Does she like me or is she just being a friend?
> The very same act can mean flirting or being friendly. So it’s sometimes impossible to distinguish on the surface.She might be friendly, without the intention to flirt, and you can still interpret it as flirting; then act as if you did interpret it so (= act flirty yourself). If there is chemistry, it actually *becomes* flirting, regardless of her initial intentions. You shouldn’t need to try too hard to see if she wants to play along or not. If she doesn’t, her initial intentions are clear (or she’s shy and/ or didn’t think about you that way - yet)She might actually be flirting with you. If you think so, there is a good chance she is. All you have to do is be light- hearted and play along. Be funny, positive and respectful (playful teasing/ antagonism can be in that category, though) and you will have nothing to lose. Immature (young or otherwise) women might not be able to deal with a friendly flirt and become dismissive, but that’s not your issue to fix.> Sometimes it IS possible to tell what her intentions are by reading her body language. This ability is a skill you have to practice. If you know the person well, it’s easier to do.Generally speaking, if she’s interested in you and wants to communicate it subtly through flirting, some general signs are: Looking at you often (briefly or not), sizing you up, looking at you lips - then the eyes - and possibly back, talking to you with her body faced in your direction, mirroring your body language, changes in her voice as opposed to her normal tone/pace of voice, abundant laughter even at your worst jokes, shyness, redness of face and many more.—-I would go with the first option and try flirting myself to check where the interaction is heading. Body language & mood reading will still be necessary then.
She flirts but then says she wants to be friends?
why? one minute shes really flirty commenting on my looks etc and laughing at all my jokes, when I ask her if she would ever kiss me shes saying she wants to take things slow and wants to be friends....then says she met someone else before me but is just friends with them too...?!?! Did I blow it?
What Zodiac Sign does each my friend sound like the most ?
10 Female She is compassionate ,ambitous She want to be doctor to help people She help sick people she is very brave she is not afraid of blood She is very daring dare to be surgeon n hate male chunavastic because She need respect , she can be rude to such male chunavastic She angry will scold vuglar words , she is leasy going She like a guy she will do anything to get what she what She will be close with her friend husband but wont snatch A guy think she is crazy ,posseive
Does this sound like a guy who just wants to be friends?
I can see your problem, and it's a tough one, but from most of your clues, I would say that he definetly wants to be more then friends. If he hasn't made a move by now, he's probably just nervous of becoming more then friends! Don't wait for him, make the first move and ask how HE feels. If he doesn't feel the same way...it's his loss, and you can still be friends! Things might be awkward for a bit after you confront him about his feelings, but it's for the better, especially if YOU have romantic feelings about him! Good Luck!
My enemy wants to be my friend again?
I had a fight with this one girl and one of my bests friends didn't stand up for me and took the girl who was fighting with me side! after that she was very mean to me and told my friend that she was just using me. but today she phoned me and said that she was reading all the letters that we wrote to each other and just realized what good friends we are and how i've always been there for her! she's leaving our school and wont be see'in the gal who was fighting with me anymore! my mum says that i should go sleep over because she was the bigger person by phoning and that she's trying to make it right! but im scared that she'll just use me again and that she's just trying to get info from me!! should i be friends wth her? what should i do?
I read my friends emails! Best Answer gets 10 points!?
Ok so once my friend gave me her password for her email account so one time I just logged onto her account for fun to read some of her emails, and then i found some about me and some secrets she never told me. After awhile, I logged on again, and the same thing happened. Now, I do it everyday. I read all her emails and I just can't stop. I haven't told her and she has no idea. I don't know what to do. I want to stop, because I know this can only hurt our friendship, but I don't know how. Should I tell her what I do? How can I stop? Please help me. I need advice.
Love: She rejected me and wants me to be her closest friend, I cannot, please read the description, what do I do?
Honestly, its mind boggling just reading it. It sounds like a ball of confusion; that "ball of confusion" - is the inner you.State of mindYour state of mind needs to change. Change "how" you "think" and change will follow.First of all, don't allow someone else to have control over your emotions; get control of your emotions. She is literally, pulling your emotional strings; back and forth, back and forth, and at the same time - doing what she wants to do. It sounds like you realize that, but you can't quite come around to pulling away "emotionally."Mentally, you're there, now you need to detach from her - emotionally.One way to detach emotionally, is to have no contact with her. No matter how much she begs, kicks and screams, free yourself of all "attachments" to her. It might be difficult at first, but you have to separate yourself from her - even phone calls, in order to give yourself time to - recover. You need space.People come into our lives for various reasons, In your case, this person, was there to make you stronger emotionally. Look at her as a test; a test that is meant to strengthen you emotionally, and to become a stronger "you." You're an emotional mess. You need to become a stronger person.It's selfish of her, to know how you feel about her, throw her affairs in your face, and at the same time keep you hanging on emotionally, and expect you to be her friend.Do what you need to do for yourself! So you can be restored "emotionally." The longer you wait the harder it will be; you will remain trapped "emotionally", the longer you are around her.Break the "attachment" detach!
Can a guy and a girl be just best friends if someone wants more?
Sounds like you are in the friendzone. She is treating you like she’d treat a gay friend. She is also a girl who likes intimate contact, which is a style of love language (Read the book ‘The 5 love languages” - good book) and its confusing you.This sounds like a one way street though. She is getting all her needs of having a boyfriend met without having to make the investment of sex, which is a big deal to a lot of girls.If you like her you need to do something man-to-woman. EG: Kiss her like a boyfriend would kiss her. If you are happy being friends then just be friends. The important thing is though that you establish your own personal boundaries and standards and don’t let anyone make your waver, or take advantage of you, or make you feel bad about what you desire as a man.The excuse she gave you about not wanting a relationship is a cookie cutter excuse girls generally use. She is likely a nice person deep down and doesn’t want to give you a bitchy answer. Girls are rarely straight up with rejections in these scenarios, but in short she’s saying “I’m not interested, I don’t want to be mean, and I really hope you get the hint”Think about it this way. If Ryan Gosling asked her to be with him tomorrow, do you think she would say “Oh no I’m not ready for a relationship because I’m scared of getting hurt?”Hell no. When people are attracted sexually to another person, they make excuses in their head as to why it IS ok and generally, after a bunch of rationalization based on not much logic at all, go and get with the person.That kind of excuse is the most you should expect from a girl either way. The mum obviously loves you too cos she can probably see you are friendship material too, and she’s likely bought into the myth that friendships are a good way to move into a relationship, when in actual fact that is usually an exception, as opposed to a rule.
Let's just be friends... do women really mean it?
Some really do and some just want to string you along. When anyone says that you can only be friends. If they want more like the one your talking about it sounds like she may be ya know that got to have it now/can only go without for so long kind of person.She should have just been up front with you in the beginning.
Friend thinks she s an incredible singer. She sounds like a cat dying painfully and slowly. What to do?
As the title says, my friend thinks she s an incredible singer. She sends me videos of her covering different songs every other day and she massacres them. I wish I was exaggerating but I m not. She considers herself to be exceptionally talented and true, she is. It s not easy to sing every single note off key. I wanted to make sure it wasn t just me, so I ve let a few others listen to her vids and they were flabbergasted. She gigs, she wants to create a set and perform next summer at bars and clubs. She sends me these videos with a sense of arrogance and can t stop bragging about how everyone nominates her for karaoke on nights out. I love her, but I can t bare to listen to her singing any longer. I feel immoral for lying to her and saying they re great, but I also don t want to shatter her dreams. What to do?