Does my girl best friend like me?!!! Help!!?
I KNOW ITS LONG BUT I NEED HELP PLEASE!!! Alright, so i have had this friend that's a girl, for about a month. we've become Best friends in like this last 2-3 weeks. ive developed a crush onto her. i hope she likes me back, i think she does, but i think im blinding my self from the truth, and she doesn't so i need advice. i think shes really cute. we say we love each other a lot. she is a really jealous person! i don't know if its cause she likes me or cause shes just like that. on ig ( a social website), i posted a wcw(women crush wednesday) of a random girl i thought was cute. she got really jealous, called her ratchet and what not. i read a couple things on how to tell if your friend likes you. one of them was that they never thought anyone was good enough to be your girl/boy friend. i put it to the test. i sent her a couple pics of some girls. and she had an excuse for ALL. even to where she said "she doesn't know how to curl her hair". the other night i was telling her to go to sleep because she was going to wake up early the next morning. i sent a text saying night, and another telling her i loved her, and she got sad, because i said it harsh supposevely. i also read online that when a friend likes you they cant look at you in the eye for a long period of time. i tried that, and i noticed she kinda looks away. i also did three different "does your girl friend like you" test online. all of them said that she was madly in love with me. but then at the same time i kinda doubt it. like the other day she said "my love will always be here for you" but then sent " and my friendship also". normally when they like you they are trying to look cute and stuff, and she send me pics of when shes not in her best beauty state. when im around her at school, shes also comfortable, not a little nervous, and i say this cause online it said that normally crushes are a little nervous around you. we text 24/7. we've never really hanged out after school though, do to the fact that we've only really been friends for so little. i really wish she liked me back, but i feel that im just making myself believe that she does. thanks in advanced.
The guy my best friend likes, likes me ? help !?
okaay, so one of my best friends likes this guy jake . now she like realllllllllly likes him, talkss about him alll the time & gets so excited when he talks to her . buut, im not sure if he likes her . because she is my friend i want him to like her & all, but he knows forsure that she likes him . problem is , the only conversations she had with him were started by him & shes scared to talk to him becasue shes not sure what to say . i think maybe if they talked & he liked her personallity, that he could like her, but for nwo i dont know . now my problem is, is that jake likes me. he told me he did & he asked me who i like , so as a joke i said i like justin bieber & cant cheat on him . but i did like the guy alooot last year . & this year i think hes reallly hott & alll, but it wouldnt feel right going out with him because of my friend . now i told her what he said & he told me he likes me twice & asked me if i like him but i just said that i dont know . & anyways, she says its okay because she cant make him like heer & she said that its obvious he doesnt like her if he said he likes me so that if i like him , i should . but honestly i have a feeling that she wouldnt say anything, but she would be realllllly madd . so what should i do ? because i would want to go out with im but wouldnt it be weird ? & would that make me a bad friend ?
Does my best friend like me?? HELP!!!!?
ok so we were having a text conversation once and she said she was jealous I was pretty and I said "explain to me of how this" (this being a picture of me) "is pretty" in a joking manner. Then she texts me a long paragraph describing a day we saw each other and how my hair looked like gold and how my eyes looked like the sky and how beautiful I was and how much she admired me. She said I was different from the other girls and she was lucky to have me as a best friend. But she never says that kind of stuff to me in real life. She compliments so many other friends who are girls but not to me. She also said she gets nervous whenever I get close to her. Am I bad friend? Or does she like me? I don t know if I like her too, but I m okay if she does or doesn t.
My best friend likes me?! Help!?
I'm a guy and my best friend just told me she loves me! We've been friends since we were 3 (now we're both 17). We did everything together. Everyone we know always say that we act like a couple. My friends tell me she likes me, her friends tell her I like her. I'd always ignore it, knowing (or at least I thought) that we only liked each other as friends, like brother and sister. We were each other first kiss since we both didn't want to kiss some stranger :P. Recently she'd been acting a little strange, saying 'I love you' a little bit more then before, not looking at me in the eye as long, sometime shushing up when I walked up to her in the hallway when she was talking to one of her friends. In hindsight the signs are obvious but I didn't think to much of them before. Then last night I was taking her back to her house from my family's. We reached door and I was about to say goodnight when she kissed me. I was completely stunned. When she stop she said I love you and walked into her house. I just stood there, frozen, my mind a complete blank. Finally I turned around, went back home and started writing this. Shes never had boyfriend, when anyone asked why she didn't want a boyfriend she'd always say she wanted to wait for the right person, she didn't want her heart getting broken. Now I think she thinks I'm that person. The problem is I don't like her that way :(. I only like her as a sister. I don't want her to be sad. I don't want to ruin our friendship. What should I do!? Right now I think I'll just have to go along with it. I want to keep her happy and a friend, and if being with her is what I have to do to keep that way then so be it. Unless someone has alternative, since I'd feel bad at deceiving her.
