What are the signals that a girl gives if she's interested in a guy? And what are some crucial signals when she's not interested?
All the answers you see are mostly true but not necessarily implementable..But there are few things you can do from your end and let the rest take care by itself:For guys looking for a girl for marriage (Universal):Be good to yourself and to othersBe bold and confidentShow your aggression (not on her) and it won’t matter if you get physical (again, not on her) for as long as you can come out of it alive :)Study her quickly and efficientlyDon’t repeat conversations or habits again and again…spice up your conversation, look/sound active..don’t make a sad dull face/voice often..show your skills like driving, singing, playing instruments..Don’t bring MONEY topic out..forgot your wallet at home? don’t hesitate in asking her money…don’t bring your EGO out of your pocket, if she is spending for you then let her do that.If she is good to you all the time, there’s something wrong. If she is making fun of you or calling you out names or trying to be serious with you: she is taking you seriously, and that’s a good thing.Show that you are an alpha male: physically/mentally strong, good at resolving conflicts, not hesitant in talking openly and boldly even if it happens to be her personal matters (but keep tab of your limits at the same time)don’t try to impress her with fancy expensive gifts because she is already impressed given that you have followed the first 10 points properly.don’t show your desperation, keep your libido under control. A man with good self control is a man she is looking for.For guys looking for a girl for one-night-stand:You are not rich: you need to look good, charming and have personality. So, you must be blessed with good genes.You must be rich: doesn’t matter if you are good looking or not.For guys looking for a girl for marriage in INDIA:The first 12 points + Horoscope match + Age match + Good Height + not over-weight (depends) + Qualification (mostly advanced degrees) + Decent Salary + good family background + decent property + good looking (depending on how good looking the girl is)[BONUS POINTS: Don’t smoke / drink: Smoking not only makes you look older and uglier but also fks up your brain (you’ll become moody or get frustrated easily). If you are a smoker, quit now.]Summary: Indian marriages are bl**dy complicated and frustrating. From marriage point-of-view, You’ll be cussing yourself for being born as a Middle/upper Middle class Hindu.
If a woman gives you a small kiss on the lips, does that always mean she likes you as more than a friend?
Well, I would say it at least means she is thinking about you as a possible romantic interest. It could be a silly, spur of the moment thing, and I think you would know almost instantly if this were true. So it probably is a warm-up to changing the dynamic of your relationship. Physical attraction is most definitely a signal of friendship beyond besties. If you are somewhat skillful at expressing yourself you might want to tell her you enjoyed the kiss and look forward to more closeness with her. If she was really putting you on, then she'll kick in the arse and run like hell so you don't tickle her silly.
What does it mean if a girl gives you a hug?
I can tell you what it DOESN’T mean. It doesn’t mean that your worth has been validated or established. It doesn’t mean you can expect a hug whenever you demand it. (I see a lot of young people, male and female, demanding hugs from their fellow classmates.) It doesn’t mean that you can slip your hands down to their rump, as is so often portrayed on the screen. And even more extreme in a logical extension, (sorry, but it must be said) it doesn’t mean that you are now a big man and can ‘grab their pussy’ as Donald Trump so eloquently said on the “Access Hollywood” camera while touring a film studio. (Hail to the chief.)Humans often feel affection and it’s good to have an outlet for that feeling. But it’s possible to be both too affectionate and also to develop affection for something or someone who doesn’t offer either party a personal or spiritual benefit. So “guard thy affections.”Hugs can be okay, but be careful how its done. it’s just as good to hug from the side, shoulder to shoulder. I like handshakes. A two-handed handshake can be very warm and affectionate, and does not provoke the question you raised. Try it. You’ll like it.Let’s bring back formal dancing. Clearly males and females can and should approach and touch one another. But it should be in a controlled fashion, so that fewer people feel the need to ask the question you just asked. Thank you for bringing up this important issue.
Does he like me? First date ended in awkward half-hug!?
