your husband loves you he will not be hurdle in your studies.Even you should get better strength to achieve your goals.And why you will have to leave your studies?Do you accept male dominated world?However its the mind setup of girls that after marriage they need to obey her husband. In fact the girls need not obey.They need to be good partner and its husbands part that he should take care of your likings. Husband should only need the honest partner.You can do anything you want to do if you both are honest to each other.One more thing why little name?Be big, do more than your husband.World is open for you. I am waiting the day when my wife will earn more than me. She has her own identity in her workplace and i encourage her to be a successful lady with her own identity. No man is successful until her wife has her own identity.
My boyfriend told his mother he wants to marry me...What does that mean?
My boyfriend (of two years) told his mother that he wants to marry me. Although him and I have talked about the marriage issue (more than he'd like to lol) and have agreed that one day, yea, we're gonna jump the broom. A few days ago his mom accidentally told me that he talked to her about marrying me... He even showed her the ring (online) that we picked out... What does that mean? (lol) Like if we've been talking about it for a while now, what does it mean that he's just now telling his mom??
Does my boyfriend in the army really want to marry me? He wants to get married after graduating from AIT, we have been dating for 5.5 years, he won’t talk specifics of our possible marriage.
No he is probably not. My husband wanted to marry me after our first date. There is no way that he would wait five and a half years to lock me down.AND your man doesn't even want to talk about it?Oh hell no. My dad (okay, we are hicks from Illinois) would always say “shit or get off the pot.” In other words, do it or get lost.Unless there are other issues which you have not disclosed, like he was married and still tangled up in a divorce settlement, it does not seem like he will marry you. My little sister just married her boyfriend. He is in the military also. He is a marine. My little sister is 34 years old, and GORGEOUS, and her husband wanted to lock her down ASAP.So now, you have a tough thing to consider. What is more important to you…getting married or being with him? I had the same problem. I really did not want to get married, but he really wanted to marry me. I had to marry him because I really do love him so much, and I didn't want to wake up to find him gone.Will he marry you to keep you from leaving him?I married him to keep him from leaving me.He needs to be more understanding of what you want.Why would you want to marry a man who will not protect your heart and give you what you need? Even if that thing you need is marriage?You need to talk to him. Sit him down and say…Look, I am not stupid. Every time I bring up marriage, you seem to want to avoid the subject. So, will we be getting married or not?If he says yes, you say…Great. I am so in love with you, and so excited to marry you, that I want to pick a date right now. Let's get out our calendars and pick a date. I will then be ordering wedding invitations.See how he reacts. If he hesitates, tell him you are done right then and there, because it seems like marriage is what you want and if he won't do it, you will never truly be happy.Good luck. I hope you set a date tomorrow!