Uh oh! I like my best friend's brother!! HELP!?
My best friend, Allison, has a brother, Kevin, and yesterday i was talking to her and she invited me to a chatroom (with her bro and a couple of other people) i've always thought he was cute, but never really talked to him. I mean, i saw him at her house sometimes, but i'm really shy with guys so i just pretended like he wasn't there (yea, yea i know :[ ) so anyways, during the chatroom it seemed like whenever i asked a question he would respond to me!! and we'd have these little mini convos together. and so after a little while he IMed me separately (hehehehe) and we started talking and Allison didn't really like it so she started telling me to stop talking to him hahahah and i didn't cause he was fun to talk to! afterwards Allison was like do you have a thing for my bro? cause i think he has one for you. and i was denying it but she kept telling me we should go out..and idk what to do! does he like me?! HELLPP!! :[ btw he's a year older than me and really shy w/ girls. thanks!
My best friend likes my boyfriend help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
TELL YOUR BESTFRIEND TO GET A LIFE.. AND GET HER OWN BOY.. DON'T TOUCH WHAT'S NOT BELONG TO HER.. YOU CAN GET ANOTHER BEST FRIEND.
Help!! Does my best friend like me? (Both girls both bi)?
We've known each other for about 3 years, and we both know we're bi. But I think she might like me. She always goes to me and tells me random things, we text 24/7, she calls me beautiful and gives me a lot of compliments, and a lot of times she'll give me nicknames and call me hers (like "my (whatever)"). One time I told her I was asked if I had a "man" (as a joke) and I almost said her name, in which she said she was fine with that. She also told me she feels like a guy some days, which I support nonetheless. But shes always making some connection between us in our conversations- like making jokes about us getting married, being in love, and stuff like that. We also had a whole argument the other day because I was upset she was getting touchy with another girl. I don't know why I was upset, but she told me she just got nervous around me and whenever I got close to her. Does she like me? Or am I just paranoid? I'm fine either way. Help!
Why does everyone like my best friend more than they like me? She has way more friends than I do, so the people I consider my friends are friends with her as well, and they like her better. I’m always second best and unwanted. What do I do?
Hi friend. I can definitely empathize with what you are feeling. I had the same best friend for elementary school, middle school and most of high school. There was no question she was more popular than me! She was athletic (I am so not!), she was more outgoing than I was and smarter. It never failed that when I had a crush on a boy, he had a crush on her. This definitely led me to feel insecure at times. Looking back, I really wish I wouldn’t have spent so much time comparing myself to her. In college I was able to find new confidence because I had the space to build my own friendships and be myself. I found a group of close friend who really liked me for who I was. The thing is, I hadn’t changed that much since high school. I realized that I had not been disliked in high school. I had simply been defining myself by the way I compared to this friend. Honestly, it damaged our relationship and is something I really regret. I know this is so hard to do, but I would encourage you to remember your value is not defined by what others think of you, or by how you compare to someone else. You are unique and that is a wonderful thing! Please don’t lose this friendship over your insecurities- it is so not worth it! If you would feel comfortable, maybe try telling your friend how you feel. She may be able to help reassure you that you are important and your friendship is appreciated. I wish you the best moving forward. I am here if you need someone to talk to.
HELP! My best friend's uncle has a crush on me and wants to have sex with me! What should I do?
Ok so I am 19 years old and my best friend's uncle is 30 and he told my best friend that likes me and thinks I'm hot and that I'm exactly his type and that if I wasn't her best friend then he would wanna have sex with me. When she told me this I pretended to be grossed out because she was grossed out too, but I secretly am attracted to her uncle. I don't know what to do! The pros is that I think he's hot, he's nice, he's single, and he's funny. The cons is that he is way older, has a 6 year old kid, used to be a drug addict, and he's been to jail before. Also what happens if I do sleep with him and start to get stronger feelings and actually like him alot? That would be too weird for my best friend and I would be my best friend's aunt! When I asked one of my other friend's what to do she said I should have sex with him but secretly and not tell my best friend. So what should I do?? p.s I have had sex many times before so this isnt a situation where I would lose my virginity to him.