My wife kisses my old friend. Should I tell my sons and daughters?
Ahh a kiss is but a kiss, accept when it isn’t. Just as the world would be a far less happy and fun place without smiles and laughs, so too without kisses; it would be very subdued and less delightful. The nature of a kiss has considerable range, objective, intensity and what not, but I must confess to being no expert, merely an enthusiastic supporter and practicioner as circumstances permit, encourage or demand. So to your 2 part query: firstly, why not kiss an old friend? - Isn’t that an acceptable-normal acknowledgment of trust, friendship, acceptance? Now the intensity, duration would likely be a friendly quick peck not prolonged deep tongue, right? Secondly, why tell your children? Tell them what, why? Affection is not taboo, illegal or immoral- is it? If there are issues or concerns let the adults consider, review, assess and determine with discussion, agreement and discretion pressing matters and leave the children out of it - unless there is in fact a contributing sexual overture threatening your relationship or certain safety concern. Lips on the cheek of an old friend should not and need not end your relationship nor friendship. Should they? If this makes you uncomfortable bring it up and keep it in the open, try to understand it and accept it, if not, bigger, better steps for adults are needed including not drawing children into it or excluding them from evolving or actual realities that will and do affect their safety and comfort. With increased age and maturity your sons and daughters gain greater understanding of social dynamics, obligations and expectations, feelings, emotions and acceptable behaviour so tell on an as needed basis openly and honestly.
How will the herpes virus affect my social life?
everyone gets cold sores. no oral sex when you have one. no sharing a glass with someone no kissing anyone when you have a sore. you can hug people, and you won't spread it by sitting on a toilet seat. as long as you have no oral contact with someones genital area, then it won't turn into genital herpes. talk to your doctor, and don't stress out. stress makes you break out. my husband gets them, and passed them onto me, just by kissing. he got some medicine from the doctor, and it really heals them quick. it's not a big deal.
Why is my Virgo friend so mean sometimes?
ahh it's their nature, sometimes i find it funny.. My bf is a virgo, and whenever he's mean wth me, i just give him a kiss on the neck, and bite a lil :) Bt dunt think u can do tht wth ur friend, so just give her a chocolate or some sweets.. Try not to take the meaness to heart :)
Is this sexual behaviour normal for a 5 year old?
my step son....at one point while hugging his father started licking his fathers ears....and would also try to lick his fathers nipples when his father is topless or something.....It totally grossed me out....I know kissing on the cheek and hugging his dad is fine...but he really seemed to have an obsession with licking ears. His father would always tell him to stop but not shout at him to scare him or anything(but he also just thought he's just being a kid and doesn't know what he's doing).....anyway....he still did it whenever he got the chance and we'd tell him to stop.....so after a few months....that kind of behavior dissappeared. However.....recently he seems to have an obsession with boobs...he would stare at m breast even if nothing is showing and I'm just wearing a slightly tight shirt and he'll say "I can see your boobs"...... and the other day he said his friends mother has enormous boobs!.....I caught him playing some sexual game with his toy cars the other day...he was making kissy noises....and calling some of the cars women and some men.......anyway.....the most annoting thing for me is that he sleeps in our bed lately all the time because if he sleeps in his own bed he always wakes up in the middle of the night and comes in our bed anyway....well he has his hands in his pants everynight and it seems like he just touches himself down there constantly and it grosses me out cuz then he just touches the pillows and everything else....and whenever he's not playing with toys he seems to be playing down there...... this is kinda making me feel uncomfortable and I don't want him sleeping in the bed with us....I mean he will be 6 in a few weeks and he seems to be noticing stuff about sex lately so i don't know how to tell my fiance to get this kid out of our bed!!!!...without making him feel like I'm just being a bitchy stepmom......anyway......is this kinda behaviour normal for a boy this age? he has a new step dad since his mom got married and afraid he might have seen them doing adult stuff. So what do you think?
My boyfriend wants sex too much?
I am going to be honest with you, this is not normal in a relationship. Normal might be the wrong word, because all relationships are unique in themselves, but in terms of this sort of behaviour, it is not right for him to be doing this to you. Sex should be a special, intimate way for a couple to express their feelings for each other, not something that becomes a chore. If he cannot respect you sexually, you need to reevaluate your relationship (please!) because you don't deserve that. From personal experience, I can say that there are men out there who will respect you sexually, to the utmost degree, and that is what you deserve. Good luck! Please be careful, you owe this to yourself to make sure you're being taken care of.