If you like him and the rest of the date was great I really think you should contact him. The worst thing you could do is losing hope just because of that hug. He might be shy, he might not have been sure wether or not you wanted to kiss or hug him after the date. I've had a similar experience where I totally ****** up a great chance by being too scared and thinking a guy didn't like me because he almost didn't hug me after our first date. We did meet up again because he said he liked me but we were just both to shy and none of us dared to take any initiatives. What could have become a relationship just got too awkward in the end and now we haven't spoken for two years, just because of a misunderstanding. So, if you like him, take the chance and show him what you feel about him before it's too late. Rather take the risk than regretting not doing it. Good luck and I hope it turns out well!
Does a weak handshake really mean the person is weak? I have met some pretty successful people with very bad handshakes. Is this a myth?
You can tell a lot by the way a person does a handshake but weak or bad is a myth.Strong seems aggressive yet firm seems about right to me.My favorite hand shaker holds on for a long shake. It might be minutes long.I like to shake horizontally and not vertically. If I meet a vertical shaker we end up doing circles. I like that.Sometimes I do the dead fish handshake if I know I have an aggressive strong hand shaker. I like that too.Sometimes I do the quick draw hand shake making contact with a quickness.It also seems to me that the handshake is getting replaced by the hug. It seems like people are getting more huggy these days.No. I don’t think that a handshake is a very good indicator of success. It might be an indicator of an opportunist that uses the strong contest handshake.Any handshake is a good one if no one gets hurt. If you are still wishing you had not shaken hands with that fucker 5 minutes later because your hand still hurts then you have an aggressive asshole on your hands.Also: Fist bump High five Giving dap Elbow bump Pound hug
How do I differentiate between a romantic hug and a platonic hug?
Surely there is some context for this hug. It's presumably not a hug between complete strangers. So if it's someone you know, is this the first-ever attempt at any sort of physical expression between the two of you? Is he congratulating or consoling you? Is it possible that he needs a hug? We sometimes do, you know. So...context. Next...what do you want the hug to be? I should have listed this first, because what you want is more important than what he intends. If you want platonic, or on the platonic end of the hug spectrum, make sure your return hug is unambiguously non-sexy and ends first. If you are trending romantic, don't be the first to let go, and make sure you allow sufficient time for your bodies to complete a full scan of one another. In my world it wouldn't stop at that if it was indeed mutual attraction. We would kiss. If I had received the full body scan style of hug and she then turned her face toward me, there would be zero ambiguity. Of course, then comes the problem of kiss management. Because it is a spectrum, after all, and one or the other of us may be significantly less far along that spectrum, and not interested in going any further just at the moment...Ah, but your question was about hugs and I was well on my way toward writing you a personalized manual for love. That would not be good Quora behavior, I suspect. But do feel free to pose any related questions if you wish. They're a lot of fun to answer.
If you are a teacher, What do you do if a Student ( male) winks at you ?
I am apparently a good looking 30s male teacher & have some of the same problems. I teach high school and I know these girls know better. So I have basically three choices: 1. warning/discipline 2. ignore it 3. lightly embarrass them in front of their peers I know that all the so called 'experts' like Wong and all them say go for #1 & 2. But I feel they are out of touch with today's youth which places more importance on peer influence than family than ever before. So I choose #3. For example: When I accidently bring more attention to myself than I should like bend over to pick up an eraser I dropped or what ever and some girl woots or whistles I'll say as a general statement something like "Sorry, I don't feel the same way" or "If someone was concentrating on their work more they might have an 'A' by now". And something of that kind is usually enough to get the class to laugh at them & stop their silly behavior. Also what helps is to talk a little about yourself & your significant other. If you don't have one, get one, or make one up. So every now and then I'll just talk about my wife and how beautiful she is and how long we have been together & that will usually keep the comments down for a while until I have to try one of my methoda again. The whole point is there CANNOT be anyone, student or teacher, or whoever, who thinks that your are interested or not doing enough to keep them disinterested or there can be a whole lot of crapola hitting the fanola.
Is kissing your best friend on the lips ok?
Why Not???Is Lips that bad a part in One's bodyKissing refers to the expression of love. And certainly lips are not categorised under the title private part.Therefore kissing on the lips is certainly not a crime unless it's done forcefully. To kiss on the lips , it depends on grade of love and attachment you have with your friend. As far as me kissing happens naturally rather than the anticipated/planned kisses. When it occurs naturally, the part of the body that is involved in kissing becomes irrelevant. So feel free..Happie kissing